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Introverted and sensitive? 💓 Here’s a tip for the introverts, and a cool POV for the extroverts... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ——— 𝐈𝐍𝐓𝐑𝐎𝐕𝐄𝐑𝐓𝐒 𝟏𝟎𝟏: 𝐏𝐀𝐑𝐓 𝟏 ——— As teens, introverts are intimidated by social grace and feel that they cannot contribute to group settings without judgement. Enter adulthood, and we are more accustomed to interaction however sometimes are behind in terms of our social experience, especially with confrontation. 🥺 Consequently, I found that throughout my earlier uni years, I would process quality feedback from peers, uni and work alike, as oppressive criticism. 🤔 I eventually realised upon looking back, that because of my social inexperience I took things too “sensitively” without realising others were only voicing their thoughts with beautiful intent. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Thus enters Tip #1: Learn to not take constructive feedback negatively, but as honest advice to grow from. Feedback given to you with the intent of supporting your growth is not an attack. At the end of the day, a support crew that provides honest feedback is more helpful for your growth than one that would rather watch you make mistakes. 🙏🏼 (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CAB9ll9Bsr6/?igshid=9b0kvuvd9jz3

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Why make the front ‘PAGE’ when you can wear it 😆? And on that ‘NOTE’ 😭, I have some ‘NEWS’ for you!! 🤭... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ———— 𝐓𝐀𝐋𝐊𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐓𝐎 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐆𝐔𝐘𝐒 ———— That’s enough jokes for one post ahah! But wow! So after I finished a bunch of my uni assessments I thought it would be a great idea to start opening my DM’s again and you guys are amazing! I’m so thankful for all of the support with my content creating, all the heartfelt messages here and there, love hearts and 💯 reacts. It was such a warm night for me going through some messages collected over time (and here I am drafting a caption at 5am in response so I can tell y’all how much I love you 😵). On that NOTE 🤭, there was also a lot of you that also opened up to me and gave me advice in return. Some of you also had questions on other topics! As a thank you, I want to try something new! The pen is thrown over to you. What kind of advice do you want to hear from me? Relationships? Finding power as an introvert? Fashion how-to’s? Tutorials? 🙏🏼 ————————————————————— Lemme know down below! ❤️ (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B_8wk17hCX4/?igshid=puxn3p056yx1

Continuing to smile 😍. Any fav Disney movies? Fav quote: 🌸 “The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all” 🌸 (Mulan) ... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ——— 𝐇𝐎𝐖 𝐘𝐎𝐔/𝐖𝐄 𝐆𝐑𝐎𝐖 ——— People don’t always hate because they fear their inadequacy. They fear your power. They hope that you to shrink so the competition is lesser. It’s that commitment to yourself and your ability to prosper that frightens them. But by continuing to thrive you tell them and others that the solution is not to shut down our “opponents”, nor to compete with the world, but to flourish through complete belief in one’s the self. 🙏🏼 Whatever others throw at you, you have the choice to be bitter and pass this on to another, give up or grow from adversity. While the latter may be the most difficult, it is always the most rewarding. Grow, and watch as the fruits of your labor prosper. Because those seeds that you plant today, eventually grow to liberate your own fears, as well as inspire the hardened hearts of others. 🌱 ——————————————————— Mulan’s 🐉 one of my fav‘s for the morals it teaches on self-belief, commitment, acceptance and teamwork. (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B_gcs34BCdZ/?igshid=1vfffduwjpprt

Be who you are and say what you feel. Because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind. 💙 Fave quote recently by Dr Seuss 🙏🏼 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ —— 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐏𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐂𝐄 𝐎𝐅 𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐅-𝐋𝐎𝐕𝐄 —— Often when a person tries to improve themselves, they start internally. 💭 However, this ironically sometimes has its mental consequences in the pursuit of self-love. By focusing internally you are almost putting the blame on yourself; that it’s simply you hindering your ability to thrive 😮. Self-love is more than this, but also choosing to be part of an environment that is healthy 💙. It means knowing when other influences are toxic for you and when to refrain from them in order to live a healthier lifestyle. If you’re finding yourself uninspired due to someone else, it is never wrong that you limit their access to you. Those who love you will understand. Those who respond with negativity are not worth your time. 💯 You deserve to thrive in an environment with only the best. 🙏🏼 ——————————————————— I used to read all of Dr Seuss’ books as a kid! Did you have any childhood book favourites? 💭 (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B_Y0V4-h-sN/?igshid=4rn9tbl56eoy

There hasn’t been any sun in Melbourne for the past 2 weeks 😭 so here’s a pic from when there was some, that I haven’t posted before. #tb shorter hair hehe ❤️ (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B_JZDlDBLXC/?igshid=qospjw0crpxc

