Today's Document
Discoholic 🪩
art blog(derogatory)
if i look back, i am lost
I'd rather be in outer space 🛸
hello vonnie
Love Begins
Jar Jar Binks Fan Club
YOU ARE THE REASON
The Bowery Presents
Not today Justin
titsay
taylor price
The Stonewall Inn
noise dept.
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Doug Jones
macklin celebrini has autism
EXPECTATIONS
roma★
seen from Indonesia
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seen from Canada
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seen from Vietnam
seen from Rwanda
seen from Singapore
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@transobject
I feel like we don’t talk enough about non sexual dominance. Like being guided around while walking, being told where to sit, grabbing ur chin so that u look at them and just so many more things. I think I crave that type of dominance.
Absolutely one of my favorite evil moves is when a sub clearly wants something gross or kinky and instead of just doing it, you make them have to admit it, in the dirtiest terminology possible, and then just looking them square in their eyes and saying "oh my god thats SO pathetic"
Monster Researcher Eclair encounters a Sphinx
The rest of the story is on Patreon
i think you'd look better covered in kiss marks, hickeys and bruises.
Me n the girls sitting upon the shattered corpse of a false god
while kissing eachother
with tongue
obsessed with being a dog. the besy part of getting a haircut is feeling like a dog. the best part of hierarchy is feeling like a dog. etc etc.
i’m a girl but.. i’m also like.. a small pet… u know…
omg bestie what if i woke up next to you at the sleepover, and your shirt was barely covering your titties, and i just helped free them, and started sucking and playing with your nipples while you were barely waking up
Giving you the same question I got
Fuck marry kill vampire demon werewolf
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Fuck: Demon. Just. I wanna fuck a demon so badly. Or be fucked by. Both, ideally. Just, one of those once in a lifetime things, y'know? I should try creating a summoning cricle.
Marry: Vampire. I want to dominate a vampire that's trying to dominate me, just knot her and make her a subservient little leech wife <3
Kill: Werewolf. I'm the only werewolf around here~
Let's do Sleepover Saturday!
So send me asks about:
fuck, marry, kill
ask my top 3 of anything
make me choose between two things
send me celebrities for hot or not
would I ship _______ with _______ ?
headcanons
who you ship me with
tell me stories about you or your day
ask me for advice
ask me questions about things you want to know
literally whatever you want!
Giving Aftercare to Doms
I’ve seen a lot of writing on aftercare for subs, but never seen anything about Dom drop or the kind of aftercare that D-types need. Consequently, many people assume that aftercare is only necessary for subs, and many people don’t know what kind of aftercare to ask for or provide.
It’s natural to feel guilty when you’re inflicting pain or cruelty to someone you care about. And like with everybody, a lack of adequate aftercare can be discouraging or even dangerous. Here’s some aftercare talking points I tend to like hearing from my subs that you can use as jumping off points:
Reassure your Dom that everything they said and did during the scene was wanted and consensual. Go over and discuss anything that ended up being less than pleasurable or any sore spots that they hit if not.
If the scene went smoothly, reassure them that you are capable of saying no and/or using your safe word. Reassure them that despite roleplaying a loss of control, you know that you still were able to consent during your scene.
Reassure your Dom that you aren’t actually scared of them; and reassure them that you don’t feel like you’re being taken advantage of, nor do you think that they will.
Reassure your Dom that you trust them, you know that they are a responsible dominant, and that you don’t feel afraid that they will abuse their power over you.
Reassure your Dom that they are a good person, and that they are not evil or bad for exercising restrained and consensual cruelty during a scene.
Reassure your Dom that they don’t need to feel guilty for enjoying themselves when they are dominant with you, and that you enjoy your scenes with them as much as they do.
And some other things to keep in mind regarding aftercare as a whole....
Make sure you end the conversation/evening properly. Even if the Dom doesn’t experience Dom drop immediately, it’s very easy for Doms to feel used or like pleasure machines if they feel like they’ve been left hanging.
^^ Especially if you’re sexting or doing BDSM long distance! Do not stop responding without giving closure and reassuring your Dom that you’re okay! If you disappear without saying anything, it’s very possible that your Dom will get anxious and worry that they’ve upset or hurt you.
Check in later. Aftercare doesn’t always have to take place immediately after a scene, especially if they felt like they didn’t need much aftercare afterwards or you’ve had an informal scene and decided to skip it. Dom drop can still settle in a while after a scene has ended, so don’t ever assume you’re automatically on the same page and that care won’t be needed.
Make sure to always offer regardless. Nobody should ever have to ask for aftercare! Don’t assume that your Dom is okay and needs nothing just because they’re in control during your scenes.
And finally, Doms: don’t be afraid to ask for reassurance on the specific points you worry about! Subs can’t read your mind, and they can’t always know if the aftercare they’re giving is enough unless you tell them. You will not lose your submissive’s respect by asking for aftercare as long if they are committed to engaging in conscientious kink.
Stay safe, take care of each other, and practice kink responsibly! ♡
I think I’ll never say this loud enough, Doms mental health is as important as the Sub’s! Even tho we are dominants we are still human being.
If you’re a dominant and need help is okay, if you need comfort is okay, if you need to express your thoughts and feelings is okay! Because being a Dom doesn’t mean that we are invincible!
Will forever boost, this is so important.
Playing strip truth of dare, but once your naked you become everyones freeuse slut and must do what they say anyway
thinking about consensual exhibitionism,,, being used in front of a group of people who are all hungrily taking in my body as the clothes are stripped from it by my dom (or by me, who is being ordered to strip)
being shown off, passed around, and used like a good toy, praised the whole time for how well behaved i am
I’ve just really been in the mood for soft shows of dominance. Grab my jaw and kiss me whenever you want to, hold the back of my neck to keep me pinned to the bed while you fuck me from behind. Keep me collared so you can tug me closer by the band around my neck. i dunno just small reminders that i’m yours.
Reblog if you're a cuddler.
Just because it is between your legs doesn’t mean it belongs to you. It’s mine to use remember ? And I don’t think you are allowed to touch it for a little while.
Haha what if I was a kitten in heat and you were a big strong werewolf and you could smell how much I needed you to use me while moan and whine and then you knotted me while biting my shoulder and marking me as your property
Haha jk
Unless....
