I hope youāre having a truly amazing day! It would mean the world to me, Hon, if you could share your insight on this. How would you interpret a Venus-Pluto opposition? Specifically, how do you feel it affects one's love life and the type of people they attract?
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Venus-Pluto opposition (romance oriented)
One of the words we associate with Pluto's energy is intensity. It might sound repetitive, but Plutoās intensity doesn't arise from nothing. It is the answer to a deep fear of surrendering vulnerability and exposure to people who only know how to repay with betrayal. Before addressing the specific points you've asked about, I think it's best to go back to the root: the perception of love and how this aspect influences a person's experience in romance.
Relationships can seem like a very appealing concept, but often remain just in ideas (especially if Venus is in Gemini, a very intellectual sign). Attraction and caution coexist when thinking of romance. It feels like something forbidden to desire. Perhaps something we can't allow ourselves to ask for or want. It requires a high level of intimacy and closeness that they donāt feel comfortable giving to just anyone. This self-protection could stem from tumultuous, complicated experiences that have lingered for years. This reveals past romantic relationships that have left a lasting mark on them or, consciously or unconsciously, have instilled in them a sense of wariness and a reluctance to trust others easily.
They observe before deciding to open up emotionally. They take emotional vulnerability in romantic relationships seriously, so they are the kind of people who prefer to spend time single rather than settle for something that alleviates feelings of loneliness.Ā
In a world where casual relationships are increasingly common, it's worth noting that, in most cases, these individuals don't fit well into this dynamic. Even if they ever try, they'll feel something is missing (a void, if you will). They need depth in their romantic relationships, to feel that the other person desires more than just their body or a quick fling, that they are aligned in terms of their inner richness.
Their romantic life revolves more around realism than fantasy romance. They don't seek promises or pursue unattainable ideals of love. They seek to avoid pain and betrayal. They are aware that love is not simple, and they don't aim for easy relationships, as these often reflect superficiality in their eyes.Ā
These natives want a relationship where both always choose each other, despite the difficulties. Someone who doesn't run from their dark sides (both their own and those of the natives); someone who has done the work to integrate them healthily.
Those born under this aspect may gravitate towards relationships that will transform and change them significantly, in every sense. They may meet people who help them change for the better, empower themselves, or gain more self-confidence. It's worth mentioning that, being a challenging aspect, this can also manifest in romantic experiences that trigger personal growth through breakups or distancing themselves from people they once loved. This could be due to distance, personality clashes, or the native recognizing that they don't deserve certain situations.
They may attract relationships after very difficult times in their lives (deaths, abrupt breakups, routines, or the area where Pluto is located in their charts). Sometimes, they achieve a bond gradually and uniquely with these people.
They manage to attract and connect almost immediately with those who possess a great amount of emotional strength as a result of profound losses, difficult pasts, or complicated relationships with love itself. Reserved personalities, emotionally reserved individuals, or those who struggle with control and vulnerability may be especially drawn to them.
Resilience can be a common ground between them and the people they tend to attract. It also leads them to conclude that those who didn't give up during the most difficult stages of their lives won't give up in the face of common differences or tensions in relationships.
Looking at the planets in water signs rn and not seeing a single planet in earth elements. The emotion side of me is not liking it (not familiar with emotions and feelings hshshshs) and how are y'all dealing with this
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The Part of Fortune is an Arabic part that represents the luck that we naturally attract, from the areas of our life in which we can attract greater opportunities to the area of āāour life in which we can find greater satisfaction and success. Some also attribute this point to the natural talents with which we are born. You can calculate it on Astro.com in the small "Additional Objects" tab. As a personal recommendation, I recommend checking which house(s) the POF ruler(s) fall into and check the description of it too.
šPart of fortune in the 1st house: These people can attract luck very easily throughout their lives, whether taking the path they want, due to their personality or even their physical appearance. They can be considered charismatic and very attractive by other people. Ease to achieve everything they want or put their mind into. They will attract a lot of luck if they decide to work in areas that allow them to deal with the public or be public figures. They tend to have the ability to light up the room or lift the spirits of others. Things may seem to naturally align in their favor. It is possible that any project they start will flourish quickly and give results just as quick. They can have strong self-confidence and, without seeking it, attract a lot of reassurance from others. They tend to be seen as lucky, privileged by other people. They make very good decisions even if they decide based on intuition. They feel and are protected by divinity and because of this trust they have in it, the intensity increases.
š²Part of fortune in Aries: These people usually come out triumphant in any competition, easily defeating enemies or doing better than them. Many chances of success when you work on your own and dare to put your ideas into action. Leadership skills or greater success when they guide a group of people. Confiding in your abilities and daring to take risks can result in great experiences and opportunities. These people may stand out for being the first to do something and may be seen as pioneers. Ease of motivating and empowering people, you share and spread your energy and drive to others. There is no challenge or difficulty that they cannot overcome. Great vitality and strength, as well as healthy self-esteem.
š¤Aries degrees [01Ā°, 13Ā°, 25Ā°]: They tend to make the right decisions throughout their lives. Great vitality and strength, both mental and physical. Opportunities to start projects that will bring them success. Ease for reaching powerful positions. They will enjoy victories and triumphs of all kinds. They take wise risks that can bring a lot of satisfaction to their lives. Their independence itās the key to their success.
šPart of fortune in the 2nd house: They may have better luck attracting stability in every sense, especially economic ones. They will more easily attract things and/or opportunities that meet their needs, things arrive just when they need them. They can achieve success by starting their own businesses, making investments or making their hobbies their business or source of work. These people have a high and strong self-esteem, they are endowed with strong self-love. Their innate talents and abilities can be the door to success for these natives. You may more frequently attract people who value your efforts and may be appreciated for your presence and actions. Stability can come in your life, constant periods of satisfaction and things that accompany you in the long term, contributing favorably to you. You can attract many resources and tools throughout your life that open doors for you [money or other material goods, connections, learning, information, among others].
š²Part of fortune in Taurus: For these natives, life will be filled with opportunities to explore pleasure in its different forms, from the most mundane to the deepest, from the emotional to the material realm. They can enjoy many moments of stability in their lives and attract things that bring happiness and comfort to their lives in the long term. These people can easily attract everything they want, in general they have a great power of attraction. They are people who can be endowed with a lot of beauty and natural charm. They can easily attract stable connections that provide them with constant support. The universe will remove from your paths everything that messes with your peace and will fill you with better things shortly after.
š¤Taurus degrees [02Ā°, 14Ā°, 26Ā°]:People endowed with a lot of physical attractiveness, elegance and very strong confidence. They can more easily attract stability in their lives, more specifically economic ones. Ease to materialize your ideas and make them prosper or grow. They give others a sense of stability. When they act based on their values āāthey can attract a lot of luck.
šPart of fortune in the 3rd house: They will attract many opportunities to undertake short trips, likewise, very positive and satisfying things await them through it. They can easily excel during their student life, whether academically, socially, or both.They will have great luck working with others and being part of communities of any kind, and they can be highly appreciated in these. They may have a good relationship with siblings, cousins āāor neighbors, or at least one who is really supportive. They can attract people who are naturally very brotherly towards them. People may like to be with them, as they exude allure and can easily captivate others. Ease of communication, their writing can become recognized or they can be praised for the way you communicate. Ease of forming and creating satisfactory relationships with the people around them, or at least cordial ones. You tend to have an innate positive impact on the people around you.
š²Part of fortune in Gemini: Ease of acquiring diverse knowledge and standing out in many different areas from a very young age. They have a natural talent for connecting with others through words, whether verbally or in writing. It should be added that they stand out for communicating very accurately what they want to say. They can be successful in the sales sector and stand out for their social intelligence. They can easily mentally stimulate others, challenge them and entertain them at the same time. They tend to be easily recognized by their intelligence, by one of their hobbies and by their wit. Many times they can start doing things out of mere curiosity which can lead them to success or give them a lot of satisfaction.Ā
š¤Gemini degrees [03Ā°, 15Ā°, 27Ā°]: Natural talent for writing, great communicators and can be seen as very charismatic and appealing ones. Gifted with a very capable mind that can lead them to be very successful. What they say can have a high impact on others. They can learn facts or things that seem random but that can be significant on other occasions. They attract many resources of all kinds.
šPart of fortune in the 4th house: These natives will have ease and success building their own home, making it a place where they feel calm, content and fulfilled. They can attract more stable things, from opportunities to long-term emotional bonds. They find happiness and satisfaction by being at home or doing things that bring them comfort. They may have greater emotional stability and do not depend on others to feel better or worse. They may have a supportive family or a member of their family that they connect with on all levels and provide them with unconditional support.They will easily attract people who become family to them. They are people with great emotional responsibility and awareness, which will attract opportunities and happiness to them. Being around these natives usually gives a feeling of coming home, they have the ability to make others feel good and give them comfort without trying too hard. They enjoy and get a lot of satisfaction when they can spend time alone.Ā
š²Part of fortune in Cancer: They gain satisfaction from taking care of their emotional well-being, even if they take small actions to do so. These people will easily attract people's empathy and support. People feel naturally comfortable around them and they have a charm that inspires adoration and tenderness in others. They can attract strong bonds with women or people with feminine energy that bring them satisfaction and success. Being in touch with your inner child brings you many opportunities. They have the ability to nourish others emotionally, spiritually and mentally, as well as quickly make any project they have in mind flourish. Life will give you many heart-warming experiences and the ability to create beautiful and meaningful memories.