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Now‘s one of your best shots at revising others’ access to you and keeping your head in the game 🙌🏻💓... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ——— 𝐋𝐀𝐖 𝐎𝐅 𝐀𝐓𝐓𝐑𝐀𝐂𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 ——— Today, we’re all the same distance away from each other; a phone screen away from an authentic support crew versus toxicity 😮. Consequently, social media’s influence over our capacity to achieve is more critical than ever. If you’re feeling stagnant about your goals today, revise your current environment online 💭. Surround yourself only with visuals which resonate with you. Follow who inspires you. Limit who you are talking to and your online indulgence. Isolation is a call to self-reflection, improving your support crew and creating barriers against negative influences ❤️. To become your very best, question who has access to you and what kinds of content will attract your ideals. By disciplining yourself in such a way you allow yourself the time to focus more persistently on your ambitions. 💯 (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-nyZm5hl_u/?igshid=1s3yufq3jaq0c

How are you spending isolation? 😮👌🏼 For the past week, I’ve made productive use of the extra time studying hard and working on myself 🙌🏻... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ——— 𝐅𝐈𝐆𝐇𝐓 𝐀𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐇𝐄𝐑 𝐃𝐀𝐘 ———— As a student I feel so blessed that I have more time for my family and hobbies than I’ve had in a while. ☺️ I’ve been using this time to catch up on projects I once set aside, while still achieving my to-do’s. Life is certainly different now. We’re taking on new challenges. Relationships are being tested. There’s a sense of uncertainty in the air. However, with the technology available we are still able to connect and attend to our goals. We’re still able to love just as fiercely. Entertainment is more accessible than ever. And we’re more than capable of letting our lives go on 🙏🏼. Sending you some encouragement. This is a temporary challenge and learning experience that we can face together, improve society from and utilise to develop our skill-sets and conviction towards future projects further! 💯 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-TE7uohWgP/?igshid=11r4yb30pgqai

Seems that a lot of us are online these days 💓. So I wanted to bring forth today some really critical points across our socials... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ——— 𝐒𝐎𝐂𝐈𝐀𝐋 “𝐃𝐈𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐍𝐂𝐈𝐍𝐆” ——— In a position of social power 📱, there’s this emotional distance that people tend to assume. This involves an awkward mix of awe, intimidation and inspiration, and so content creators are often familiar with unintended isolation as an effect. I’ve felt this all too often lately, where friends have slowly distanced themselves over time as my following increases 😔. I’m often reluctant to share my socials with new friends too as some have changed their attitude towards me 😪. We need to remember that a following does not constitute those qualities that matter: personality and the ability of the person to provide you with a positive experience 🙌🏻. A following also does not mean that the person is egotistical. We’re human, and worth more than a figure. Let’s not allow metrics to determine whether or not we forgo or pursue something meaningful. 💓 ————————————————— Still looking fab for online uni with my @yesstyle skirt hehe 😂 Use TISHSTYLE for 2-5% off (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-LWRscBZrK/?igshid=o95ry9s1u4y9

Wondering if I should drink another bottle of moscato to pass the time 😆. Who’s with me? 🥂 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ——— 𝐇𝐀𝐊𝐔𝐍𝐀 𝐌𝐀𝐓𝐀𝐓𝐀 ——— Each to their own, everyone feels that they are doing the right thing, or at best are only pursuing their self-care. Which is understandable, as people have a right to pursue their comfort 🤩 but are sometimes just unaware of the butterfly effect of their actions 🦋. If you’re finding yourself on the bitter end of someone’s choices, empathise so you can position yourself into a more positive perspective; 🙏🏼 that positive perspective being that their intent is often not about a particular interest in oppressing you, but more about the personal objectives directing their choices 💭. Empathy isn’t always an emotional experience. It can also encourage us to see the practical side and adapt our mindsets accordingly 🙌🏻 ———————————————— Remind yourself to empathise ☺️! We’ll get through this together 💛✨ (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B-GM7i5hy32/?igshid=uvx91q8xgl7v

Learn to do favours for yourself now, so you can give the future you something to be grateful for ❤️. Thanks for 20k 🥺🙏🏼 ... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ——— 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐋𝐀𝐖 𝐎𝐅 𝐆𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐍𝐆 ——— Some people call it karma. Some say it’s just how business goes. Regardless, eventually and surely when we are willing to help others achieve their desires, that same notion is inevitably returned. This is known as the Law of Giving, where each giving choice you make for others sets off a positive force of which the universe ensures is given back to you in one form or another. But the lesson I want to bring forth today is also giving to yourself ✍🏼. Everyday that you choose to hustle enables greater rewards for the future you too. And so they say, “You reap what you sow.” 💯 In the same way that consciously giving to others attracts positive forces, give to the future you so he or she may live a fuller life too. 🙏🏼 —————————————————— How have you been using your time lately? 💭 (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9746PAhWsr/?igshid=14d5f2214it0i

