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@the-golden-gates-system
Welcome to the Golden Gates System, where the halls and gardens are endless.
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Most of us use he/they but few alters use she/her
Autistic and part time AAC user
Cripple punk
Marxist Leninist
We all speak Japanese
It will mostly be Brick, Byte, and Gabe posting but everyone will tag their posts with their names
Endos dni
Religious alter: I was put here by God to help the system
Atheist alter: I split due to a dissociative process the brain has developed to handle stress
Agnostic alter: No one knows what I'm doing here
oooooo u want to give ur sysfriends all ur money
oooooooo u wanna surrender all ur earthly possessions to ur sysfriends
so has anybody’s dad ever actually apologized to them, or is that just an urban legend
depressed at 11 was crazy i should have become a child prodigy
People talking abt autism like its a set of quirky silly traits and not an often debilitating neurological disorder genuinely drives me up a wall, especially as someone who's support needs are higher.
"I want a gf with autism :3" ok are you prepared to help them with hygiene tasks? Are you gonna help them with laundry and cleaning their room? Are you gonna be patient with them when they're using AAC? Will you comfort them through meltdowns? Or do you just want a gf who talks to you about dinosaurs and has a cute "neurodivergent aesthetic"?
The minimization of autistic struggles to just "socially awkward sometimes" ends up making higher support needs autistics feel real isolated, because it's obvious that when you romanticize neurodivergence, you're not talking about us.
sys culture is having to remind newer alters who the people in our life are 😭😭 because then they go "WAIT THATS OUR SISTER????" "THOSE ARE OUR FRIENDS?????"
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Terrible news: communication is effective and benefits relationships
systems, how do y'all tell when you're splitting?
do you have physical symptoms? is there a certain feeling? is there nothing at all?
for us, it's usually a headache in some way (though tbf I get those a lot just in general) and I start noticing - especially as host - "huh. I don't usually think of myself like that/don't usually act like that"
and those few traits are related to that newer split sorta. being around-ish. does that make sense?
For us when we are splitting we have a headache and a lot of identity confusion. We will feel off and often times lose time more than we already do
Sys culture is an alter existing for upwards of a YEAR and never making himself a profile on any of tracking apps because he ‘didn’t think it was necessary’
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Terfs dont belong in the DID tags. Stay the fuck out of our space
Nasty ass terf in the DID tags for you to block
System culture is every time your therapist tells you you’re doing an amazing job of having a normal life, it echos hollowly in you because you feel like even being a well adjusted adult is just a coping mechanism that you had to take on way too early in life so you perfected it over the years, but you can’t tell your therapist this because he is praising you and it feels nice to be seen for once
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system culture is only being a good writer when that one little fucker is around. hi. i need u for vocabulary. hello my dictionary. assist me.
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finding out you spent most of your life dissociated is a HUGE bummer
i thought shit didnt stick to me cuz i was slick but its cause i wasnt there #LAME
I think when you correctly identify a trauma that is the base of a woe of yours it should just disappear. It should be like "aaahh. you got me" and vanish and leave 100 dollars behind