š¤Cancer degrees [04Ā°, 16Ā°, 28Ā°]: Ease of moving others emotionally and understanding the needs of others. They give comfort to others with their mere presence. Their family ties can bring them luck. They can be welcomed by other families and treated as part of them. Talent for reading people, high emotional intelligence. Likely to attract luck when keeping their plans to themselves.Ā
šPart of fortune in the 5th house: Chance seems to be on their side, they can be very lucky in games, and they seem to have a strong power of attraction. Their hobbies and talents can be sources of success, it can give them opportunities to improve their lives or even make them gain a lot of recognition. They can attract attention very easily, gain fame more quickly than other people, and gain the esteem of others without trying too hard. They are people who stand out for their attractiveness and can attract suitors or couples with economic or job stability, who bring them a lot of happiness or who benefit them in some way. They can obtain great benefits if they trust their talents and potential and decide to make their ideas come true and if they dare to create. These natives contribute positively to their relationships as well, filling their partners with motivation and joy. Opportunities and good luck as they embrace themselves and speak their minds. They can be very fertile people and if they want to be parents, they can enjoy a great relationship with their children.Ā
š²Part of fortune in Leo: These people tend to attract people's attention, appreciation and admiration more easily. They stand out enormously for their talents and will enjoy great success when they make use of them. Ease of entertaining and amusing people. They gain recognition for their talents and for being themselves. They can generate a lot of income through a hobby. They can attract plenty of situations in which they are or can be the center of attention, and can stand out greatly if they take those opportunities. When they put their energy and passion into a specific action, activity or project, it is easier for them to achieve surprising and satisfactory results for the natives. Very likely to attract fame and recognition on a large scale.
š¤Leo degrees [05Ā°, 17Ā°, 29Ā°]: They will more easily attract success, recognition or praise from others. Great creativity, ability to easily shine in any aspect of their lives. They attract positive things when they are authentic and themselves. They have strong self-esteem and awareness of their own abilities. They have a lot of charisma and know that they can achieve many things on their own.
šPart of fortune in the 6th house: These people may have a particular ability that makes them stand out quite a bit and even be easily admired by others because of it. Natives of great intelligence and a work ethic that will make them stand out. They can enjoy an excellent work environment, easily earning the appreciation and respect of other co-workers, bosses or people under their supervision. They can recover from illnesses more easily. An ease to attract the support of others, often this being selfless and of great impact for the natives. After helping others, these people can return the favor on a larger scale to the native. A lot of success at work, ease of promotion and enjoying many benefits through this. Ease in dealing with animals of all kinds, they can feel comfortable around the native. They inspire confidence in others easily, and that is precisely what opens up many opportunities for them. Success at work and being seen as efficient and capable gives them enormous satisfaction.
š²Part of fortune in Virgo: Their small actions have big positive impacts without even intending to. They can have a strong body capable of recovering from illnesses with ease. These natives may be highly respected and well regarded for some skill they have focused on developing. Their hard work brings them great rewards, often exceeding their expectations. Ease in making decisions and can make the best one in crisis situations. Order brings them happiness and they find satisfaction in doing small actions to take care of their well-being and body. They often bring clarity to other people's lives, as well as bringing them down to earth. Their rationality allows them to discern between various situations and take the one they like best.
š¤Virgo degrees [06Ā°, 18Ā°]: They attract luck when they dedicate themselves to jobs that require dedication, precision and perseverance. Greater success when they have a schedule or when they take charge of their lives themselves. They can be great communicators too, especially in writing. Equipped with a mind with great analytical capabilities.
šPart of fortune in the 7th house: These natives have the ability to relate to other people and attract supportive ties into their lives. They can be easily liked by others and form positive relationships in which people truly seek the happiness of the native and of course, with people who adore the native. Good luck to partnerships of all kinds, both business and relationship. They can be easily accepted by other people. People may describe them as rays of light, not necessarily out of positivity, but because they genuinely like the company of natives. Much success, fortune and satisfaction in their marriage, they will love the person they choose to marry. Ease of resolving conflicts, both your own and those of other people. They can attract reciprocity frequently. They will be successful in legal situations of all kinds. Victory over their adversaries. They attract generous people into their lives. Natural charm that helps them advance, progress or brings them opportunities. They may marry someone influential or at a good point in their life.
š²Part of fortune in Libra: They have a mix of charm and a sharp, analytical mind. People naturally feel drawn to their appearance and personality. They are very successful in social situations and enjoy great results working as a team. Graced with a seductive and attractive appearance. Ease of understanding people and what they go through. Success when forming relationships. They can attract people who help them progress, who genuinely love them, and who want to be there for the natives. Ease of connecting more easily with people and making them feel good in your presence. They have the ability to influence other people. Calm environments, with aesthetics that match that of the natives considerably increase your happiness and satisfaction. Success in jobs related to law, art or public relations.
š¤Libra degrees [07Ā°, 19Ā°]: Natural grace and ease of being well-liked by others. They easily attract people's interest. Great social skills that make them stand out. They are people who can be considered very attractive by people, both because of their features and the shape of their body. They can find themselves surrounded by people even without them looking for it.Ā
šPart of fortune in the 8th house: Wisdom and strength of spirit, these natives can be seen as immovable and powerful, people recognize their personal power making them easily earn respect. They emerge and overcome crises, becoming even wiser afterward. These people can easily attract the generosity of others, even being chosen to receive inheritances. They find satisfaction in getting to the bottom of things and knowing the truth. Success pursuing professions linked to analysis, research or the esoteric. Great understanding of the human psyche and behavior. Ability to read others and bare their souls. They attract opportunities when they delve into the unknown and explore aspects of life that are not visible to the naked eye. They have the ability to connect in a unique way with others, in a less superficial and more meaningful way. Ease to overcome fears and insecurities. Connections where they give themselves completely to each other provide them not only with emotional satisfaction, but also with opportunities for growth and success.
š²Part of fortune in Scorpio: These natives have the ability to make big changes from the circle to which they belong, to a larger scale such as at the level of society; They easily change people's mindsets and bring awareness. Your intuition is one of your greatest tools and by using and following it you can make decisions that lead you to success. They may experience positions of power more frequently. Throughout their lives, they attract changes that change the course of their lives for the better. They will successfully face any adversity and will be reborn stronger. They attract success when they channel their passion into meaningful projects. They attract respect and admiration from others easily, and they enjoy a powerful reputation. Ease healing yourself and supporting others to heal.
š¤Scorpio degrees [08Ā°, 20Ā°]: These natives have great magnetism and an enormous ability to influence the masses or people around them. Strong intuition, they always know what is happening around them and this information comes to them without looking for it. They overcome tense situations more easily. They provide strength to others when they go through tense situations.
šPart of fortune in the 9th house: Many opportunities to travel and you can have a lot of luck and satisfaction through it. Success in the major college you decide to enter and many opportunities to progress and improve your life can come during that period of your life. These natives may have very helpful, generous and caring mentors towards them who will contribute positively to their lives. They can make important and beneficial connections with people from abroad. Life will fill you with opportunities to enjoy and live life, giving you many experiences that fill you spiritually. This is a lucky placement that makes them look like they have a lucky charm. On many occasions, if things don't go their way, better things come for them. These natives can have a lot of luck and protection when venturing into new or unknown areas for them. They are people endowed with wisdom and can find satisfaction through their spirituality, being in touch with their higher self or acting based on their beliefs. They may have an easier time being in high vibration.
š²Part of fortune in Sagittarius: Life will provide you with opportunities to travel, expand your mind and live rewarding experiences that make your soul happy and satisfied. Success will come to them in fields such as education [from devoting yourself to it professionally, attending college or simply mastering the fields that you are most passionate about], when they travel, contact with other cultures, or when you start or begin in spirituality. They can be successful in forming long-term relationships with people who live far away or who are foreigners. They are likely to have many convenient and opportune circumstances throughout their lives.Ā The leaps of faith they take can make significant changes in their lives.
š¤Sagittarius degrees [09Ā°, 21Ā°]: They can easily connect with people very different from them. They mix well with both people their age and older people. Possibility of great experiences through travel. They may have greater opportunities for scholarships. Talent and ability for languages. Connecting with cultures other than their own gives them satisfaction.
šPart of fortune in the 10th house: These people can make better first impressions without needing to pretend. You have the ability to achieve success or have important achievements even from a young age. Influential and with the ability to relate to large amounts of people. Your work life will be full of success and you will feel truly satisfied with the path you decide to pursue. Many opportunities to grow professionally. You attract the admiration and respect of others without trying too hard. They tend to achieve their personal goals more easily. They can quickly gain recognition, popularity and fame, as well as earn the respect of more experienced or older people. They can reach high ranks more quickly than other people. Much success and luck in carrying out long-term plans, the results are more stable, long-lasting and match the ideas of the natives. Much success and luck in carrying out long-term plans, the results are more stable, long-lasting and match the ideas of the natives.
š²Part of fortune in Capricorn: Their hard work brings results more quickly, and the results may be more satisfactory than the native expected. You will be able to achieve everything you ever imagined you wanted to have. Ease of attracting stable things into their lives, from jobs, relationships to favorable streaks. These natives can achieve important things at a young age, which brings them recognition and can increase their personal satisfaction. Greater ease in overcoming obstacles of all kinds. They reach positions of authority and can lead the people in their charge to progress and improve. They will achieve recognition with respect to the fields in which they work or those in which they put a lot of effort and time.
š¤Capricorn degrees [10Ā°, 22Ā°]: Ease of professional advancement. They are seen as professionals and very capable from a young age and thanks to this they are given opportunities. Talent to lead, start businesses. They are capable of giving direction to any thing or project and bringing it to success. Their discipline and hard work are always appreciated and the source of his greatest successes.
šPart of fortune in the 11th house: Following the causes they consider important and fighting for what they believe is right can bring a lot of fortune and popularity. Ease of acquiring money through various sources, luck in personal business where they can be their own boss. Their friendships can bring them important opportunities, just as they can attract great friendships into their lives. Ease of growing on social media and inspiring the masses. Even without intending to, these natives can bring many positive things to the circles to which they belong, managing to contribute favorably to them. They will attract opportunities that will allow them to make their aspirations and goals a reality. These natives can be accepted more easily in groups, people tend to like them most of the time. They can attract people who, by supporting them, can greatly help the native in return. The older they feel, the more satisfied and content they may feel with their life.
š²Part of fortune in Aquarius: You have the ability to stand out from the crowd more easily. Following your own path or venturing into a path that no one in your family or close circle has taken can lead you to success. These people have a magnetism that makes people drawn to them, a unique charm coming from their enigmatic and nuanced personality. Your originality and creativity can bring you success, and you can be considered an ideas machine. These natives have the ability to bring people together and make them feel part of a group. You can achieve many things by working on your own and doing things your own way. They may have talents or skills for astrology, science, technology or simply innovate in the field of their interest.
