To the person reading this, I hope tonight treats you gently, and that tomorrow looks brighter
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Game of Thrones Daily
Misplaced Lens Cap
"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
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Andulka

if i look back, i am lost
Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
One Nice Bug Per Day
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Peter Solarz

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Kiana Khansmith

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@tysurvivors
To the person reading this, I hope tonight treats you gently, and that tomorrow looks brighter
“Surround yourself with people who make you happy. People who make you laugh, who help you when you’re in need. People who genuinely care. They are the ones worth keeping in your life. Everyone else is just passing through.”
— Karl Marx (via quotemadness)
When your head hits the pillow tonight, remind yourself that you’ve done a good job. Be patient with yourself, and remember that big things are achieved not all at once, but one day at a time.
shit dude, here’s to all of the quiet victories. the things that other people take for granted but are so, so hard for you. the way your voice didn’t shake when you ordered your drink, the time you felt a swell of pride at something instead of shame, how you got out of bed after only the second time hitting snooze even though you couldn’t imagine anything more difficult than facing another fucking day. fucking cherish those. relish them, rejoice in them, do not let anyone pluck them from your grasp because they are yours and they are important.
Hope you're doing well and staying safe
I’ll be honest and say I’m not doing well, but I am staying safe.
I’m back in a toxic environment for quarantine and as every day goes by I feel a part of me breaking a part of me dissociating. I’m back in a toxic environment and everything I see and everything I hear brings me ptsd. I am fearful of the future and I am fearful for everyone else who is going through something similar. I almost forgot how it felt like to shove food down my stomach in five minutes because I was told that I am a waste of space, a waste of money, a waste. Now, more than ever, I feel neglected. I feel unworthy. I feel toxic. I am tired of hearing abusive words directed at me. Even recently, my best friend has been discrediting my trauma. She tells me that I have not experienced enough pain and continues to talk about herself... am I the crazy one? is this all just in my head? do I not deserve to feel sadness? will you leave me like everyone else?
When I think about harming myself... when I think about doing something irrational... impulsive... I cry and think about a time like this before. I think a few years back when I was on Tumblr pleading this community to recognize my pain to acknowledge my trauma. I felt so alone then and when everyone started to flood my inbox, I felt a warm tingling sensation deep down inside. My inner child wiped her tears and was surrounded by love from STRANGERS
strangers who I call my life line, my FAMILY.
I miss everyone here and I hope that you are staying safe and clinging onto that last bit of hope. We will one day heal from our trauma and grow into the person we were meant to be all along.
#thankyousurvivors
what’s on your mind? how’s your mental health? tell me how you’ve been these past few years... tell me here
A Small Guide to Journaling by Eintsein
Something you may or may not know about be is that I journal. However, only recently have I gotten the hang of it and stayed loyal to the habit of journaling. Here are some tips and tricks on how you can journal successfully. Hope you like it :)
one key to happiness is to focus on the good things that you WILL be doing and experiencing in your future, instead of focusing on the fact that you’re not doing/experiencing them now.
you will unlearn all of the bad habits you taught yourself and you will grow into someone stronger than you ever imagined you could be
Shout out to my friends who don’t have perfect skin. Inflamed skin disorders, acne, eczema, psoriasis, excoriation disorder, rosacea, pigmentation disorders, scarring, and the whole lot. I see you– we don’t get enough love, but I see you and you are beautiful.
Sometimes you fall off the wagon for months. Sometimes you tell yourself you’re gonna start fresh on Monday and by Wednesday you’ve already fallen back off. Sometimes you have to restart a 100 times and it’s frustrating. But it will be okay. You can do this. One day at a time
pain changes people. it makes them trust less, overthink more and shut people out.
Me: No one is hiring me
Adults: you’re just not trying hard enough
Me: oh yea, sorry about that. Let me apply “harder” this time. I’ll be sure to write my contact info extra “hard” this time. I’ll make sure to touch up my resume and make it hella “hard” this time around too.
