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09/14/2020 -- Hello, It's me and my random thoughts...

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I’m in a phase where uncertainty still lingers.

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Even when your heart knows it may never happen, hope still lingers softly — and somehow, that’s what hurts the most.

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Chances should be given to someone who truly deserves them, not to someone who makes a fool out of you.

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My heart yearns for the rain—the quiet it brings to all things, the calm that envelops me from head to toe, with each droplet falling softly like a bedtime story.

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Insecurities often drive people to create alter egos, but in doing so, they may unknowingly set themselves on a path toward their own downfall.

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.. in a poetic way.

"Insecurities give rise to alter egos—carefully crafted selves to hide the cracks within—but in becoming them, one may quietly walk the path to their own undoing."

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Insecurities often drive people to create alter egos, but in doing so, they may unknowingly set themselves on a path toward their own downfall.

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We feel safest in the arms of the one we love, yet we feel anxious about the things we know we lack.

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I am in a quiet season of my life, longing for a place of peace — where the wind soothes my restless soul, where the horizon washes away every shadow of doubt, and where hearts are gentle, untouched by judgment.

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Who cares if the others don't like you? What matters is somebody still likes you.

- a quoted line from a little kid

This one made me cry.

At times I feel unchosen and unseen, and in the echo of that feeling, I discover I haven’t chosen myself either.

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When we’re broken, negativity is all we can see. The pain, the struggle, the hardship—it all feels overwhelming, and loneliness becomes constant. It’s like being trapped in tall grass, lost no matter which direction we take. But life still blesses us, even when we’re too broken to notice. If we can clear just a small space, light appears. And when we follow it, we realize the blessings were always there—we just couldn’t see them yet.

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2025 Ended, and a New Year has Started..

It’s been a while since I last wrote here.

A lot has happened, and I hardly noticed the bad moments. I truly feel blessed for everything in 2025, and I hope 2026 brings even more good things.

Small blessings count, so let’s appreciate everything that we have.

2025 taught me so many things. One lesson flowed into another, each building on the last.

Be brave enough to say the things you’re afraid to say.

Be strong enough to face the challenges they bring you.

Never ignore the people who are giving you support.

Fight for what you know is right.

Balance the pros and cons before doing something.

Don’t be afraid to show your affection.

If you love someone, make them feel it, not just hear it.

Waiting isn’t really bad; if it’s meant for you, it will surely come.

Accepting that you are wrong is not a bad thing—take it as a lesson. Learn from it and prove that you are capable.

… and many more.

Some of these lessons I learned from the people I met in 2025. Their experiences and how they coped with them taught me more about life.

I realized how blessed I am to have endured those things early in my life, and now I’m savoring the fruit of what I planted before. It’s sweet and very peaceful.

I know I still have things to prove and challenges to endure in the future, but with God’s guidance and my family around me, I know and feel that I can face them with a brave heart and a warrior soul.

2026, please be good to us. I am holding on to hope and faith that my heart’s wishes will come true.

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I bet that some may disagree with me but I really believe that,

"Distance makes the heart grow fonder."

It's a case to case basis but the quote applies to my current situation.

The closer it gets to the time when my hubby comes back home, the stronger my longing for him grows.

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Betrayal stings hardest when it’s dealt by the hand you thought would always protect you.

I've been watching a K-drama called "You and Everything Else", and I kinda resonate with the protagonist of the story. The part when you feel betrayed by your friend.

Did she have a reason for what she did to me back then? I didn't get any answer to my questions. I should never have entertained it anyway; it's all in the past now.

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In a romantic relationship, PAST means.. Previous Association Should be Terminated

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When people don't listen to you before, and now you see them struggling. Forcing you to accompany them in their misery due to their stupidity.

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Letting go means you start to value your peace more than someone else's toxicity.

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When emotions are high, the IQ is low.

~ Unknown