š¤Aquarius degrees [11Ā°, 23Ā°]: A very strong, creative and inventive mind. Success in innovating in any field of interest. They may stand out for a hobby and be seen as very capable at them with people. They will easily stand out for their authenticity and originality. Lots of luck in projects with friends or that you do on the internet. They stand out easily with or without people around them.
šPart of fortune in the 12th house: These people have a lot of positive karma from other lives, so this placement is a natural indicator of luck. They will always emerge victorious no matter who their enemies are or who want their downfall. They feel and are divinely protected, in fact they can be more spiritual which helps them attract greater protection and opportunities. Greater potential to manifest, your inner dreams or desires can become a reality in no time. They may not be aware of their luck, but things at the end of the day are usually in their favor. They can experience many moments of being in the right place at the right time. These people may find satisfaction in spending time alone after a busy day, finding comfort and joy in it. They usually have a strong intuition and their hunches usually save them from going through tense and unnecessary situations. After helping people, they can attract favorable streaks of luck. Doing things for themselves and not sharing their plans can bring them better results and enjoy their achievements better.
š²Part of fortune in Pisces: These people can achieve success if they decide to work on something that fills their soul, that is, working on one of their passions. Success if you decide to pursue an artistic or esoteric branch, or if you venture into the path of helping other people. They may experience streaks of good fortune in unexpected or subtle ways, as well as help from those who least expect it or opportunities when they feel most hopeless. They can attract many opportunities or experiences that provide them with emotional well-being. They are endowed with enormous magnetism that not only makes them attract people's attention or affection, but also favorable situations. The more you delve into spirituality, the more opportunities and luck will knock on your door.
š¤Pisces degrees [12Ā°, 24Ā°]: Abilities to manifest everything they dream or write. Great sensitivity and ease of seeing through people's emotions. They can carry positive karma from other lives which helps them. They can find success in artistic fields, especially painting or music. Easy to charm people, because they are very magnetic.
š¤Part of Fortune in 00Ā°: These people naturally attract luck, regardless of the circumstances, life will give them the right people at the right time and take away those who do not contribute anything to them. They can find happiness and satisfaction more easily, especially by being clear about what they want and pursuing that path.Ā
š Aspects of the Part of Fortune with the planets š
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Sun: These people can naturally attract abundance and luck into their lives. Being themselves, that is, being authentic can open many doors to opportunities. Strong self-esteem and natural charisma that make them not only well-liked but respected. They may have this "lucky charm" quality being considered one by people around them. They tend to earn recognition, praise and compliments quite frequently. Success in fields that allow you to be in the spotlight.
ā¬Opposition or square with Sun: A path to self-acceptance and self-love is what will bring luck to the lives of these natives. It is necessary that they develop their own identity and learn to act based on what they believe and are. Developing an understanding of themselves and what they really want will align them with the path they desire and deserve.
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Moon: These people will be able to form a home in which they feel comfortable and happy. They can attract emotionally supportive bonds throughout their lives. They will attract many experiences and experiences that will give them satisfaction and emotional well-being. They may have great family relationships and form special bonds with women or attract women who support them greatly.Ā
ā¬Opposition or square with Moon: To achieve success and happiness, these natives must learn to be more in touch with their emotions, better understand their needs and be more sensitive to themselves. By better understanding your inner world, being more patient and balancing reason and mind can lead you to a path of fulfillment and contentment with your lives.
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Mercury: Quality of saying things at the right moment. Communication and intellect are sources of success. They solve problems easily and have ideas that can create opportunities for them. They are people who can stand out a lot thanks to their skills. Very capable students. Excellent writers and communicators. Success and satisfaction when expressing what they think.Ā
ā¬Opposition or square with Mercury: Creating a balance between planning and action will be essential for success. Working on your tendencies of self-doubt and overthinking will bring positive changes. It will be necessary for them to trust their abilities, create their own criteria and be cautious with whom they share their goals or aspirations.
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Venus: Artistic talents that can bring them success. They will attract relationships that will benefit them and bring happiness. Ease of attracting money. Life will flood you with pleasant experiences that will increase your happiness. These natives are endowed with attractiveness, charm and a lot of physical beauty. Their creativity flows with ease. Abundant love life or at least, a quite satisfactory one.
ā¬Opposition or square with Venus: Working on and getting rid of people-pleasing tendencies can help you live more fully and feel better. They may feel they have a tense love life, tension between loving someone and loving themselves. Developing healthy self-esteem and learning to value yourself and your efforts will bring more luck.
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Mars: Their initiative brings them success, they seem to act or decide to start things at the right time. They may attract male figures who are very supportive or who give them opportunities to grow and succeed. Success and luck quickly act in your favor. These people win competitions and usually enjoy many victories throughout their lives. Much success when undertaking or working independently, also as leaders.
ā¬Opposition or square with Mars: Learning to control impulses and work on ways to find motivation will bring greater satisfaction in the lives of natives. Being assertive, driven and patient can bring many benefits in the long term. Standing up for themselves without being hostile or too impulsive. Take things slowly and understand that things happen in their own time.
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Jupiter: These people take leaps of faith and often jump into opportunities that quickly grow. They attract very supportive connections and mentors into their lives. Blind luck. They improve and get successful quickly and are likely to achieve wealth and be presented with great opportunities.Ā Luck through travel and ease in attracting opportunities to learn new things that give you a lot of spiritual satisfaction.
ā¬Opposition or square with Jupiter: The key is to create a balance in which you donāt drown either negativity nor excessive positivity. When things don't go the way they want, they can quickly throw in the towel or become demotivated, without being aware that many times life does this to put a better option in their paths. It is necessary to learn to trust the universe or simply have faith when a situation is out of our control.
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Saturn: These natives can achieve long-term satisfaction and happiness. Opportunities to advance professionally and have many successes in the workplace and/or as they get older. They can attract relationships with older people that benefit them in the long term. Success when carrying out plans and materializing them. They will attract great supporters or mentors who will support them. Positive karma will return to you quickly and in greater abundance.
ā¬Opposition or square with Saturn: Hard work is the key to success. Your rewards will be given after waiting and a long wait that will be worth it. Patience, effort and a responsible mentality will be what will lead them to feel more satisfied with their lives. The blossoming of your hard work will take time but will bring you many benefits in the long run.
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Uranus: They can unexpectedly attract streaks of luck or great opportunities. Daring to make changes will give you satisfaction, growth and can open doors to success. They can attract helpful friendships. The internet can be a source of satisfaction, money and success. Your ideas, inventions, creativity and originality can be sources of fortune or triumph. Embracing your individuality will bring you happiness and opportunities to have everything you have wanted.
ā¬Opposition or square with Uranus: Daring to leave their comfort zone and learning to adapt to life's changes can bring the success and joy they so seek to the lives of natives. Being authentic and balancing their independence, that is, doing things on their own without hating to ask for support, will lead them to get what they want.
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Neptune: They attract many opportunities to develop their spirituality and grow a lot through them. Artistic and spiritual talents. Gifted with magnetism and strong intuition. Ability to manifest and make their dreams a reality. Easily attract the compassion of others. A lot of creativity and they can achieve fortune if they materialize those ideas. They can intuitively make decisions that lead them to success or do things that, even without intending to, that give them an enormous degree of happiness.
ā¬Opposition or square with Neptune: It is crucial that these natives develop a realistic mindset and have their feet on the ground to begin building their path to success. They need to learn to trust their intuition. Having a practical and realistic approach can bring greater opportunities to your lives.Ā
ā¬Conjunction, trine or sextile with Pluto: They can attract great transformative experiences that can change your life forever in a good way. They will naturally attract positions of power, whether at work or feelings of empowerment. Anyone who harms you will soon meet the same fate. They will be able to achieve large amounts and different forms of fortune. Ease to overcome any type of adversity and have the results turn out in your favor. Ease of seeing what goes unnoticed by others. Strong and accurate intuition. You can attract people with a lot of power and influence who can support you.
ā¬Opposition or square with Pluto: In order to find success and satisfaction, natives will have to learn to let go of everything that ties them to the past. Old frustrations that prevent them from trying again. The fear of failure can hold them back. They should be more open to change and not beat themselves down over past mistakes. Trust your power and embrace it.
I have had some very difficult days in terms of health, which led me to be in bed for several days. Now that I'm feeling better, I'd like to talk about something that some of you and other mutuals have been telling me, and that is that someone on tiktok (MJ_DrayyyAstrology) has been sharing my content, and not only mine but other creators', such as:
And not only that, but he has several posts (or rather screenshots) that talk about astrology and they don't give anyone credit.
To clarify something, I never gave my consent for any of my posts to be shared on other social media, much less on tiktok. This person at least says that the content they share is mine and "they give me credit." I have no way to contact this person since I don't use tiktok, but in case the person reads this, I would prefer if you didn't continue doing it. It's not something I like.
