instead of spending so much time assuring other people that “asexuals can have sex to please their partner” why don’t we spend time assuring asexuals that they are under no obligation to have sex with their partners to please them, and that if their partner cant respect their sexuality, they don’t deserve them.
Why are you defining people by their sexuality and expecting them to act in specific ways, instead of as individuals with a variety of reasons for doing things, like "wanting to make the person they love happy"?












