Traumatic Simmer

|20|Female|USA|Sims-Mental Health-Astrology|

[thepiscesactor-deactivated20121]

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

[minotaursauce]

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

[xaldien]

“You’d be surprised”, said Xaldien, who just lost four followers and received a lovely “men can’t be raped” anon shortly after reblogging this the first time.

[minotaursauce]

Yowch, disgusting.

[samuraiko]

If I don’t reblog this, assume I’m dead.

[glory-of-hera-blog]

Always reblog this

[nygmobblepot-der-pool-deactivat]

If you Dont reblog this if u see it then i cant call u my friend

[witchofthefuture]

IF ANYONE TELLS ME THAT MEN CAN’T BE VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND RAPE, I AM SICKENED BY THEIR MERE PRESENCE ON MY BLOG.

If you disagree with me, unfollow my blog, block me and never look at my blog again.

If you want to debate about this or send anon’s about this, I will reply but your actions have consequences.

[witchofthefuture]

Out of 19000+ followers I have, only one of you actually reblogged about this issue, yet a lot of you have reblogged and liked a picture by playboy about catcalling and that how men should never do it.

Additionally, I have received abuse in my ask box (which I will be answering when I can) and threats. In particular death threats and rape threats.

I can see the real problem here already. Male domestic violence and rape is just invisible in our society because we don’t want to talk about this because it just damages the status quo of this fucking website.

[tarothy-deactivated20230301]

I’m a male victim of child sexual abuse. We matter. Please, reblog this.

[happerbunny-deactivated20211002]

Please never forget male victims are real and it can happen to everyone/anyone

[smolkingofhell]

I’m a boy , and when i was younger I was sexually assaulted every damn day for three years by my younger step SISTER, So don’t go saying that ‘boys can’t be raped’ bull shit

[yviinfinite-deactivated20181014]

This is so important. That kinda shit can happen to everybody

[biyorozu]

Anybody can be raped, and anybody can be a rapist

[cxntboymlm]

Women can be rapists, and men can be raped. Sad but true.

[raidenismylittlemeowmeow]

Please, please don’t act like you’re suddenly blind, please, please reblog this

[traumatic-simmer]

i support everyone. Men go through the same types of abuse us womengo through.

[aharris00britney]

AxA 2020  |  Public Release

AxA 2020 is a custom content pack featuring a variety of stylish outfits and hairstyles for your Sims. Inspired by the latest and greatest fast fashion trends, you’ll be able to create many unique looks that fit right in your game.

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The item index linked above will show the basic info for the items in this collab. Below are credits + basic info of the items in the entire pack. The .zip files are split into male and female .zips because of the Patreon file limit.

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[theinfiniteofthought]

tips for people in relationships with Borderlines

and people who are very close to Borderlines, regardless of whether it’s romantic or not! I have BPD and wanted to list some things that my partner does that really help me and our relationship, in case they can help anyone else <3

communicate!! with!! your!! partner!! 

ask them what things upset them

ask them what things you can do to ease their brain

tell them what things they do which upset you

tell them when you need space and time alone

tell them when you know you’ll be away

check in that the relationship is okay and both of you have your needs fulfilled

etc.

set boundaries for the person initially, and explain to them why these things are important to you. we’re not good at recognising other’s boundaries or understanding them innately. you can always change your boundaries, but let them know when you do

when you get frustrated and angry with them - which happens in all relationships between people, regardless of how healthy - have something you’ve agreed to say to them so they know you aren’t trying to hurt them or leave them, you just need to calm down.

try not to leave things angry or bad when you go away - try not to make the last thing you say at night sound snappy, etc. being away from our partners is always going to be tricky for us, and if you’ve left with something reassuring, it’s more likely that we’ll cope and you’ll get your sleep/rest/work/class/appointment/etc uninterrupted by us

expect us to need reassurances from you, and to need them a lot. understand that this really has nothing to do with you - whether you’re distant or not, things are good or not, etc, our disorder will always try to say things aren’t good. don’t be offended when we ask for reassurance, and if it’s tiring for you, come up with a specific set phrase or code with your partner to reassure them when they need it.

it’s likely that your partner will split on you at some point, and if you recognise that they have done and remove yourself from the situation as soon as possible, it’s likely that they’ll be able to calm down and split back soon. check in with them every couple of hours to remind them you care.

to the best of your ability - unforeseen circumstances omitting of course - don’t make promises you aren’t certain you can keep, and don’t say you’ll do something you don’t know you will be able to. saying that you’ll do something for/with us and then cancelling for something that could’ve been foreseen will make us panic.

try to watch out for the minutiae of how you interact with us. did you put a full stop on that text? did you say something which sounded unenthusiastic or uncaring when you didnt mean to sound like that? do you seem angry when you’re not? borderlines almost always recognise the emotions of others before people without BPD do, especially anger. if you can tell you sound frustrated, we definitely can. it might help to ask us if there are any habits you have which can trigger these kinds of thoughts

make sure they know how much you care about them, because they’ll constantly worry that you’ve stopped. tell them you love them, tell them you hope they drive safe, tell them you’re there for them. even though they know.

remember that a relationship isn’t a one way street. your borderline partner has a responsibility to work on their behaviour and not hurt you, or upset you, or negatively impact things. they will mess up sometimes, they will sometimes snap when splitting, or say something manipulative, or hound you for attention. and you’ll mess up sometimes as well. talk about what went wrong, what’s hurting who, and how you’re gonna work around it.

be honest. be completely honest. if it’s not working, tell them. if it’s going well, tell them. if something is hurting you, tell them. if you’re worried something is hurting them, tell them.

that’s all i can think of for now but feel free to add more

[maushasi-ms]

50 colors in (slightly edited) Image Spectra palette

choose if you want the overrides enabled or disabled for random (only choose one file per item!), stand-alones are disabled

both frames, tagged feminine

OVERRIDES three BG tank tops, stand-alone versions also included

the one originally untucked top now tucks into pants

BG compatible

let me know if there’s any issues with my cc!

see my other overrides here

buy me a coffee?