The moon acts as a guiding light within the night sky and humans have used it to orient themselves within time and space since the dawn of our existence. However, our connection to the moon goes beyond practicality. Looking up at the moon evokes a sense of comfort, and its beauty is inspirational. As much as our planet has changed, for better or for worse, the moon remains consistent with its cycles. This sense of stability offers us wisdom, and each period of the lunar cycle represents a different stage of growth.Ā
I was inspired to write this post after reading a fascinating article that is titled, āEffects of different phases of the lunar month on humans.ā The Author, Ujjwal Chakraborty, explored the ways in which the lunar cycle exerts influence upon human psychology and physiology. Chakraborty states, āThe altered autonomic neural activity and cardiovascular activity during different lunar phases is probably one of the fundamental causes of the changes of human physiology.ā(2014) The autonomic nervous system regulates heart rate, digestion, respiration, blood pressure, and sexual arousal. Any changes that occurs within the autonomic nervous system is going to affect human behavior. To see a spiritual phenomenon be explained through scientific research is incredibly thought provoking; this leads me to believe that the spiritual meanings attached to each lunar phase must hold a certain amount of truth to them. If anyone is interested, the article can be found here. Chakraborty has a few other articles dedicated to lunar research that are also quite compelling. If this information intrigues you, Iād recommend looking into āThe Transylvania Effect.āĀ Ā
I. Lunar Phase Personalities
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ā° New Moon - Individuals born under this phase tend to be psychic and are gifted in their ability to acknowledge the unseen. They represent new beginnings and trust their inner instincts. This can make them rather impulsive at times. New moon babies seek out adventure and are dedicated to the process of learning. They want to experience all that life has to offer them and are not afraid to dream big. This is the only phase of the moon that is absent of light, and because of this new moon babies naturally stand out from the rest. They also make for efficient leaders because their emotions and ego are in alignment. However, theyāre not the types to seek attention and would prefer to work behind the scenes. Their introverted qualities and reserved nature spark a lot of intrigue. People born under this phase can find potential within any endeavor and always have a fresh perspective to offer up. Learning how to embrace the unknown is a major life lesson for these types.Ā
ā° Waxing Crescent - These types can appear timid, but once you get to know them they are incredibly lively individuals who are full of curiosity. They prefer to stick to the things that they know and might struggle with accepting change. People born under a waxing crescent moon might get stuck within the past at times. Being courageous is something they struggle with. However, they still feel a desire to go out and explore, but they will approach these adventures with a practical mindset. Waxing crescent babies are attached to their comfort zone and are good at maintaining this even when chasing after new experiences. They are also good at finding the right people to associate with. Security is everything to these types, and they prefer to build deep relationships with people who will be in their life for a very long time. Iāve noticed that these individuals might feel more awkward than they come across. They are perfectionist and struggle with self criticism, they might get stuck within their own head during social exchanges.Ā
ā° First Quarter - There are not many individuals born under a first quarter moon, which makes these types out to be rather unique. These people are the āmain characters,ā and they know it. They are not afraid to take charge of their own lives and are highly ambitious. Individuals born under this phase are not dependent upon admiration or attention. The only person theyāre looking to impress is themselves. First quarter babies embrace challenges. The more challenges a situation throws at them, the more likely they are to succeed. The type of personĀ who never backs down, they love putting their skills and talents to the test. Someone looking for a solution is going to be drawn to an individual born under a first quarter moon. Their strong personalities invoke action within other people and they serve as a source of inspiration. These individuals become unstoppable once they develop patience and learn how to wait.Ā
ā° Waxing Gibbous - A sense of maturity is immediately evident within these individuals. They are natural caretakers and people often seek them out to be nurtured. Waxing gibbous babies have a calm presence that elicits a sense of peace within others. These types maneuver social situations with grace and making friends comes easy to them. They inspire other people to be better, and some might try to emulate them. Other people notice their potential and can see what theyāre capable of achieving, but individuals born under this phase struggle to see it within themselves. They might feel life they somehow always fall short or will tell themselves that they are not āenough.ā This is the opposite of how people are perceiving them. They must learn how to care for themselves in the same way they care for other people. Developing a deep sense of self love is vital for waxing gibbous babies.Ā
ā° Full Moon - Individuals born under this phase are filled to the brim with energy. They might come across as more aggressive than they intend to be. Learning how to gain control over their emotions is a major life lesson for these types. Full moon babies might feel as though they are being pulled in two opposite directions. Their ego and emotions are not in alignment, they feel stuck between passion and logic. Sometimes they will chase after their desires even if that's not what's actually best for them. They can see themselves going in many different directions and it can be hard for them to choose just one. This indecisive behavior frustrates other people, especially those who depend on them. These individuals will find more success once they develop a sense of consistency within their lives. Their sense of creativity is deserving of focus and should not be overlooked. As much as their spontaneous nature might frustrate people, they also bring with them a sense of excitement and this is greatly appreciated.Ā
ā° Waning Gibbous - People born under this phase are often sought after for their wisdom and ability to teach. These old souls are great at communicating their thoughts and learning comes easy to them. It is unlikely that they will have to be taught the same lesson twice, they are not the types to make the same mistakes over and over again. However, being judgmental of others may be a struggle. These individuals need to understand that not everyone is going to learn as quickly as they do. They might become frustrated watching their friends running into the same issues over and over again and will offer up unsolicited advice. It would be best to let people come to them, people will ask for help if they need it. These types tend to place themselves within positions of authority and might struggle with their listening skills. Theyāre often caught lecturing people when really they should be listening.Ā
ā° Third Quarter - These types are sentimental individuals who are capable of finding deep meaning within everyday life. They hold an appreciation for the little things and show gratitude for what they have. Third quarter babies become easily attached, it can be hard for them to move on from the past. They take things slowly and arenāt likely to be caught up within a rush. Their loyalty is often taken for granted, as well as their kindness. They are commonly found within their own little world. Nostalgia maintains a strong hold upon these types. However, this connection to the past can create unpleasantries within their present life. They may be quick to forgive, but that doesn't mean theyāre over it. Sometimes this can be unfair, third quarter babies need to learn how to let go of the past when it's for the best.Ā
ā° Waning Crescent - The ultimate day dreamers. Waning crescent babies have an extremely active imagination and are highly creative. They often have visions of what's to come and very little takes them by surprise. People are drawn to their deep insight and are attracted to their unconventional personalities. These types have a mystical presence, it seems as if they are from another world. Their opinions are uniquely theirs, which can sometimes lead to them being outcasted. However, they thrive when alone and oftentimes complete their best creative work during these moments. Throughout life, they remain true to themselves and are not afraid to embrace their eccentric qualities. They have lots of unconventional wisdom to offer. Many of these types are psychic and are in touch with the spiritual realm, but donāt quite realize this. Learning to embrace and trust their intuition is a big lesson for these types.Ā
II. Living in Alignment with the Lunar Cycle
ā° New Moon - Plant your seeds. This is a time to set new intentions and begin new projects. Take it easy by planning a relaxing night in so you can get in touch with yourself. Forget about the past so you can focus on what's best for the present moment. Journal about your hopes and dreams and think about the steps you can take within the next week to get closer to your desires. Burn a white candle, and incorporate the smell of tangerine, lemon, and jasmine into your routine.Ā
ā° Waxing Crescent Moon - This is the time to be productive. Make sure to partake in healthy habits, give yourself an extra hour of sleep by going to bed early. Continue to build upon the goals you set for yourself during the new moon. Practice meditation to remain focused within daily life. Eat a meal that would be beneficial for your health. Burn a green candle and incorporate the smell of bergamot, cedarwood, and ginger into your routine.Ā
ā° First Quarter Moon - Take time to focus on what's working for you and what isnāt. What tweeks need to be made within your daily routines and habits? Try to complete any tasks youāve been putting off under this lunar phase. Go for a walk and listen to music that energizes you. Burn a red candle and incorporate the smell of patchouli, lemon and ylang ylang into your routine.Ā
ā° Waxing Gibbous Moon - Practice patience and journal about the times in your life in which you persevered. Focus on the progress youāve made thus far and show gratitude for what you have. Try to complete whatever preparations are needed for the next few days so they will run more smoothly. Burn a yellow candle and incorporate the smell of rose or juniper into your routine.Ā
ā° Full Moon - Celebrate all the work youāve completed by doing activities that bring you happiness. Have a fun night out with friends, take yourself out to your favorite restaurant. This would be a good time to focus on socialization. Make an effort to show your friends and familyĀ some love. Burn a pink candle and incorporate the smell of sandalwood, cardamom and cinnamon into your routine.Ā
ā° Waning Gibbous Moon - Take time to reflect on the lessons youāve learned within the past couple weeks. This would be a great time to declutter your space. Make an effort to let go of any disappointment or minor inconveniences that have been bothering you. Be kind to yourself and journal about the opportunities certain failures have brought you. Burn a light blue candle and incorporate the smell of lavender and tea tree into your routine.Ā
ā° Last Quarter Moon - Remove yourself from your burdens by engaging your mind with relaxing activities. This would be a good time to sit within nature. Read a book, watch one of your favorite tv shows or movies. Journal about recent frustrations so you can get them off your chest. Practice forgiveness for yourself and for others. Burn an indigo candle and incorporate the smell of peppermint and eucalyptus into your routine.Ā
ā° Waning Crescent Moon - Prepare yourself a comfort meal and draw a hot bath. Stretch your body and practice breathing exercises. Give yourself a massage or ask someone else to give you one. Focus on what you are drawn to as well as the desires that are developed while in a state of relaxation, try to write them down. Burn a purple candle and incorporate the smell of frankincense, sage, and lavender.Ā
Some personal experiences I have with certain synastry aspects/overlays
inspired by @elysiansparadise if it's not obvious enough.
š”Her Saturn in my 4H: This may sound weird but she feels like home to me. She brings a comfort that's... I don't know how to explain in words, but there's just a sense of groundedness to me. Sheās the anchor that can put me at ease when I am overwhelmed with family matters. I do know some things that I do will not be acceptable to some, and Iām not sure if she completely agrees with me, but Iām very sure that she puts my feelings first and focuses on validating me. The acknowledgement is there and it's always safe to find solace in her. When Iām in pain and I need help, itās her I turn to.
š”Her Saturn conjuncts my Moon: She makes me feel comfortable, she grounds me. It's like... I'm the balloon and she's the string tying me to a place that's safe. I wouldn't say she stops me from flying, but she helps me to keep me in check. Her words are... Gentle. They're not gentle in a watery way, but they're gentle in a way that doesn't stop the creativity and freedom in me.
š”Her stellium (Venus, Mercury & Saturn) in my 1H: I feel that this stellium of hers plays a role in how I see and build myself. Her mannerism affects how I build my personality somehow, and I tend to adopt traits of her into me. Not to mention that we actually do have a similar thought process and the conversation can just go in a weird way yet Iāll be able to get what she means. Itās a fun placement, imo, despite the energy of Saturn can be heavy at times as it just makes me wanna run away lol.
š”His Jupiter in my 1H: He is like a father figure to me, and with this aspect, I feel that he cares about how I live and how Iām doing, showing support (both morally, financially, and food-ly). Itās just a warm connection and I enjoy it a lot, and according to him, he finds my presence fun (my Moon is in his 5H).
