Finally caved and made a side blog so I can be a slut off main ✨
About me
transmasc, he/they, 29, white
mainly into men and enbies
polyam but currently single
sub, very eager to submit
will block: anyone under 18, ageless blogs, bigots
Kinks
bondage/restraints
cnc, somno
free use
objectification
cockwarming
exhibition/filming (esp if it's forced)
gangbang/passed around/being the party toy
...and more! Easily corruptable but some limits/nuance at the end
DMs/Interactions/Pics
Pleaseeee I welcome them! Especially if you see me posting on here I'm probably wanking and desperate and needing to be used
If you get off to my posts/blog I want you to tell me in detail so I can imagine you fucking/using/r@ping me
And ESPECIALLY if you're a dom based in the UK I would love to know 🫣🥵
Limits/nuance
Limits: most age play, scat, pregnancy
Listen, breeding is so hot conceptually and I love the feeling of people cuming in me irl with a condom but the concept of pregnancy is so abhorrent to me 😭 so fill me up will all the fictional cum in the world but it's not allowed to have any consequences
the act of dry humping is so sexy to me like, gripping one another, pulling at layers of clothes and biting one another’s lips while you grind against each other. moaning into parted lips, sucking on tongues, soaking through your underwear. hips smooshed against one another, rolling them back and forth with no real goal except for making each other feel good, just wanting to be close. maybe you cum, maybe you don’t but it’s all so desperate and dizzying..
bondage is literally so fucking hot, I could care less if it’s a hair tie of mines holding my hands back or ropes. But having me at your mercy and unable to physically do anything does things to my body that it shouldn’t.
could you imagine me waiting for you after a long day of work, exactly how you left me in the morning, wrapped in tight delicate silk and probably crying from annoyance or discomfort
you come in and smush my face against the floor as you hurriedly unbuckle your belt and pull down your pants and with my ass up, all slick and ready like it has been for hours. my anger dissipating the second you bully your throbbing cock all up in my insides.
Spooning but I press the tip of my cock to the entrance of your pussy then play with your tits and bite your neck until you're wet enough to thrust all the way inside in one go
I want you to slip your hand in to your panties right now. If your cunt is wet, then you have reblog this so everyone knows you’re a horny wet slut right now
and to the children in the notes saying we need this fucking baby talk to get around censorship online; there's been no credible evidence that any site other that YouTube (which will only demonetize your video, ftr) will actually censor or hide content that include words like rape, pedophile, gun, terrorist, etc. etc. and even if we take as a given they were (which, again, they are not), do not fucking comply in advance, you absolute fucking coward. and ESPECIALLY do not comply by altering your real life fucking vocabulary. don't let the technocrats dictate what words you say holy fucking shit dude!!!!!!!!!!!!
More than 150 businesses and organisations across Scotland have joined the Apartheid Free Zones (AFZ) Scotland initiative, committing to boycott and divestment measures in line with the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions (BDS) movement.
The initiative includes a wide range of participants, from cafes and independent shops to trade unions, community groups, and cultural institutions.
Manhandling and sadism are so essential to free use for me. As much as I love using your holes, it'll never be enough. I need to use the rest of your body to satisfy my twisted urges. Selfishly indulge myself without warning and at your expense. I need to grope you, slap you, force you onto my lap, grab your hair and grind my bulge against your face, choke you, hit you, pull your hair, force you into uncomfortable positions, shove my fingers inside you, spank and hurt you for my own amusement. I want you to flinch in aroused fear when I reach for anything I could conceivably use to whip you. I want you to get used to wearing clothing that I can easily reach through to access your holes. Or made to wear cuffs and a leash throughout the day making you an even more helpless target than usual. Turning you into such a perfect free use painslut you barely notice when I touch or hurt you in front of our friends, and don't have the will to resist anymore. Just a docile toy, used and abused until your brain is mushy and empty, enthralled by the constant, overwhelming use.
Pathetic bisexual submissive slut who wants nothing more than to be roughly used by multiple doms at once until their holes are sore and their head is fuzzy and the only thing they can even think about anymore is eagerly worshiping whoever their doms tell them to.
Sub red flags: a checklist for less experienced Doms
Awhile ago, I wrote the above post explaining several red flags and warning signs in Doms for less experienced submissives to be aware of. This is the inverse. Written mostly for inexperienced Doms who are seeking subs, from the perspective of an experienced Dom. I would recommend less experienced subs read as well. My hope is that this post is a resource for others and helps to improve kink safety and understanding. Please remember to research everything you do before you do it and trust your gut. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with.
