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vladtheunfollower

quenchboi

Monster Gems 👻

wishem

A concept with @inkwillstain about how The Void is a cat that eats people’s worries and poops them out into stars.

pocula-blog

district3-deactivated20230204

i obviously hate cishet transphobes but i absolutely fucking despise transphobic lgb people. like you have to be a special kind of brain dead monster to go through bigotry and the fear of death and violence and then turn around and do the same to others. the same with racist lgbt people. trans people of color BUILT this community and you fucking demons have the fucking nerve to bask in what they did for you while spitting in their faces

mapsontheweb

Map of every European city.

niggazinmoscow

Perfectly gay ❤️

valtsv

anarchapella

Unpopular opinion: straight people using “partner” to refer to their SO actually helps normalize the term so that lgbt folx can use it without automatically outing themselves to strangers. It also helps other straight ppl get comfortable with the fact that strangers aren’t entitled to information about other people’s gender or sexuality.

lesserkiwi-deactivated20180504

Give op their hard-earned notes

krusty-cakes

Tbh I hear “partner” and assume gay, I didn’t know straights used it. Very fair point, OP

queerlybelovedones

I hear ‘partner’ and think ‘gay’ too. A girl at work used it for months and I just went with it. When she would say ‘he’ I even thought maybe he was trans*. Anyways, someone using partner makes me more comfortable and I came out to her. She was just an intelligent straight girl that liked the term and was knowledgeable in human sexuality so definitely someone I should have felt comfortable coming out too. It’s a good sign of a straight person uses it IMO.

imagddisaster-deactivated202009

As a mental health clinician, this is actually my blanket term when discussing any romantic relationship. I agree it normalizes it, but I also think it’s a relatively safe term to use to describe most romantic relationships without making any assumptions about the person’s orientation or identity. I also use the word “partnered” when describing a monogamous relationship status.

mxthermoon

The term “partner” also removes the implied hierarchy of boyfriend/girlfriend vs husband/wife. This is relevant both to non-monogamous people, and unmarried individuals for whom the importance of their relationship isn’t dictated by its legal status.

handypolymath

I’ve used “partner” since I got engaged to my partner over twenty years ago, for all of these reasons. A great bonus is that right at the get-go it shuts down a ton of erroneous assumptions randos cheerfully make about our relationship when I use “husband” and my partner uses “wife” (e.g., the super gender stereotyped and misogynist things you see in tumblr memes about hets and straights).