š”Her Moon conjuncts my Saturn: She provides a lot of comfort, helps me understand why the subconsciously affixed rules in my life exist, where I feel validated and assured. I am being heard and understood, which is something I don't really experience growing up. This aspect makes me feel safe by just sitting together and being quiet.Ā
š”Her Saturn in my 12H: She is into spirituality, and her views of it tends to be... Her rules (in my opinion, from my observation). I'm not sure how open she can be with it (open in terms of looking and understanding other types of views and opinions) but it definitely won't be with me. It's as though she sees me as a newbie in spirituality and sets the bar, in which I feel rigid and have a sense of defiance (but also I don't agree with some of her views so... yeah...)
š”His Moon in my 11H: We have a pretty comfortable and amicable relationship, and it is pretty chill. How he voices his thoughts and emotions are very clear, thereās no misleading action or words. Not to mention his Moon sign is the same as my Sun sign, which probably makes the entire exchange much easier (his Moon trines my Moon too).
š”Her stellium (Sun, Venus, Mercury) in my 6H: I don't know how to put it in words but the best way to explain it would be... Stability. She is able to see things from a practical view, and this earthy trait comforts me better than anything else. Not to mention that those placements of hers trines mine (same element), where we have a similar mindset, making communication and friendship between us easier.
š”Her Pluto conjuncts my Pluto: Even though our Plutos are in the same sign, the energy we bring to the table can be completely different. It feels like our values (specifically on the generational views and psychological depths, where I see things as science and she sees it as spirituality) clash and I feel that her Pluto wants me to see things her way, while my Pluto wants to defy it.
š”His Mercury in my 12H: I find it kinda funny with this, where we spent quite some time trying to find a way to effectively communicate with each other. He tends to shy away from conflict and will prefer to communicate via texts, while I prefer a direct conversation. After figuring out his comfort zone, our conversations generally became forms of stickers (LINE stamps) and facial expressions. However, for things that are more serious, we can sit together and have lengthy conversations to make sure that we are on the same page and can get things done properly. It feels likeā¦ The Mercurial energy will only surface when itās necessary. Itās weird but kinda fun.
š”My Pluto in her 1H: She has mentioned before that she felt intimidated and/or threatened by me in the sense where I kept challenging her and her views. We have very different upbringings and values; something normal to her is uncomfortable to me, and it has resulted in arguments and disagreements in the past.
š”Her stellium (Venus, Jupiter & Moon) in my 12H: I have had moments where I donāt feel comfortable with how she acts and after quite some time (years) of figuring it out, I realized itās the difference in privileges. She did not have much financial responsibility on her and was open to freely act on what she feels, which was pretty much the opposite of me. I guess I felt threatened back then, but we did talk about it (though weāre no longer friends now).
š”His Moon conjuncts my Pluto: This is a friend of more than a decade and heās just comfortable to be with. I donāt quite know what to explain other than we understand pain and childhood trauma at a similar level. We have both gone through different things growing up, and things can be made more difficult being in an Asian household, where mental and emotional health were not given much thought or consideration. Yet, we justā¦ Understand and get each other during our trauma dumping session, validating each otherās pain. His Pluto conjuncts my Pluto as well, but it may be due to his Moon-Pluto conjunction, that his sensitivity and understanding is heightened compared to others.
š”Her Mercury trines my Moon: She is able to understand my emotions in a logical sense. Sometimes, my emotions can be a mess, a pile of unknown feelings, and sheās the one who helps me brush through the yarns, categorizing them and helping me understand what those are, and why Iām feeling them. She just has the right words when Iām down, and sheās there to help me like a lifeline. I call her when Iām weary and in tears, and sheāll justā¦ Be present.
š”His Jupiter trines my 10H stellium: I do feel that he provides knowledge and expands my views on a particular culture. Whatever Iāve learnt from him has helped me in work related fields, may it be knowledge, understanding my potentials and how I can work with it, as well as building work related connections. Part of me does feel like Iām helping him with these (his Jupiter is in rx), but Iām also learning from them.
š”Her stellium (Uranus, Saturn, Neptune, Moon & Sun) in my 10H: Generally speaking, Iām naturally comfortable with earth dominant people (especially Capricorns). I met her through work and weāre hitting our 10 year friendship next year. She has helped me through work related themes and also house related things. I have a 10H stellium and I dare say that my work/career builds me up to who I am, that I build my identity on my career achievements. She has helped me through it and guided me through the crisis. I consult her on almost every aspect of my life lol. And Iām very, very grateful to have her in my life.
š”Her stellium (Neptune, Sun & Uranus) in my 11H: Sheās a friend Iāve made through the internet, and Iād say this friendship is something refreshing. The entire thing started as an accident, a glitch on the system, but became something rather beautiful itself. The topics we talked about are pretty random, where it started from topics of interest to personal life. Itās a fun ride but we are there to support each other.
š”Her stellium (Uranus, Venus & Sun) in my 12H: Her love for me is soft, making me feel treasured and secured. She brought changes into my life in terms of spirituality and the unknown, but they do not overwhelm me. With the Sun there, itās like the early morning sun, where itās not overbearing but gentle. Thereās some form of healing energy here as well, like a gentle breeze tending to my wounds. Her very being is a blessing.
š”His Sun and Mercury in my 5H: For context, this is my boss. I feel easy and open to talk to him about random things and itās rather fun? It makes the relationship not strictly about work and for work, but to look at the brighter and fun side of the dull routine. Probably one of the reasons that I donāt feel stressed when I have work related discussions with him.
š”Her Mars in my 8H: I feel that thereās a drive and passion in her that makes me more aware about myself. She feels like someone who enjoys life, and will make sure that things will work well. 8H can mean insecurities, but instead of making me fear, it feels like her Mars pushes me to move forward more, to understand my insecurities and work on it.
When weāre in a romantic relationship, we sometimes wonder how weāre so affected by our partners, and of course, we wonder if we are also capable of pulling the strings in their hearts, wondering if they are comfortable and trust us enough to let us be the maestro of their hearts.
Close your eyes and meditate on this topic. Then, open your eyes to see which pile talks to you the most/draws you in the most. Once youāve found your pile, scroll down to the respective parts to see what are the messages for you.
Pile 1 - Pile 2
Pile 3 - PileĀ 4
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Youāre currently going through something, and this message is loud and clear. However, Iām not seeing much worries? The waves are huge but youāre taking the chance and surfing on it instead of swimming your way to land. Iād say that itās because of a certain confidence thatās in you, where youāre secured enough that the storm will die and youāll still be safe no matter what happens. You have heard, seen or any other forms of receiving messages from your guides and the Universe, that things will pass and youāll still be safe. You have that faith, and you let that voice guide you through the chaos and broken promises that are happening around you.
For some, you may not be the one falling from The Tower, but are the spectators as youāve heard of the warning messages and heeded them, leaving the danger zone soonest. You may be looking at the others who are struggling right now and wonder how to help them, if you should be helping them. There can be quite a few different situations and circumstances, but either way, I do not feel much chaos or pain from this card. This card is more of a statement than a description.
One card to symbolise your person: The Hanged Man
Your person reminds me of a cat, inquisitive and curious. They wonāt swat every single thing on the counter down, but will take it up, observe closely, and may accidentally break it. They may have a tendency to get into certain unexpected situations, but they are very well capable of getting themselves out of them too. Theyāre capable of looking at situations from various angles, but they just have a habit of accidentally saying something that sides with one of the conflicted parties. It just extends further and he just gets his hair tangled on all sides to make sure that things are āfairā (same amount of pros and cons for both sides).Ā
Yet, pairing the energy of Venus and Neptune, your person feels veryā¦ Aesthetically dreamy. No, not in physical appearance, but the general vibe of them. Thereās a soft charismatic energy that they have, which makes you feel like you want to nurture them. They donāt quite need it tho, despite how they look. Theyāre capable of masking themselves softer than they are so that the people around them will lower their guards down easier.
1. What power do you have over your person? - Six of Swords
You do not put yourself into situations. You weigh, judge, contemplate the various issues thatās going on around you, and youāre capable of detaching yourself from things that can put you at a disadvantage. For example, you know that your neighbour needs help. You donāt mind helping it once or twice, but you also know that your neighbour will be leaving the house often and will continue to ask for your assistance constantly (based on past observations). With that in mind, you chose to not offer to help them out. You would think youāre just making a rational decision by weighing the pros and cons, but not your person. Your person would think that itās natural to help those that are in need, and they can be upset over it.Ā
The main theme would be detachment and isolation, where you have the ability to just avoid the murky waters, or not step into the waters at all. You may also be able to get over certain emotional related issues quicker than your person. This will make your person feel bad that theyāre still ātrapped in the past painā while youāve already āmoved onā. I put them in quotation marks cuz this would be their thoughts, but not what actually is.
2. What power does your person have over you? - Four of Pentacles
My first thought from seeing it is that your person may be frugal, financially or skill wise. Letās say that you want to get a technician to fix something, theyāll be like āI know how to fix itā or āI know someone, lemme get them, they owe me one anywaysā, and thereās a 50-50 chance where theyāll mess it up or not get the problem fixed on time. Your motto would be if money gets the thing done, youāll spend the money. But not them. Theyāll be fixing things, preparing home cooked food when you mentioned youāre in the mood for a buffet. You know that itās not something to be blamed, that being frugal is helpful in the long run where you guys can save up more. However, there are just times where you want to splurge on yourself, where you want to see physical and material gifts. To you, itās something that you can see and feel, itās something of monetary value. There will be frustration here from time to time, and youāll need to work on balancing emotionally and getting your point across.Ā
3. What can be possibly toxic or problematic between you two? - Five of Wands
I would say that conflicts and/or arguments can be pretty frequent in your relationship. You guys are used to your own set of values and rules, finding the other personās set of values questionable and not aligning with yours. This is definitely due to the different upbringings you both have (family and society play a role here, yes). Every disagreement can spark fights, but some can be debates. Fights happen because of anger and how much you want to be heard; while debates happen because you want to persuade the other person to see things from your point of view. No matter the reason, you need to understand that the main outcome from this is to arrive at a common ground, to understand what are the things or issues you two need to compromise and get used to.
