What's your type of love and what type of love do you need?
you’ve been thinking of your love life recently and you can’t seem to be satisfied with how things are going lately. Your friends invited your to party in a park at night to see the stars and fireflies. But you lowkey don’t feel energized enough to stay late at night and wake up early in the morning, tired. Do you still accept the invitation?
A] You have to choose an outfit, something comfortable, ample and light because it’s summer and feeling like floating while watching the stars has something magical in it. You arrive and find your friends and a few people you don’t know but your friends do. You great them all, take a sit and talk. At some point you want to eat a snack, which one are you going for?
1 - chips! I like those (pick the chips image)
2 - fruits, it’s sweet and juicy (take the fruits picture)
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Bonus~
They’re your favorite flavor, someone next to you is amused by your expression, finding you cute. You’re talking to each other and like e/o so your exchange numbers.
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B] You decided to stay home… it’s not necessarly laziness but you needed to take a pause from outside world and social interactions. And you believe that you can still look at those stars by your window (if you don’t forget that is). Since you’re all by yourself, what do you want to do?
3 - Staying on my phone, scrolling for hours… watching a serie. (Pick the person on their phone’s picture)
4 - nothing really… I just want to chill, do maybe my selfcare night routine, clean up the mess while enjoying the music (pick the room picture)
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Bonus~
As you’re taking care of yourself by giving you some great time, option 3 fell asleep without turning off their device and started to dream of an unknown person with whom they had an intimate encounter… The one they have been thinking about lately : a partner to lit up their life with too.
Option 4 remembered to look at the stars and was is awe with their beauty and how close they seem yet how far they actually are and how it reminds them of their small significance in life. They saw a shooting star! Quick!! Make a wish!
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tarot cards : page of cups, page of pentacles, Hanged Man, Fool, 3 of pentacles, 9 of pentacles, 8 of swords, Judgment, 2 of pentacles, 10 of cups, 4 of cups, Wheel of Fortune + Tower
Type of love : You have a very pure love to offer to your partner and more globally to the people you love. Heavy on words of affirmations and acts of service. You seem to be the type of person to do your best to uplift people's mood and make them see who they are on a better lense. Very supportive and uplifting, but you still stay a grounded and reasonable person, not too emotionally expressive but very very sensitive, you are an empath. Your love is healing, it aims to help your loved one to get out of their head and see from a brighter perspective. Your love is sunny, you bright strongly when you express your most vulnerable and understanding self when you're in love or simply being lovely. I feel warmth to your type of love, yellow color. When you love someone, you not only help them but you work with them, you're not just giving advices, you are following them with your person. You are so adorable!˜ I'm not into astrology but for some reason your Sun placement matters, sun in 4th/5th house, sun in leo/cancer, venus in leo, venus in 4th/5th house, venus-sun, sun-moon aspect. You are willing to learn how to properly love your person and you might also be teaching them how to love you too without really noticing. You appear to be very mature in love although you are still learning how to be loved and how to love in addition to know more about who you are. You feelings are rather stable so you're more turned for a longterm partnership that may explain why you are not overly expressive but you do not shy away from them either. You adapt really well to your person, very nurturing, lots of caring energy... I see you holding your person tight, worrying about their well being, trying to communicate (but it doesn't seem like it's your best asset) then eventually do a small act of love to show that you care such as cooking, hugging them, putting their favotite show on the tv, making them feel at ease. Your acts are quite small but very meaningful and noticeable. And once your person is comfortable, you show a more open heart, more youthful energy... maybe to ignore the awkward feeling you've felt before showing your love towards them. Sweet, lowkey and slow but powerful love is what I think of for you.
tarot cards : Devil, High Priestess, 8 of cups R, 8 of swords, Fool, Judgment, 10 of cups, page of swords, 6 of pentacles, knight of swords + Temperance
the love you need : It contrasts a bit with the love you give, you need a deep deep love, a love that is so rooted in loyalty, devotion and sensuality. An appealing love that leads you to the depth of one's soul, very powerful, fiery, a bit obsessive and very fusion-like. A love that consums you and lets no crumbs of your soul. At the same time, this love is intensely light, deeply sweet and emotional. You need tenderness, reciprocity and a lot of sensuality. A love that holds your soul in a warm embrace, a love that caresses your most vulnerable and hidden parts, one that screams sensuality not only by view but on how it shakes you. I have this image of a spirit (the embodiment of love) that touches you everywhere with so much passion, care and tenderness at the same time. This "spirit" (love) hugs you so close to it, as if it craves to be part of you, part of your body and soul. It wants to live free in you, shakes your mind. I want to stay family friendly but, a love that makes you trembling, that awakens a part of your soul to a new dimension. But everything is so sweet, so light. It's not raw at all, but it's not wishy washy. The love you need should be seen by everyone but not investigated by the external world, a love that feels you with passion, courage and mental agility as in, you getting energized once you become Love itself with your person, the type of love that makes you climb the highest mountains, make you visit the 7th sky. A love that makes your soul orgasm.
