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Sure, the kinky fun stuff is amazing...but our everyday boring d/s is my happy place.

The little comments and questions in conversation that you know aren't just suggestions. The ease with which you can answer or agree because they have earned that submission by proving time and again that they take their responsibility as your dom seriously.

That no matter what, they are there to support and lead and build you up, because you are theirs....and because of that, you always want to try your best to please them and be just as much to them as they are to you.

Yes, I may enjoy being his naughty little slut, but that's all just fun side stuff. The actual d/s, the parts that some may find boring and some days difficult, that's where it's at.

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THIS! This is such an important part of it all! Before my sir leaves for his work, I am given a specific set of tasks to do. If he is going to be gone longer, I wake up to a list of things to do. I take pride in keeping our home how he likes it. I live for that praise when he can just relax and play drums. This dynamic has made our relationship so much better at the end of the day.