4. How can you two transform/evolve together? - Page of Wands rx
You two need toā¦ Grow up. You both will face failures, may it be with your personal projects, career, or even conflicts or feelings of dejection throughout the relationship. There will be moments where you both may feel that the relationship isnāt worth the struggle and anger. However, as you explore and dive into introspection, you will realise that both of you will continue to have issues with other partners as the root cause (family or childhood trauma) have not been resolved, allowing past patterns to repeat themselves. This would definitely be unpleasant news, but itās not too scary where youād pick flight over fight. By being more focused and decisive, as well as understanding your loving habits and expectations in a romantic relationship, you two will be able to grow stronger together. There are themes of renewal and loyalty here, where you two will learn to trust the right people, be loyal to the right people.
5. What can you two achieve together? - The Hermit
The Hermit is one of my favourite cards in this deck, where beautiful flowers grow and bloom from the wounds. It signifies that you two are still able to create new love, new beginnings, new passion from the wounds of your battles. Those battles, may they be with your family; with your past; with your loved ones, have transformed you into a better person, into a stronger person. You two have learnt to not leave the other person, to not let them feel even a speck of loneliness, as you have gone through that personal hell yourself. You two have gotten wiser, kinder, and more patient towards each other and towards yourself. It has been a long journey, but you will notice that the load gets lighter with every step taken as you cleanse yourself throughout the way.
6. The core values in this relationship: Justice rx, The Moon
Fairness is one of the main themes that you both will need to learn and implement in your daily lives. There is a tendency for you two to be biased towards each other, allowing them to overstep your boundaries. You may think that ātheyāre the love of my life, they can do whatever they wantā, but it doesnāt work that way. Sometimes, your person will do something that reminds you of a past trauma. If you do not say or do something about it, your person may continue doing it in the future, and it would not be helpful for you as you slowly associate your person doing something new as hurting you. Setting healthy boundaries as you explore the options will help the relationship flourish.
For some reason, Iām feeling that you two can be overwhelmed by the other person easily. The balance of emotion and solitude will be something practiced within the relationship as well. Itās not that you donāt trust them or you feel uncomfortable with them, but more of retreating into your bed and doing your favourite pastime activities to wound yourself down from the excitement of the date. You both know intuitively when itās time for you to go back into your shell as you recharge and let yourself be prepared for better things to come tomorrow. (Most of you may be introverts, which is why solitude and alone-time is required.)
Overall energy: The Devil, Eight of Wands, Strength
Thereās a daredevil vibe here, where you or your person are interested in trying a bunch of new things in life, thinking it would be a waste if you do not enjoy life. You guys may be travelling or are in travel, as there are energies of constant movement here. You do not worry about whatās going on, what will happen in the future, as you know that the Universe plans well for you, that everything happens according to the right timing. From what Iāve gotten in this reading, your main challenge will arrive when you meet your person, as you push each other to be better. All the best during then.
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One card to symbolise you: The World rx
The first thing Iām picking up here is that you have an impatient energy within you where you like starting projects even though your body is tired or you have unfinished projects currently. The cards were impatient and quite a few flew out, which I believe talks about the impulsivity and slightly annoyed energy you have towards yourself and everything around you. Thereās a need for you to be able to control a certain aspect of your life, and youāre justā¦ Unable to hold it firm in your hand. Change is often present, and itās either things are changing around you or youāve decided to be the catalyst of change. However, that change is external, as youāre still quite in your comfort zone where you are unwilling to move out. You can change people and/or some things, but those donāt apply to you. Some of you may have Earth placements or Saturn as one of your dominant planets.
One card to symbolise your person: The Empress rx Ā
For some reason, I see this asā¦ Your personās someone whoās not very in tune with their emotional side. I need to emphasise that the word Iām using here is āin tuneā. Theyāre someone who knows about their emotions and feelings towards things, issues and people. But, theyāre unable to understand and work together with those emotions to reach an answer or a conclusion to reach an action goal. MBTI wise, itās giving me the vibe of an inferior Fi function, where theyāre unable (or to a certain extent, unwilling) to explore and express their emotions.
Thereās a lack of softness and gentleness they have towards themselves, but theyāll do their best to provide for you. Iām seeing some patterns of anxious attachment style, where they would want to do whatās good for you but are afraid that theyāll disappoint you, causing you discomfort as theyāve been debilitated in the past. With the gentle energy of the Empress, theyāre working on it bit by bit.
1. What power do you have over your person? - Five of Wands rx
For some reason, Iād say that you have a certain stronghold over your words and actions that can affect your person. The first thought I had when I saw this card was ācold warā, where you two donāt speak to each other, or you just choose to shut down and not communicate your thoughts to your person. Iām not saying that you will do this, but if you ever subconsciously do this (shutting down, unwilling to communicate), the damage youāll be delivering is going to be much stronger than you or your person expected. They may experience similar issues in the past and have handled it appropriately, but if itās you, youāre able to mess it up real bad.
However, if you use that energy and engage in active conflict and resolve them, youāll be able to benefit the relationship as you understand each other better through conflict, removing the tension as you two work things out together. You need to know how impactful you are towards your person, and to not use it to hurt them. You can build them, and you can break them, and please, for the love of God, DO NOT be proud of it. Be cautious, be loving, be patient, and be gentle.
2. What power does your person have over you? - Eight of Wands
Weirdly, the first thing Iām feeling is thatā¦ Your person can be more comfortable on the financial side as they may be the main person who provides travel related assistance. They may work in fields that require them to travel a lot and hence, able to bring you along on their trips. Or with how frequent theyāve travelled, they have saved up a bunch of mileage points and can use them to bring you around. So letās say, you guys got into an argument, they can very much easily cancel whatever trip theyāve been planning to bring you with. That kind of power. In which, it will also affect your mood and emotions, especially if youāve made a bunch of plans and suddenly theyāre all gone. However, Iām seeing that theyāre a gentle person, so I donāt think theyāll be doing something like that. Still, thatās what theyāre capable of providing, thatās their power over you.
3. What can be possibly toxic or problematic between you two? - Five of Pentacles rx
Financial views is something Iām picking up immediately. You two are probably prone to being career driven, which allows you two to be able to earn and contribute financially. However, how you two view money and use them can be different. For example, one of you would use it for trips (huge spending at once) and the other would use it for everyday life (fine dining once a week, or gatherings with friends often). This will bring upon disagreements and sometimes, even arguments, as you two have not properly talked things out and arrived at a middle point, where both sides compromise equally.
There may also be a chance where one person earns more than the other, and the one with a lower income may feel imbalance and not know how to stand on equal grounds with the one who provides more, creating internal conflict and not resolving it. They may also end up more dependent and the codependency may worsen with time. It is very important for both sides to recognise this and to work together to resolve this crisis.
4. How can you two transform/evolve together? - Judgement rx
Iām seeing healing and growing, and then transforming bit by bit throughout the journey together. Itās a process that will take a long time, but you two are patient in it because you two know that results are guaranteed and it would be worth it. You two are very goal driven (or at least, one of you are, and the other is willing to go along with it). Instead of working on something that may or may not work, you two are more prone towards doing things that have a secured outcome, taking calculated risks. Thereās quite some brain energy going on here, making me wonder if you guys are more earth or air dominant.
With that in mind, you two decided that this relationship is worth investing, and hence, work towards it. You two are willing to work through them, opening up yourselves to inspiration, allowing inputs from others and growing together. This pile gives me the feeling that you guys will go for courses together and work through the hurt and pain. Something like couple counseling? Or going through some seminars to understand each other better. You guys are willing to put in the effort as you recognise the importance of communication (through the hard way, probably from your family).
5. What can you two achieve together? - Two of Wands
You two can go far, not just achievement, but also building your life far from your trauma, building something new together. You guys build something totally new, and may constantly come up with something new to keep the relationship fresh. This card gives me the feeling that you are looking at the future together as you have the (your)Ā world in your hands. Whatever difficulties youāve gone through in the past made you stand up, and this time, youāre not standing up alone. Your person will be there to pull you up, and youāll be there to pull them up too.Ā
You guys donāt necessarily throw yourselves into challenges as they present themselves to you guys through shared decisions made. You guys also learn to accept the various downs that have resulted from the shared decisions, and learn to live with them by looking at them in a positive light. Something like learning from mistakes and knowing whatās not good for both of you. For example, you guys went for a buffet for a date night and realised that one has an allergy towards one particular food. Going for the buffet is a shared decision, the challenge faced would be going to the hospital due to an allergic reaction, looking at it differently would be you guys now know what should not be added onto the list of food. Instead of going āIām sorry that this date ended up bad because of my allergyā, it would be āhey at least we know that we should not have this for our next dateā.
6. The core values in this relationship: The Sun, The Magician rx
Thereās a bright surge of energy here, where you two will feel childlike wonders and enthusiasm, learning more about them and yourself. Itās likeā¦ Thereās a feeling of victory here, where you grow from your pain and reach the throne youāve always aimed for. You guys focus on keeping the relationship young, if that makes sense. Instead of letting that romantic love turn into family love along time, you both make an effort in doing romantic gestures and continue to be in that zone of falling in love over and over again. You guys will be creative too, as you come up with new ideas of constantly learning about each other, from each other. Iām also seeing that your preference for certain things may change throughout the relationship. For example, you used to not like strawberry, but your person likes it, and you slowly learnt to enjoy it too.
Andā¦ Hmmmā¦ For some reason, you two may be a little too smart. I feel that you two may be Mercury dominant, or have Aquarius, Gemini or Virgo placements. Thereās a lot of words and thoughts, instead of feelings and tears. You guys can be a little rigid at times, and Iād say, one of your main themes in this relationship is to learn how to work together to create something together (working for it or manifesting it with actual effort). Thereās a lot that you need to work on, yourself especially, where you work with your dreams and your spiritās energy to reach your highest good. You both will need to open yourselves to new possibilities and welcome new beginnings into your lives.Ā
Overall energy: The Moon rx, Five of Cups rx, The Chariot rx
Some of you may be going through some difficulties at the moment, especially in terms of emotion regulation. You may be experiencing pain, or despair that cannot be immediately resolved. You may also be experiencing fears, especially fears of failure (failing your expectations towards yourself, returning into a state you thought youāve finally grown out from, etc). Allow yourself to slow down as you tread on this path. Remember, every step you take is on a new path, no matter how familiar it looks. Allow yourself to fall, allow yourself to take some rest before you run again. Be kind to yourself, and youāll be able to move from the old to the new easier. Help will come to you, be patient and accept it with an open heart.
