I hope that you are well, I am now enjoying February’s chill.
You asked my favorite holiday, and I must say, I do quite love Halloween. Spooky season is my favorite.
Anyway, my questions for you today!
1. What are Kendra and Sebastian’s love languages?
2. Who fell in love first?
3. What is something that they will do for the other because they know the other enjoys it?
I do hope that you are well, sending love and sweets, and if you see a niffler…no you didn’t, I’ll find him later.
My dearest Secret Valentine,
The beginning of February has been… let’s just say quite a lot for me, but I have been enjoying the cold still. (I do wish to see a little bit more sun though. ☀️)
Tell your niffler that I would like my necklace back that he stole from my bedside table. I didn’t stop him, because he was such a sweet boy (and he could help me trace my way back to you…maybe it was because of that…who knows…)
Now let me answer your questions:
1. What are Kendra and Sebastian’s love languages?
I’m going to put this question into the Giving vs. Receiving categories, because they are both different for these two.
💛 Kendra’s giving and receiving love languages are almost the same, but as she is a rather quiet persons she tends to show her love through physical touch more (holding someones hand when she sees they are nervous or pulling them into a tight hug)
💚 The way I see Sebastian is someone who shows a lot of his love through the things he does for the people in his life (as we can see how he literally drops everything to help his dying sister).
If Anne wasn’t cursed I think he would spent a lot more time with his friends and enjoying the quality time spent with each other.
And with physical touch I not only mean a good snog in the Undercroft, I mean more the reassuring touch of his partner, like stroking his hair while he’s falling asleep or the tight hug he needs when he’s feeling everything is falling apart.
💛💚 Their love languages are definitely a result of how they grew up. Kendra’s father has never been able to show her properly that he loved her and for Sebastian… I don‘t think I have to explain how Solomon shaped Sebastian’s way of loving.
I do realize I talked more about Sebastian, I can talk more about Kendra another time. (I just know this post will be too long otherwise haha)
2. Who fell in love first?
My first instinct was Sebastian, my second one was both, but Kendra was in denial for a long time.
It’s hard for a girl who didn’t really have friends growing up, to fear losing the first good one to a possible broken relationship.
I also love a yearning Sebastian a lot, maybe that’s why I want him to suffer for a bit in my headcanon. 😂
This is still a WIP, but that’s how I imagine him looking at her all trough fifth year + the first half of their sixth year.
3. What is something that they will do for the other because they know the other enjoys it?
💛 She reads to him when he needs to relax, him laying on her lap while she draws soothing circles in his hair.
💛 She lets him ramble (at breakfast especially) about any topic that he finds interesting at the moment, even when she has no clue what he’s talking about.
(Both haven’t had that many people in their life that actually listened to them.)
💛 She saves his favorite food at breakfast for him, because he’s late most of the time.
💚 He picks Kendra up from training and gets them both something from the kitchen while she takes a shower, so they can eat their dinner alone in the Undercroft.
(She gets overwhelmed with too many people around sometimes)
💚 Plus he lures her cats into the Undercroft, because he knows how much she wants them around in the evening. Kendra can fall asleep while he reads and they can enjoy some time alone together.
💚 He gets all of their friends to cheer for her every Quidditch match. He knows that even when she pretends she doesn’t like them screaming in the stands, she actually loves and appreciates him so much for his support.
I hope you are doing well. Sending my love and some sweets right back to you. 💛