preach
Adults: You just need to hit the pavement, knock on some doors, call the hiring manager!
Every job application ever: PLEASE NO UNSOLICITED VISITS OR PHONE CALLS.
Fact: Our reception pool forwards the names of people who call unsolicited on to HR, who puts the names on a DO NOT HIRE, CANNOT FOLLOW DIRECTIONS list.
This is what is the most terrifying about re-beginning the job search.
Fact: My brother was a store manager at AT&T for several years, and handled the hiring process. People that would call and call about the job wouldn’t get hired because, “They seemed to be the kind of people that would constantly need attention on the job, or wouldn’t make a good fit in customer service, because they don’t have the patience to wait for us to call them back.”
Meanwhile I’ve always been taught to do exactly those things because it “shows that you care and take initiative”
Here’s how I got my new job:
Made a profile on Indeed.
Crammed that fucker with every damn skill and job I have ever had. That time I ran roller-coasters for a month? On there. “Property Managing” my mother’s rental for six months because she was too lazy to drive over? On there. ALSO. If you are skilled in, say, Photoshop, don’t JUST put Photoshop as a skill. Also put Adobe Suite, Adobe Photoshop, etc. Put every possible term for your skill under the skills. Google skill lists and start slapping them in there if you have even a tiny bit of skill in them.
Downloaded the Indeed app on my phone.
Set up a saved search to show me all full-time jobs paying $15 or more per hour in my area, and set it to only show jobs with instant apply. I did not narrow it down by field or anything else. Just full-time, my area, $15/hr.
Wrote up a three sentenceish generic cover letter that was basically “I am good at customer service, client management, and handling the variety of tasks this job will involve. I will be available on X date and would love to speak to you about this position at your company.” But slightly more professionally put.
Just fucking clicked apply on everything. Anything that sounded like something I’d be willing and probably able to do. Like, I wasn’t applying to mechanic jobs or anything. But front-desk at a mechanic shop? Sure. Towing dispatcher? Sure. Print shop coordinator for some fancy real estate agency? Sure.
The beauty of Indeed’s mobile/quick apply is that once you’ve set up your profile on there clicking apply is literally all you have to do for about 75% of the quick apply jobs. Some will have a couple additional questions like how long you’ve done certain things, or when you’re available to start. Some have random fun questions like your favorite superhero (usually startups). You click that button and off your resume goes.
I spent about an hour every day doing this, submitted several hundred applications in the process, and heard back from…maybe 20. Got an interview at 4 or 5. Got hired at an insurance company that pays RIDICULOUSLY WELL. Took about a month.
Do I want to sell in insurance? Not particularly. But this job will support me, my art, my ability to buy a house, and PROVIDE RESIDUAL INCOME ONCE I RETIRE. Which. If I play my cards right I could do in as little as ten years.
Your mileage may vary with this technique, but given the way job hunting is set up now carpet bombing an application site like Indeed is always worth a shot. I will note that when I came across a job I thought sounded extra interesting and more in line with the fields I wanted to be in I’d save the application instead of applying, then take the time that night to put together a better full application.
Good luck. Job hunting is terrible.
i mentioned this briefly in my recent vlog about how important it is to gain a better understanding of finances + i figured that it might be nice to share some resources for gaining financial literacy! hope this helps ✨
why financial literacy is important
resources on financial literacy from the national credit union administration
harvard’s take on financial literacy + additional links within that page
how credit cards work
tips for improving your credit score
how to check and improve your credit score
khan academy course on finance
cnn money 101
mymoney.gov from the financial literacy commission
gcf lessons (includes lessons on work / career / internet / microsoft / etc as well)
ally wallet wise
money as you grow
adult budgeting 101
tips for paying off student loans
common ways you waste money
strategies for paying off student loans
how insurance works
personal loans 101
guide to getting out of debt
how student loans work
You deserve to be treated well. Just because you aren’t being treated well doesn’t mean you don’t deserve to be.
today is going to be my day, i’m projecting it into the universe, this day is mine