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One card to symbolise you: The Hierophant
My first thought from seeing this card is that youāreā¦ More inclined to the traditional values of how you were brought up with. It may not be your familyās traditional values, or the societyās traditional values. Itās more ofā¦ A certain concept, Iād say. For example, marriage is supposed to be between two people (monogamous), and you may have difficulties in understanding and/or accepting the concept of polyamorous relationships. Another example could probably be youāre a huge advocate of home cooked food as outside food is all MSG and unhealthy, which is a value thatās pretty much found in Asian families (āWe Have Food At Homeā by Mom). These are just examples, but if you ask yourself deep, you do know that itās talking about you, and you donāt really listen to other people who say otherwise.
One card to symbolise your person: Temperance
If anything, Iād say that your person is someone whoās very in tune with themselves. I would also say that theyāre a person who constantly renews themselves and to make sure that their information is not outdated. Theyāre very welcoming to new details, but they also are rather selective, which is a plus point for anyone who sees things from a lot of aspects, making them a rather balanced and critical person. If it took you long for you to meet your person, itās because theyāve been working on themselves to be at the right place to meet you. For some of you, your person may be your soulmate, where youāre comfortable enough to confide in them on various things.
1. What power do you have over your person? - The Tower rx
Iād say that youāve gone through quite a lot of significant changes in your life, where you grow from your pain and challenges in life. But also, this can appear threatening to your person as youāre used to chaos in your life, and your person may not be so. Something that appears dangerous to them may be nothing to you, and how you react to it will make them feel belittled, as though youāre not from the same world. I would say that this also stems from the various family values you two have gotten and grew up with.Ā
Thereās also themes of imprisonment, where your person may be used to keeping themselves in check so as to not create discord or discomfort, but you are moreā¦ āI couldnāt give a damnā kinda attitude, which may make them feel lesser than you. To them, their way of expressing affection is by sacrificing themself for your comfort. Letās say, theyāre more interested in watching movie A, but you prefer to watch movie B. Theyāll watch the movie you want with you without you knowing their preference. However, you may be more towards the type of āYou shouldāve spoken up! Why not, you watch movie A, while I watch movie B by myself or with a friendā. To you, you think youāre resolving the conflict by āWatching what we both wantedā, but to them, they may see it as āyouāre not willing to spend time with meā kinda thing, and they may feel that theyāre unable to catch up with you in terms of the values in the relationship.Ā
2. What power does your person have over you? - Page of Pentacles rx
Weirdly, Iām seeing this as your person may be younger than you, or may be less experienced than you in terms of career and finances (they may have gotten into their desired field of work later in their life). With this, it creates a disparity or conflict where youāll need to compromise with them more. To you, you may feel that theyāre more of a responsibility than of a lover. Itās likeā¦ You love them, thatās why you feel the need to compromise certain dreams of yours. For example, youāre aiming to go for an overseas trip together in June. However, they have a training session that they need to attend, and you chose to cancel the trip instead of going alone cuz āit feels offā. Itās not like theyāre doing this on purpose, but sometimes, their presence may make you wonder if youāre doing enough for them or not. You may also feel a lack of worth when you stand by their side, as you notice their potential to flourish into a King/Queen, and youāre not sure if youāll be equals during then.
3. What can be possibly toxic or problematic between you two? - Seven of Cups
The first thing Iām picking up here is that thereās a lot of daydreaming here. A lot of āwhat ifās and a lot of fantasy painting. Itās likeā¦ Thereās an expectation of plans to fail and you guys can go āa lil bit of daydreaming isnāt badā. The image I have in my head has two people sitting together on a bean bag (young energy), leaning into each other and discussing plans of wedding and fun activities to do, and then leaving that as plans and not doing anything about it. There may be a hint of leaving future things for a future you to handle kinda energy.
Alternatively, the daydreaming may shadow faults and shortcomings. Thereās a tendency to paint everything pink or look through them through rose tinted glasses. There are a lot of hints and issues there, but you tend to focus on the prettier items and ignore the more serious questions. It will take quite a lot of time and problems to happen for you to break the bubble and to recognise the issues at hand. The lack of action is highlighted here, as well as impulsivity of choosing flight over fight. This may also be due to the power or financial imbalance existing in the relationship.
4. How can you two transform/evolve together? - Nine of Pentacles
Surprisingly, Iām seeing you two grow individually. Like, you guys go through the life lessons together, but instead of growing together as a couple, you two grow individually, as your own person, and couple together. The best example I can think of is where oneās an accountant and the otherās a painter, where your knowledge is different, but you guys improve in whatever youāre doing and still enjoy cooking together. You guys work and support each other throughout the journey, helping the other person to invest and grow into the best version of yourself.Ā
You guys also learn to communicate more to assure the other person that theyāre not being left behind, that all the effort right now is worth it in the future. There are a lot of future related themes in this card, may it be building the future together, having a common goal for the future together, or building a new self together. Individuality is very important for you guys, and Iām seeing less of a compromise for each other. For you guys, itās 1(you) + 1(them) = 1(you) + 1(them) + 1(a future built together). Hopefully this makes sense.
5. What can you two achieve together? - Four of Wands
Iām seeing here that your life together will be very pleasant. You guys are capable of building a home together once youāve gone through the challenges, learning more about the buttons of each other and knowing which to push at the right time. Honestly speaking, thereās less of a ātrial and errorā kinda vibe in this relationship, but more of āoiling the cogsā here. This card is giving me harmony and happiness, as well as a beginning together, may it be engagement, marriage, or partnership. Thereās also some form of balance and groundedness here, so if you or your person was flighty or emotional, you will be more toned down and will be able to look at the earthly sense too.
6. The core values in this relationship: The Hanged Man rx, Wheel of Fortune rx
Iām hearing stubbornness here for the both of you. You two are used to your own ways, your own values as you two grew up together, which definitely lead to you two growing individually. You both have experienced stagnation and detachment in the relationship, and effort has been made for you two to evolve and find a comfortable point for each other. Thereās a lot of things to evaluate and work together. Assessing the situation, understanding the phase of the relationship where youāre at would be beneficial.Ā
A lot of accepting is needed as you two understand that certain things cannot be compromised, where you two decide to do them differently. For example, oneās a vegetarian and one requires meat protein, and so, you guys choose to not settle for each other's diet by preparing different sets of cutleries and cooking utensils. Different fridges may be prepared too, but if it works, it works. You guys learn to challenge each otherās comfort zones as well as your own, oil the cogs as you find something that works for you both. The lessons are slowly learnt, and once youāve gone through them, your relationship will prosper.
Overall energy: The Empress rx, Death rx, The Chariot rx
Thereās a lack of gentleness going on. For some reason, it can be finance or love related, such as lack of self-love, worrying about financial issues, etc. Basically, anything thatās Venusian themed. Thereās a period of change, a period of transition that youāre going through right now, and Iām seeing that you may be lost, not knowing which step to take. Do not push or rush yourself through things right now, as Destiny is realigning itself for you at the moment. Have faith that youāre the co-creator of your life and destiny, and that you will still be able to write your story however you want it. This may be a challenging period in your life, but things will work out as you pick yourself up, nourish yourself and prepare for the upcoming battles. This will be a solo battle, so make sure youāre kind to yourself, make yourself a warm meal (or warm meals) as you move yourself back into action.
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One card to symbolise you: The High Priestess rx
Iād say that youāre someone whoās losing touch of your spiritual side. Not to put it in a bad way. Itās just a reminder that you should tune into spirituality from time to time. A bunch of things have been happening to you and around you, where itās completely natural and equally important for you to focus on whatever thatās going on externally. However, take some time to perhaps pull a card or two if you do tarot, or meditate and listen to your higher self. Make spirituality a part of your daily life, let your hands feel the running water as you feel it taking away your tiredness and emotional impurities. Find the discomfort, acknowledge it, and let it be cleared out from your system.
One card to symbolise your person: Temperance
My first thought when I see this card is that your person has a balanced air and earth and water energy here. Itās an energy that Iām very comfortable with, where theyāre grounded and yet able to resonate with you in terms of emotions, and theyāre smart and comfortable with who they are. This is a very assured person, knowing what they want and how to achieve it. For some reason, it feels like they enjoy cooking or making comfort food for the people they care for. Your person may also be your soulmate, and theyāre pretty much educated with a lot of things, or theyāve been involved in various projects and activities and hence gaining the knowledge and experience of life. They may have a mysterious side to them as well š
1. What power do you have over your person? - Five of Wands
Similar to Pile 2, you have this card here to signify the power you have over your person. However, Pile 2 is more passive aggressive while yours is moreā¦ Actively aggressive. You do not think twice about your words and can be rather blunt with how you express yourself. For some reason, Iām seeing that it may be due to you having some sort of insecurity over yourself and the relationship, or you may have some inferiority complex where you do not see yourself worthy of this relationship.Ā
I need to emphasise a little that itās not your words thatās the power you have over your person, but the mentality of you not thinking yourself highly (or as high as they see you) that can drive your person up the wall. Itās the chain reaction that will make your person feel powerless, not knowing how to help you and to show the world to you, that there are better things in life and that youāre worth so much in their hearts.