Unclear consent/hasty consent
All kinks carry inherent risk. Some have physical risks, some psychological risks, plenty have both. Trust your gut if someone seems too eager to dive into something without fully discussing every possible angle you can think of. Don't ever run into something when you could walk. In kink, you aren't just consenting to the activity, you're consenting to the risks which the activity carries. Don't do anything with anyone who doesn't seem to understand that distinction.
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Dynamics are a two way street
One of the most misunderstood aspects of kink is the core element of mutual effort. Generally, less experienced people assume that the Dominant is an active participant, while the sub is a passive one, who simply receives whatever the Dom decides, getting off in the process. While this might work well in a Dark Romance novel it is categorically antithetical to real life BDSM. On a fundamental level, BDSM is a collaborative effort. Both the dominant and submissive are active participants, both have to put forth a lot of effort, both in learning about kink and safety and in actual scenes. While a scene might focus on a sub being a pretty doll for their Dom, just laying there and getting off, that should not be reflective of your actual interpersonal dynamic whatsoever. If a submissive doesn't believe they should have to put in as much effort as you, that's reflective of an unwillingness to put effort into your dynamic or your scene with them.
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Boundaries/safewords for doms
Just like a submissive has to consent to everything you do, a Dom also has to consent to everything in a scene. If a sub doesn't respect your boundaries, pushes them without permission, or acts as if your boundaries aren't as important as them getting off go play with someone else
"I have no limits"/"I don't use a safeword"
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REFUSING TO HONOR A SAFE WORD IS SEXUAL ASSAULT
Subs can assault Doms too.
This is fake. Everyone has boundaries. Some people like saying this doing scenes for fun, which can be fine roleplay, but if they genuinely believe it about themselves they are not emotionally mature enough for kink and are an unsafe partner. Run away.
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"Doms don't need aftercare"
Fake. Run. Unsafe partner.
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"Kink dispenser"
Subs should not view you as just someone who reads their mind and tells them things to get them off. Your needs matter too and all participants in a scene should be attentive to each other's needs and interests. You aren't there just to do whatever they want to get them off the same way they aren't there just to do whatever you want to get you off unless you have specifically agreed that you're both into that AND that the scene is going to be about that.
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Mental Health, Aftercare, and Drops
Your mental health is just as important as your physical safety in kink. Any submissive you play with must prioritize your emotional well-being the same way you need to prioritize theirs. There will be times when you feel weird after or during a scene or even bad about yourself. Dominance is stressful. Yours truly was once in a particularly harsh impact scene as a rookie Dom, realized how rough the marks on their thighs were, and experienced a drop feeling like a bad person even though they had specifically asked for what I was doing to them. It's perfectly normal to snap back to reality sometimes and end the scene for your own comfort. In fact, it is unsafe for your own emotional health to Dom anyone when you don't feel up to it. The correct thing to do is to communicate with the sub, pause or end the scene as needed, get feedback, let them know you need reassurance. Its completely normal and valid. If someone doesn't want to reassure you, that's a huge red flag
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Final notes
There are many "Doms" that are bad actors or abusers. They crave power over others not to seek out a mutual consensual fantasy, but because they want to stop other people from saying "No" to them, and have nonconsensual control over their life.
There are also many "subs" who are bad actors or abusers. Some are thrill seeking with little care for their own emotional or physical well-being, putting themselves and their dominant at risk by refusing to learn about safety or respect others boundaries. Some dehumanize Doms, essentially treating them like jerk off machine that doesn't have boundaries or feelings or require any effort.
Any standard you hold for yourself as a dominant, about consent, about boundaries, about safety, should also apply to any submissive you play with. No exceptions. Both Dominance AND submission need to be continuously earned, not given. If someone thinks otherwise...
Could you maybe elaborate on aftercare for doms? How can it look like?
Because after a scene I just can’t to anything and require my partner to literally take care of me and I don’t know how i can give him aftercare if i am in this state
Hey anon, thanks for your ask.
Ask your partner what makes them calm down and feel whole, adequate, and respected after a scene. No two people are exactly alike and everyone might need something slightly different. If you aren't physically able to right away, or if they're taking care of you first, that's fine. Try taking turns.
Me personally, I like to cuddle and recap the scene, cleaning each other up and being affectionate while talking through what I liked and talking through what we both liked or didn't like about the scene. A comforting drink is also helpful, as is a familiar show or movie. That might all work for your Dom, or it might not. You should try having a conversation about it, it's generally something you should do before entering a dynamic or doing any sort of scene with someone. It's honestly an important conversation to have even before vanilla sex with a new person in my experience.
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