Little did she know, it was going to be her last holiday in a while 🥺... How have you been holding up recently, lovelies? ❤️ #tbt ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ —— 𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒𝐎𝐍𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟎 𝐒𝐎 𝐅𝐀𝐑 —— I’m honestly living life quite normally despite everything. If anything, much more productively (let’s caption that later ☺️✌🏼). Still, these recent events are divulging some devastating realities 💭. We’ve witnessed what a fearful person prioritises when push comes to shove, how hateful they can be, how fragile our systems are in the face of the extreme and how manipulative large entities can be in profiting off of unrest 😪. Please be mindful 😳. Abstinence and basic common sense is incredibly important right now and also sharing access to essentials 🙏🏼. We need to also recognise when click-bait headliners only intend to generate business. Hoping you’re finding some informed peace, and are ok amidst the confusion! ❤️ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ https://www.instagram.com/p/B92uc39h0XJ/?igshid=18m43pk1678yc

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School’s out fellas. 🇦🇺 I swear I try to go for a mature look but still end up looking half my age 🥺. Hope you’ve been well despite the craze happening recently 💓 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ —— 𝐀 “𝐇𝐀𝐏𝐀” 𝐆𝐈𝐑𝐋 —— With contacts or without? Repping some amazing 1-month eye contact lens from @hapakristin and today’s set (last two pics) is called “Rock n Roll” in BLUE. It gives off a greyed-blue look! 🙈 ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You can apply TISH at the checkout for 10% off or even purchase at @myeotd with other lens brands if you’re after some variety 💓 #hapakristin #myeotd (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9vBTPdB_HU/?igshid=1r3vnrn7uqr3a

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A person’s view of you will always be limited 💯. Here’s to the tough cookies that know their worth!🥊 ... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ —— 𝐒𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐈𝐃, 𝐇𝐄 𝐒𝐀𝐈𝐃, 𝐈 𝐒𝐀𝐈𝐃 —— If someone is constantly putting you down or treating you differently for their negative experiences with you, be assured that it’s a matter of perspective 🙏🏼. With every person we meet we create a psychological contract. This involves the expectations you set for people based on your values 💭. Your perspective then becomes subject to the circumstances of the time which means our view of a person is often biased, as others are of you. A best friend is capable of being the worst to another 😥. If someone doesn’t want to make time for you, that’s your gain to find more compatible relationships 🤛🏼. If you don’t like a person, it doesn’t make you two-faced for avoiding them. Our varying psychological contracts help us decide who to prioritise💯. You deserve to be surrounded by who YOU believe is good for you. 🧡 ————————————————— Notice a grey tint in my eyes? That’s @hapakristin ✨ Use TISH at the checkout for 10% off ✨ #hapakristin #myeotd (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9p8QRXhU0H/?igshid=1pgykojstyw94

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If you see someone without a smile, give them one of yours ❤️. Dropping a killer tip for winning at life 🙏🏼... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ —— 𝐈𝐓 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐒 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐀 𝐒𝐌𝐈𝐋𝐄 —— Happy people are too busy working on themselves to care about sabotaging the affairs of others, revenge or dragging others down with them 💭. Therefore, regardless of a person’s reasoning for their plight with you I still believe in responding with human decency, even to hateful people 🙏🏼. Not only does it project maturity during adversity, but it also invites all parties involved to question their initial understanding. Smile to highlight your sincerity, altruism and poise. Encourage positivity and communication 🙌🏻. Little actions like these are capable of healing relationships, bringing to light unspoken truths and affirming your ground during moments that require strength. 💯 ————————————————— I accidentally wore my gold @danielwellington to a pool and uhhh... Black’s still nice tho 😭😂. Use TISH15 for 15% off ✨ (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9krJwsBbw7/?igshid=1f6ccb3xrkhlr

Why Pikachu when you can Pick-a-me? 💙 Any anime recommendations? Just finished marathoning a lot of tv shows (with real people 😂) and need to get back to the gold stuff... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ———— 𝐅𝐀𝐕𝐄 𝐀𝐍𝐈𝐌𝐄𝐒 ———— Loved these ones growing up... • One Piece • Vampire Knight • Death Note • Bakuman • Sword Art Online • Soul Eater ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Recently, Violet Evergarden and Kakegurui! These aren’t technically anime, but Pokémon and Avatar: The Last Airbender will always be some childhood favourites too 🙏🏼 (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9X20Q4BjVa/?igshid=po6q0iakxtw2

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