tarot cards : Chariot (Queen of cups and knight of wands R + King of cups and Sun)
type of partners : You need a partner who knows where they're heading with you, a partner who doesn't lead you astray but put you on your toes when you're doubting yourself and your life. A person that is deeply connected to their intuition and emotions, very emotionally interlligent, nurturing, charming, have this healing touch and self expression as in, them talking to you, touching you, kissing you, looking at you, hearing their voice soothes you making you more grounded, emotionally aware, self-conscious. I lean more towards an introvert person or ambivert who's more of an introvert, they're not the type to let their desires take the control of them if they feel no emotional connection, you might need someone who's more reserved because it may reassure you about their intent with you. Someone who is childish and reminds you of how pure you are allowed to be and easy and light you can feel and move in life e.g. seeing them playing with ants and how they seem admirative of how they communicate will inspire you to be admirative of the smallest things in life too, finding happiness when you see their face shine with a big smile on their face, looking at the ants with them because you love how passionate they seem. Someone who enjoys the smallest things in life is what you need, a peaceful and quite energy but that is the only person you see because they seem to shine... just like you!
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tarot cards : Emperor, High Priestess, 9 of wands, 8 of cups, Hierophant, 6 of cups, Ace of wands, 6 of wands R, 8 of swords, King of wands, 10 of wands, King of cups + Ace of swords
type of love : Your love is subtle yet assertive. Your loved one can be certain that you love them although you do not expressively say it, you may be the type to value quality time and acts of service. You are deeply in tune with your emotions and the emotional well being of others, you are very commited, loyalty is very important to you and you gain so much more confidence in yourself when loyalty is reciprocated to you, you become more willing to have time and help your loved ones. Also you embody some strong traits of someone lighting the mood, taking on a role you're not necessarly used to simply because you know it's going to make those you love happy. I feel like you are the type of person to listen to someone's deepest feelings and hardest truths, the parts they usually don't show to others because of fears and expectations placed upon them. People confide in you, you know it. They trust you, you are a listening ear, even if you can't give proper advices to help them or move alongside them, you are still there to keep an eye on them. You are honest, and I believe you have a tough love meaning that if the person you love doesn't eat, you'd find any methods to make them eat, paying attention to everyword they say and act accordingly. You seem to be alert on every possible situation your person may suffer because you want to be the first and the last to help hem. Your love is nurturing but very imposing, it's like a mother with her children but she embodies more masculine traits. She's demanding yet soft and understanding, she can be overbearing but she always know what works. You are the one leading the relationship because of your ability to understand in a personal and deep manner, it's not based on intuition only, but mostly based on experience because you analyze them. You have a keen eye, and that is something not everyone can understand because they may feel you as too much, or trying hard to be relevent which might have caused misunderstandings, but happilly enough you met people who understood you for who you are and how you are able to love. You love with strenght, care, intensity and limits (as in you not tolerating anything wrong happening to your person whether or not they're the author). You know your love is not easy, but you're aware that some people are deserving of your love and not everyone can receive it, you're not scared to love.
tarot cards : Lovers R, Star, 10 of wands R, Tower, 2 of swords, knight of pentacles, 8 of pentacles, 4 of swords + 3 of swords
the love you need : On the contrary, you wouldn't want someone to love you the same way - so with the same thoughness you love -, you seem to be easily insecure about yourself, moslty about your life choices/the pace in which you move forward in life. You may comapare yourself a lot and wonder if you're doing anything right, if you're progressing fast enough, if you're good enough which adds a lof of pressure on your shoulders already, that explains why you wouldn't want someone who loves you in being too oberservant of you/too much on you like you can be. You need a love that soothes you, a love that tells you that everything is alright, that the pace in which you move is good... you're not expected to be perfect or good enough, you're expected to be you, enough as you are. You don't need to prove anything, a caressing love, one that lets you sleep and be lazy, one that accpets you at your worst : when in pain, when you make mistakes, when you hurt yourseld or somebody else. I have this vision of someone hugging you while you're crying and hidding your head on their chest. They are caressin your head, your hair, regulating your emotional upset with a caring "shh" and that's the only thing you hear and care about. You are in dark room, confirming that it's at your lowest but also when there's no one else around and you can show your ugly sides too.
