On Representation, Diversity, and âhave characters of color just donât write about the experience of being a person of colorâ
Alright. Iâm gonna piss a bunch of people off and also confuse a bunch of well-intentioned white people because I donât think that you can write about a character of color without talking about the experience of being a person of color of a certain culture.
Seriously. Thereâs so many conversations celebrating how people have narratives where it âdoesnât matterâ that one of their characters is a person of color and that their charactersâ identity as a person of color âdoesnât affect the storylineâ or whatever.
Iâm going to cut right to the chase here: as a reader and storyteller of color, Iâm not a fan of narratives where race doesnât affect the story.
My race and culture and ethnicity ABSOLUTELY impact the way I perceive the world around me! For instance, many South Asian families bond with lively debates and discussions and lovingly roasting their family members. The way that I develop positive relationships, often with a solid dose of conflict and loudness and argument, is therefore fundamentally different from the way a white person would develop relationships; in fact, many white people are intimidated by how loud South Asians like myself are. Weâre dramatic and loud and love jokes with wordplay! Thatâs just how it is and it means I form bonds with people differently.
I also have different values. White people are often more individualistic in culture, with more weird distant formal bonds with their parents (shit like referring to their parents by first name or, on the other end of the spectrum, calling their dads âsirâ???) as opposed to the more comfortable and closer bond I have with my parents, where my family is all up in my shit literally all the time LMAO.
Literally white families are SO DISTANT to the point where white people consider practices like co-sleeping with your young child, something very common in South Asian families, to be child abuse?? Like, as if keeping your baby in a crib in another room where theyâre not close to you and itâs harder to hear them isnât dangerous but apparently suffocating a child while sleeping (which is very rare especially since co-sleeping is a practice that has gone on for MILLENNIA) is the bigger threat here??
White kids might perceive that as invasive or a violation of their privacy; I donât perceive it that way because of the way South Asian families are structured. Thereâs a stronger emphasis on closeness with family. Of course, there are situations of kids being estranged or difficult family relationships or child abuse in South Asian families as well, but family is more valued in my culture.
The plants I put in my garden are different because of my identity; flowers like bela (Arabian jasmine) and bougainvillea and roses and gladiolus and marigolds and such things are what Iâm fond of because of biases based on what my parents and grandparents like. I even once grew nenua (a type of squash). (Iâm gonna get my hands on a raat ki rani soon I hope!!) And, of course, not every South Asian is partial to these flowers, but thereâs definitely a cultural aspect as to why I personally like them!
The colors and patterns I gravitate towards are also different! Iâm not a big fan of western âneutralsâ and I find bright colors more appealing, especially because hey, those vibrant shades look better on brown skin! And GUESS WHAT, part of why the western world gravitates towards neutral colors in formalwear is because of colonialism and a disdain for the vibrant colors and dyes that colonized countries used. I love wearing jhumka earrings and statement necklaces and bright, vibrant jewelry as well. Now, obviously, this isnât the case with every South Asian, but there is certainly some level of impact on these choices from my culture and upbringing.
Hell, even the food I eat is different! I drink chai in the evenings. I gravitate towards spicier dishes and better seasoning. I donât eat meat other than fish/seafood and chicken and occasionally turkey because of cultural stuff, though ofc lots of South Asians are vegetarian and on the flip side lots of South Asians DO eat red meat and stuff.
And this isnât even universal to ALL South Asians by any means, because my parents are specifically Hindu and from northeastern India and Iâve grown up in California! And thereâs so many other details I could go into but for the sake of not writing a twelve-page essay Iâm stopping here.Â
Basically, my point is, I donât want representation where race âdoesnât matterâ to the story. Race impacts so many aspects of my life and how I perceive and interact with the world around me.
Itâs ridiculous to me how so much ârepresentationâ is basically just starting with a default of a white character, making her brown, avoiding the stereotypes, and thatâsâŠ.it. It doesnât feel real. It doesnât feel authentic to take away cultural impacts on your characters. People start with white western archetypes and tropes and try to mold them to fit characters of color, instead of starting off with an authentic character of color, and it really, really shows.
Especially because Tumblr and writeblr are such white spaces, and also because culture is usually picked up from the environment as opposed to online, the conversations centered around ârepresentationâ are always about âdonât do x stereotypesâ as opposed to how to actually learn about other cultures and actuallyâŠ.write a character of color. So many of yâall only know how to NOT write a character of color as opposed to how to ACTUALLY write a character of color.
I see so many lists of tropes and things to not include in stories, and not enough things about values and family structures and food and fashion and ways of developing relationships and all that fun stuff that will shape who you are as a person.
And some of yâall donât even TRY to, I dunno, engage with the culture of your character of color to actually write them. For instance, if youâre writing a South Asian character, go explore South Asian cinema! Go make South Asian friends who can tell you little details about their lives as they, yâknow, exist and are your friend! In general, explore the movies and literature and music and dance types and food and drink and whatnot of the culture your character is from! Form relationships with people of those cultures; itâs the internet! I know this is a super white space but thereâs PLENTY of poc on here! Make an effort, not just to avoid harmful stereotypes, but to write a character of color whose identity actually MATTERS.
When Iâm reading escapist fantasy/sci-fi/romcom/etc. literature where characters arenât being hurt by racism, I donât want a story where RACE doesnât exist, I want a story where RACISM doesnât exist. I want cultural understanding, empathy, and compassion!
I donât want a role a white character would play just switched out with a character of color.
For instance, in the movie To All the Boys Iâve Loved Before, Lara Jeanâs identity as East Asian is reflected in her fashion choices; book author Jenny Han lent inspiration for this. The Yakult drinks she likes, inspired by Korean tastebuds, plays a role in the story, too. These are details that donât necessarily heavily impact the plot; itâs a fake-dating high school romcom. But they make a more real, fleshed-out character. Theyâre little details, little in-jokes and references, showing that the characterâs race and culture actually MATTER to the story.
Thereâs a part in Pacific Rim where Raleigh Beckett, a white man, is frustrated with Mako Mori, a Japanese woman, for not going against the wishes of her father figure, Pentecost. When he tells her she doesnât have to obey him, she responds, âItâs not obedience, Mr. Beckett. Itâs respect.â This depicts her cultural understanding of family and respect; her relationships and her responses to things are impacted by her culture.
This is what Iâm talking about! In order to write an actual character of color, you MUST write about their experiences to a certain extent. Of course, donât make your characters of a certain culture a monolith in terms of personalities and responses and all that, but understand how they may be similarly impacted by their identities.
Now, donât write a whole damn novel about a character coming to terms with their racial identity and coping with racism, but you absolutely MUST holistically incorporate their identity into your narrative.
Otherwise, itâs not actually representation. Itâs you essentially writing a racebent white character. Itâs you using a white default and trying to adapt it to totally different experiences.
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