Trans Masculine Problems

This blog is for trans masculine people to come and say what kind of problems you have, or if you need advice or just a place to meet other trans masculine people. Anyone is welcome here. I don't police, however, hateful stuff will not be posted. If you are wanting advice, please ASK. If you want me to answer privately, please tell me, or it will most likely be published. If you are wishing to submit a problem, please use submit! Keep in mind that I am one person and I am a full time student. Thank you for being patient and understanding.

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I came out to my mom one or two years ago and I immediately regretted it when I did because she has always seen me as a follower. And I told her I had a trans friend and her instant response is that my friend convinced me to be like them which is not the case whatsoever; I tried to tell her this but she wouldn't have it. I have the right to think what's best for me and I've grown up wanting anything masculine but my mom has always criticized me about it. She hoped this was a phase but its not...

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In light of Caitlyn Jenner, my mom feels the right to say extremely transphobic things. It's almost terrifying to say now, two of her children are trans. I can't wait to move out- I'm afraid of abuse if I come out now.

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Are there any trans I can befriend? I'm pretty lonely since my parents took away my phone and my friends for being me...

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Are you still doing the binder giveaway thing? I have no way to pay for a binder as I'm not out to my parents, and every other giveaway seems to only be for US (im in the UK)

The binder giveaway is a permanent thing so I’m always going to be doing it. Let me know your size and as soon as I have a binder for you, I’ll let you know.

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This one is for all the trans masculine people that face bullying in form of being told they can't pass. I had a friend who recently claimed that "99% of the time when girls try to look like boys (Through cosplay or in general) They still look like girls, or 12 year old pre-pubescent boys.". Don't let anyone dull your bloody sparkle, guys. Y'all are brilliant.

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Can any trans peeps from Rhode Island like this?

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I feel like people don't take mentally ill trans people seriously, not just transmen and transmasculine people but all people identifying as something other than the gender they were assigned at birth, because they use the illnesses as an excuse to see us as children- and to them "children don't know what they're talking about," "it's just a phase," "it's another show of attention," "you haven't grown up yet," since they think children shouldn't be able to decide their gender yet. I hate it.

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I really wish I wasn't transgender. Everything would be so much more easier that way. I wouldn't have to lie to my mom, wouldn't feel like I was in the wrong body all of the time. I just wish i was normal.

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I can't do this anymore. I wish I wasn't trans

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My main problem as a trans masculin is when im wearing my homemade packer and it sorta just slips down so i moves to the back of my pants instead of my front.

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Can I just ask if there are any transguys from Espoo, Finland? Who would like to talk or something

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Also, I’m no longer doing advice, just problems. There’s too many people and I often times literally don’t know you and I don’t know your situations, so I can’t give advice.

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To clarify, I didn’t mean to say that bottom surgery is a shit surgery. What I meant to say was that the surgery isn’t very good yet, and it’s very expensive, and a lot of people choose to not have it. That being said, sending me multiple messages saying I can go fuck myself is not okay.

Don’t send this blog hate. I will block you.

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if its any help anon, im a very effeminate and flamboyant trans man myself. i have a lot of feminine coded interests but im still a man at heart, even if i do feel a little invalid at times. you're not alone.

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I want to connect with other trans people but I feel like I won't be accepted. I'm FtM, I look and dress like a girl, and there's really no way at all to tell I identify as a guy. I see others who make such an effort to look like the gender they identify with. It makes me feel like such a disappointment.

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I've been out to everyone I know for about two months, and out to myself for a year now. I want to start the next step, but have no idea. Does anyone know of any (cheaper hopefully) docs out in Utah? I don't even know what to search in Google!

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It scares me a lot the fact that if I transition most of the people I know won't support me. I feel like everyone is going to feel uncomfortable because of me and I don't want that. But if not, I m the one who'll be uncomfortable the rest of his life