tarot cards : Star, Emperor, Tower, Sun, Knight of swords (King of swords + Fool)
type of partners : The partner however is a mix of how you love and what you love you need. It signifies someone flexible with words, and words that influence your mood to uplift you, someone with words of affirmation as a love language, physical touch also. Someone who embodies masculine traits such as being more "dominant" in the relationship but still very caring, wise, moderate, thoughtful yet action oriented. Acts of service may not be too relevent because you're already capable, they would just encourage you and see you do what you want to do. I have this vision of you getting back up from the hug and them watching you moving further to do your own things with a smile, proud of them because they gave your strength back and they know you'll get it, they're still sat, so they're not vy your sides, but they are with you. Whether or not it's perfect, it doesn't matter, they do not want you to give up, but they do want you to remember what you've been through, take a pause, cry, shout, anything as long as you do something productive. You are allowed to change your mind, they're not forcing you into anything, they do not have expectations they project onto you. You are safe, this person has to be a safe place for you. You don't need to be monitored, you don't need to be told what to do, you need to be listened, safe, heard, soothed.
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tarot cards : Chariot, Star, Hanged Man R, Justice R, King of swords, 3 of pentacles, 6 of swords, 10 of swords, 6 of wands + World
type of love : You love with passion and depth, you have a type of love that is rooted in pain too. To start off, your love is stronger or stronger when you word it : through messages, speaking directly, writing. You seem to understand your own emotions this way too, and for some reason I get the feeling that your mind is very poetic and you make beautiful puns with/about the person you love. To word it better, you seem like a poet and/or someone who has vocabulary and if you're one of those who do not have a rich vocabulary you are still very skilled with metaphors, beautiful comparisions. I don't know if you're praised of that even, but it seems like it's somethin you can try to dig on because it seems to be a strength you may or may not be aware of. Your love has the strength to give force and drive to those you love, it boosts them, fills them with hope and desires. Words of affirmation seems to run deep in you, I suppose you didn't have the chance to be told that you were deserving of love whilst it was what you needed : someone telling you "I love you" and hugging you like there was no tomorrow. Your love feels the same way to your loved ones. It happens sometimes that you don't know what to say, lost your words and you thought that you were unable to love your person. You have to remind yourself that your love is worthy of being recognized without extra steps, that it doesn't have to be on display everyday either and still being worthy of being loved and to love. You might have been rejected in a past, misunderstood even... maybe no one was taking you seriously when you were, maybe you were trying to be vulnerable but they misinterpreted it as you being false or shallow and wanting attention... and all you did was telling them your feelings, because you trusted and loved them enough to be this open, but they broke it and silenced you. Now, remind yourself that you're free from those past chains and they do not matter, your love is beautiful and there a lot of people (future and even present) who would love to be showered with it.
tarot cards : Moon R, High Priestess R, Star, Empress, Strength, Hermit, King of cups, knight of pentacles, page of pentacles, 8 of cups, Ace of cups, 10 of wands, page of cups + 8 of swords
the love you need : You seem to need a partner that loves you through quality time, words of affirmation and for some of you, gift giving. A love that makes you grow individually, a love that makes you more certain about yourself : your own truth, your intuition, your own emotions and more specifically : your own light. A love that makes you work on yourself, guides you with care, understanding and presence. It follows you wherever you go because it's a dedicated love, it has a goal. I have this image of someone (a personification of the love you need) working with you through your confusions, your unconscious patterns that are not serving you and they never leave your side until you (both) decide so. It offers you a new sense of self but also a new sense of emotional well being and understanding, you become more in touch with your emotions rather than absorbing the emotions of other people and not knowing which is yours or not. Each time this love crosses your blocages to reach you, you grow as a new person and you feel lighter, better, assertive yet still in a process phase as you get aware that everything (as in your worries) is temporary and if you fall back in it again, you're not alone and you'll get out of here eventually. As a person, in addition to a guide, I'd say it's the type that, if you were sent to jail, it'd came with you in that prison and would find solutions with you, for you to become free.
tarot cards : Moon, Chariot, Knight of swords (page of pentacles + Devil)
type of partners : This person should be honest, make things clear between you everytime you have doubts, each time you don't feel secure within yourseld and in your surrounding. They should be able to ease any tensions you could have between each other but also that you have with other people. You seem very sensitive/impressionable and you absorb people's emotions... it can trigger you and make you refrain and even, in certain specific cirumstances : explode. This person has to be able to tame the beast within you, someone willing to help you and leap in your rawest aspect. A supporting love, understanding and encouraging love that aims to make you grow, seeing your situation through another lense. A person who'd walk along side you, never complaining. They're not here to replace your inner healing process however, they are simply guiding you towards your own inner light and truth : trying to help you listen to yourself, your own emotions and not the emotions of others, finding your intuition, your truth. They act like a guide, not a teacher, but they're your partner. Helping you move through the confusions and illusions, breaking free from the past and tocix patterns.