I thought some of the more basic items deserve a ridiculous amount of colors, and I intend this to be kind of a series? Maybe? Also one of these has actually been included in my all-in-one file here for like a month lol.

Download and more previews under cut!

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[enriques4]

[EnriqueS4] SummerLover Hairstyle

New Mesh

18 EA Swatches

All Lods

Base Game Compatible

Teen to Elder

Works with hats

If you use my cc don’t forget to tag me as well like #enriques4 or @enriques4, for see your sims using my cc.

If you have any question or an issues, please let me know, i will try to fixed as soon as posible!!

Hope you like it!

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[virtygo-deactivated20200825]

if you don’t support #blacklivesmatter, unfollow me.

if you think that the riots are too much, unfollow me.

if you don’t think that change needs to happen now, unfollow me.

if you refuse to recognize your privileges, unfollow me.

if you’re not a decent human being, unfollow me.

[savvysweet-deactivated20201216]

I find it very interesting that whenever a group of white people come together it’s called a protest but the minute black people in this country rightfully speak up on issues together it’s called a riot.

There is a clear double standard that happens. I am so tired of the hypocrisy. I am tired of feeling inadequate. I am so tired of this. I am tired of the blatant racism. I am an American, but I am a BLACK American! I deserve all the rights that any American citizen has. I should not have to fear for my life if I get pulled over or if I am in a police officer’s presence.

Our lives have VALUE! Our lives have a PURPOSE! Our lives are worth LIVING!

I wish America loved Black people as much as you love our culture. You love our hair, You love our clothes, You love our slang, You love our dances, You love our music, but you don’t love US! You would rather jump in our skin but never WALK in our shoes! 

This country was built on Violence and Racism. The very own White House was built by SLAVES. Look at what they did to the Native Americans before we even got here. You stole from us. You abused us. You killed us, and continue to do so. Enough is Enough! We need change and we need it NOW. How many more black men, women, and children have to die before this country gets it together? 

[naevys-sims]

Ophelia Hair and Passionfruit Hair by @imvikai, Olivia Hair by zebrazest, and Cosmic Love hair by @kismet-sims converted for kids!

Base game compatible

18 EA swatches

Custom thumbnails

You don’t need meshes for my conversions

Download : Free on my PATREON

[pleyita]

THE BASIC SNEAKER

These are two perfectly good shoes from the basegame that just didn’t have colors that I ever wanted. So I recolored them a whole bunch and now everyone will be able to find a sneaker that they enjoy. Hooray!

The solids and patterns are in separate packages, so pick whatever ones you like for whatever age you’d like.

DOWNLOAD | SimFileShare.

[lumysims]

New CC you can Download  here ♥

If you want you can also follow my Instagram where i post updates and more~~

[twinksimstress]

                                      ARI HAIR for the sims 4

Day 13 of posting cc daily until April! ( Click here to see why I’m posting daily and why you should too! )

Base Game

EA Palette

Custom Thumbnail

Hat Compatible

+Ombre accessory found under earrings

Also if you want to try out my custom content early and talk about future releases please join my discord,its a fun time !

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[twinksimstress]

                               Aela Hair for the sims 4

Day 12 of posting cc daily until April! ( Click here to see why I’m posting daily )

Base Game

EA Palette

Custom Thumbnail

All Lods

Hat Compatible

Also if you want to try out my custom content early and talk about future releases please join my discord,its a fun time !

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[old-dogsill]

gabby hair

unedited picture for the people who had a problem with my hair strands below :+)

bgc

not hat compatible

all 18 ea swatches

dl

[simstrouble]

LUNA by simstrouble

I wanted to make something unusual (is it tho?) and is pretty damn good looking cute. Enjoy!

Base Game Compatible

EA 18 Swatches; fixed black and white

Headband overlay found in gloves; 29 swatches in my Troublemaker Palette + random patterns, which two are from @mothz​ Pattern Pack.

All LODs, NOT Hat Compatible, Shadow Map, Normal Map, Specular Maps

For recoloring the headband you can use the white swatch from the overlay file!

download (patreon, always free)

[simstrouble]

DELTA by simstrouble

I truly HAD to make this, I needed a mid-parted curls for my boys and gurls. Yes, it works for all genders! Enjoy! 🌈

Base Game Compatible

2 Versions! All front and pushed back

EA 18 Swatches; fixed black and white

All LODs, Hat Compatible, Shadow Map, Normal Map, Specular Maps

More pics over patreon!

download (patreon, always free)

[clab-deactivated2021]

Renlishous Shades

Mesh edit to eliminate the bulky top and shorten to bring in some light

*requires My 1st pet expansion

32 colors- using @renlishsims boho palette plus black, white, and gray

3 window sizes (1x1, 2x1, and 3x1) 

Download MediaFire (ADFREE) 

@maxismatchccworld @simblrcollective @mabccfinds @rosie-posts @sims4customcontent @fairybarn @lprincessmoon

[bustedpixels]

Denim Shirt / Skinny Jeans III No Rips

Base Game Compatible

Non Default

Base Game Compatible

Top & Bottom

Top 20 Swatches

Bottom 24 Swatches

Custom Thumbs

Play Tested

If you have any problems let me know…

Cheers, Enjoy.

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