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tarot cards : 4 of cups, Chariot, Hierophant, 4 of pentacles, 2 of swords, 7 of wands, Tower + World
type of love : You seem to be the type of person to not show your vulnerable side, always in control and appearing aloof yet composed and self sufficient. Your way of loving is not tough or too harsh but it's reserved. You don't show it to anybody, you're actually very selective to whom you express it. There might be a lingering fear of giving too much and your efforts not being reciprocated equally. You love with passion and once you love it is because you deemed this person as worthy of receiving it. Once you love, it may even shock people around you such as "I never thought you were this type of person", "you don't seem to be sweet, I'm quite surprised you can be". Maybe sometimes it hurts you as it feels like they're not understanding of who you are, they judge you harshly or with a mindset not very open to your complex personality. That can also explain why you're reluctant to show it to the world, because of misjudgment, them not being receptive enough of your love and hurt you without even knowing. You love hard, you aim to help your person gain moer strength and confdence in themselves (their skills, their patth, their choices, their passions, etc.), you seem to have a guiding personality, words of affirmations may be a thing but not the biggest, I'd say you lean more on the acts of service and teaching type of love. You give advices, you guide, you help, you listen, you understand where this person is coming from... it may even take you some time to process the situation and you spend a lot of time thinking of the best advice to give depending on the person you're in contact and their problem. You're very intelligent, but you may lack self-confidence while you're giving it to others and that's something you should work on. You should give yourself the same amount of time you spend for others, give the same attention and care you give to the world to yourself, give yourself the same amount of love you offer to yourself.
tarot cards : Hanged Man R, 10 of cups, page of swords, 9 of wands, 2 of cups, Tower, 3 of pentacles, 5 of wands, 6 of swords, Knight of wands, Lovers, 7 of wands + 2 of wands
the love you need : You need the same type of love you give but more assertive, more confident, more open to vulnerability. One that doesn't make you doubt your own value and emotions, your senstive and vulnerable aspects are all worth to be aknowledged and deeply cared for. This type of love should be able to understand your deepest parts, make you see yourself from another point of view, make you move forward within yourself and bring you closer to your values. A love that allows you to be honest with yourself, unafraid to be "too much" or sometimes "not enough" and even not what others have expected of you. This love is healthy, mature, grounded, fearless, forceful and adventurous. This love, described as a person should be like a mature individual, not specifically someone that knows more than you but digs deeper for you, fights for you in front of others, similar to a protector but who's not cautious. Let's say, if someone came to tell you in front of other people "usually, you're not that sweet, that's rare", this love (personified as a person) would respond "there's no point of saying that, it's false, they're always like that but you don't notice...", for some of you this is a love that could lead to arguments but who is not afraid to defend you even if that appear "immature" because in fact, it is not, they're just taking care of you through words and spitting facts, not lying or being insulting against the other person. I have this vision of a classmate (probably older, obersvant, mature, curious, open minded) who defends you in front of your opponent (let's word it that way) and you just looking at them surprised because you didn't know someone paid attention to you, to your efforts, your actions, your words. This is the type of love you deserve to be loved from.
tarot cards : page of cups, Sun, Emperor, knight of cups, (World + Magician)
type of partners : You may get along better with people who are very expressive emotionally, have a sunny personality and are easy going, curious, artistic and creative. Those people are romantic and show off this part of them, but they show off this aspect of them not to attract potential partners but because it's who they truly are ; their actions should be in relation to their words (and not the other way around!), they're reliable, trustworthy and quite dominant but not in an oppressive way ; depending on the dynamic of your relationship it could be them leading conversations, them regulating your emotional responses, them telling you how to act accordingly but they're not telling all that just because they can and they want to, but because they know and just want to be someone you could rely on if you ever need support, guidance and seek betterment. They have skills with words and are very charming, they know how to appeal to other people, ease tension even if they are part of it, they know how to bring peace back by being very understanding, emotionaly intelligent and rational. To take the prior example of the argument, if they went to the principal's office, during the conversation, your person is trying to find a common ground peacefuly while still standing on their ground, not holding grudges, acting impulsively. They might have a manipulative side without even knowing... possibly since they believe the world can be beautiful and life might have been easy to them or an aspect of their life was, they manipulate the person sometimes without meaning to.
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