2. What power does your person have over you? - Page of Wands rx
Your person is very adamant in communication, if that makes sense. They are vocal and more structured in their speech, and will not stop the conversation there until you fully understand what they mean. This card feelsā¦ Not young. Your person has been through quite a number of things in their life and have learnt to communicate effectively, making sure that their needs are heard, and knowing what they need to do. For some reason, Iām also seeing charms? They may be quite charming, good with their words, fulfills the typical definition of success, and people may be drawn to them. That may also be the reason why youāre insecure, since theyāre pretty charismatic themselves.Ā
3. What can be possibly toxic or problematic between you two? - Page of Cups
For some reason, Iād say that you two can be fairly new or fresh in relationships, not having dated much before, or this can be your proper first love. Thereās a tinge of inexperience here, something like a young love, where you two tend to experiment much on the various aspects of a romantic relationship. You two may be prone to doing fun activities a lot, hence, ending up not talking much about the practical aspects of a relationship, for example, marriage and responsibilities.
This card talks about heightened intuition as well, where one or both of you may be relying only on intuition or gut feeling, and not communicate with each other more. Likeā¦ You should be discussing with your person when youāre making plans. Yet, you just decided to go with Plan C because your gut feeling tells you so. Even though they may be free during then, communication and discussion is still important so that they are heard.Ā
4. How can you two transform/evolve together? - Four of Swords rx, The Hanged Man rx
Iām seeing that you two will be resting together first. You two have been fighting different personal battles, and when youāre done, you guys will be resting together as you recuperate. This pile kinda gives me the feeling of bonding through trauma. Itās through the pain and exhaustion that you learn better about yourself and your person, where you guys learn the importance of the balance of body, mind and soul. You both learn to let go of things that are not within your control, let go of things that are pulling you down. There are themes of releasing pain here, and also releasing guilt. Like,,, youāre holding onto a fault youāve done years ago, and not letting yourself free from it, forever beating yourself up over That One Thing youāve done when you were a teenager. The same may be for your person as well, and you two just learn to let the past remain in the past. You will need to expand your horizons, and let yourself try things you never had the chance to mess around with.
Throughout this period of time, you both also learn about the tendency of being apathetic towards your own pain (you think that your pain is nothing; they think that their pain aināt much worth mentioning). Detachment towards your emotions is a thing, making you stuck in the past. Your inner child is not healed, and this would be something you and your person will be working on, to find ways to heal yourselves, enjoying the world with its gifts for you. Youāll learn how to nurture the people around you, but starting from yourself. Itās likeā¦ Two wounded small animals hiding under a shade as they licked each otherās wounds. That, but things are promised to be better.
5. What can you two achieve together? - Strength rx, The Hanged Man rx
The Hanged Man rx extends towards this card, symbolising that by breaking past habits and treating yourself kindly, only then youāll be able to grow stronger together. The topic and lessons about inner self will follow here as well, and may be a lifelong theme where you constantly need to nurture yourself and each other to flourish.
The strength you both will gain will be inwards, where you are more gentle towards yourself, more forgiving of yourself, bandaging the wounds that your inner lion has caused. Your passion, desires and anger is the inner lion in you, and youāll be learning to keep it in check once you understand them and accept them. Imagine going through the five stages of grief, and it ends with acceptance. Thatās when you learn to live together with it as part of you.Ā
Remember that strength comes in gentleness too, and that to accept your vulnerability takes a lot of strength, energy and effort. I would also add that once you are at this stage, youāll be able to combat self-inadequacy and doubt, learning to trust yourself and your partner. Itās a constant growing process, but you have each other to support and help throughout this journey. Together, your strength can be limitless.
6. The core values in this relationship: The Hanged Man rx, The Sun
The Hanged Man rx appeared again. Iād say that one of the core values in this relationship is to learn to open up and accept the emotions (the happy ones and the not so positive ones) youāve been feeling. You or your person, or perhaps the both of you have had a difficult childhood growing up, where you guys have learnt to repress the various feelings for you to function. In this relationship, opportunities will open up via challenges (discussions, disagreements, compromises, failed plans, etc.), and you two will need to learn to release the pain and anger. From there, the relationship will continue to renew and become stronger, and you two will also be able to heal at your own pace. Iām seeing that one of you may have been working on it earlier than the other, and the one whoās more experienced in self-healing will be able to help the other.
Followed by healing comes The Sun thatās hiding behind the rainy clouds. Another core value that Iām seeing here is that you two will learn to enjoy the small and big happiness in your life. Celebration is the theme here, where you two will learn about appreciation and gratitude, growing along the way to celebrate the small and big wins, achievements and building up self-worth along the way. Iām seeing you celebrating for them when they get a pay raise, and them throwing a celebration (or a romantic dinner/gesture) for you when you achieved your goal of maybe not self-deprecating for a whole month.Ā
Overall energy: The Tower, Death rx, The Emperor
There are quite some strong energies here, both you and your person. You guys are still fighting personal battles and are at the significant stages of your lives, where a split decision can contribute to different outcomes. Thereās an energy of autonomy here, where youāre fighting to gain back control over yourself, your identity, and you learn to break free from the cocoon thatās binding you. Things are difficult, values you believed in may start to break down, making you doubt if youāre even doing the right thing. Rest assured as youāll be seeing messages and signs around you. Your guides and the Universe will be dropping you signs, and youāll know youāre on the right path. Know that youāre beloved and guarded, take the chance and go for whatever it is youāre fighting for.
Some personal experiences I have with certain synastry aspects/overlays
inspired by @elysiansparadise if it's not obvious enough.
š”Her Saturn in my 4H: This may sound weird but she feels like home to me. She brings a comfort that's... I don't know how to explain in words, but there's just a sense of groundedness to me. Sheās the anchor that can put me at ease when I am overwhelmed with family matters. I do know some things that I do will not be acceptable to some, and Iām not sure if she completely agrees with me, but Iām very sure that she puts my feelings first and focuses on validating me. The acknowledgement is there and it's always safe to find solace in her. When Iām in pain and I need help, itās her I turn to.
š”Her Saturn conjuncts my Moon: She makes me feel comfortable, she grounds me. It's like... I'm the balloon and she's the string tying me to a place that's safe. I wouldn't say she stops me from flying, but she helps me to keep me in check. Her words are... Gentle. They're not gentle in a watery way, but they're gentle in a way that doesn't stop the creativity and freedom in me.
š”Her stellium (Venus, Mercury & Saturn) in my 1H: I feel that this stellium of hers plays a role in how I see and build myself. Her mannerism affects how I build my personality somehow, and I tend to adopt traits of her into me. Not to mention that we actually do have a similar thought process and the conversation can just go in a weird way yet Iāll be able to get what she means. Itās a fun placement, imo, despite the energy of Saturn can be heavy at times as it just makes me wanna run away lol.
š”His Jupiter in my 1H: He is like a father figure to me, and with this aspect, I feel that he cares about how I live and how Iām doing, showing support (both morally, financially, and food-ly). Itās just a warm connection and I enjoy it a lot, and according to him, he finds my presence fun (my Moon is in his 5H).
š”Her Moon conjuncts my Saturn: She provides a lot of comfort, helps me understand why the subconsciously affixed rules in my life exist, where I feel validated and assured. I am being heard and understood, which is something I don't really experience growing up. This aspect makes me feel safe by just sitting together and being quiet.Ā
š”Her Saturn in my 12H: She is into spirituality, and her views of it tends to be... Her rules (in my opinion, from my observation). I'm not sure how open she can be with it (open in terms of looking and understanding other types of views and opinions) but it definitely won't be with me. It's as though she sees me as a newbie in spirituality and sets the bar, in which I feel rigid and have a sense of defiance (but also I don't agree with some of her views so... yeah...)
š”His Moon in my 11H: We have a pretty comfortable and amicable relationship, and it is pretty chill. How he voices his thoughts and emotions are very clear, thereās no misleading action or words. Not to mention his Moon sign is the same as my Sun sign, which probably makes the entire exchange much easier (his Moon trines my Moon too).
š”Her stellium (Sun, Venus, Mercury) in my 6H: I don't know how to put it in words but the best way to explain it would be... Stability. She is able to see things from a practical view, and this earthy trait comforts me better than anything else. Not to mention that those placements of hers trines mine (same element), where we have a similar mindset, making communication and friendship between us easier.
š”Her Pluto conjuncts my Pluto: Even though our Plutos are in the same sign, the energy we bring to the table can be completely different. It feels like our values (specifically on the generational views and psychological depths, where I see things as science and she sees it as spirituality) clash and I feel that her Pluto wants me to see things her way, while my Pluto wants to defy it.
š”His Mercury in my 12H: I find it kinda funny with this, where we spent quite some time trying to find a way to effectively communicate with each other. He tends to shy away from conflict and will prefer to communicate via texts, while I prefer a direct conversation. After figuring out his comfort zone, our conversations generally became forms of stickers (LINE stamps) and facial expressions. However, for things that are more serious, we can sit together and have lengthy conversations to make sure that we are on the same page and can get things done properly. It feels likeā¦ The Mercurial energy will only surface when itās necessary. Itās weird but kinda fun.
š”My Pluto in her 1H: She has mentioned before that she felt intimidated and/or threatened by me in the sense where I kept challenging her and her views. We have very different upbringings and values; something normal to her is uncomfortable to me, and it has resulted in arguments and disagreements in the past.
š”Her stellium (Venus, Jupiter & Moon) in my 12H: I have had moments where I donāt feel comfortable with how she acts and after quite some time (years) of figuring it out, I realized itās the difference in privileges. She did not have much financial responsibility on her and was open to freely act on what she feels, which was pretty much the opposite of me. I guess I felt threatened back then, but we did talk about it (though weāre no longer friends now).
š”His Moon conjuncts my Pluto: This is a friend of more than a decade and heās just comfortable to be with. I donāt quite know what to explain other than we understand pain and childhood trauma at a similar level. We have both gone through different things growing up, and things can be made more difficult being in an Asian household, where mental and emotional health were not given much thought or consideration. Yet, we justā¦ Understand and get each other during our trauma dumping session, validating each otherās pain. His Pluto conjuncts my Pluto as well, but it may be due to his Moon-Pluto conjunction, that his sensitivity and understanding is heightened compared to others.
š”Her Mercury trines my Moon: She is able to understand my emotions in a logical sense. Sometimes, my emotions can be a mess, a pile of unknown feelings, and sheās the one who helps me brush through the yarns, categorizing them and helping me understand what those are, and why Iām feeling them. She just has the right words when Iām down, and sheās there to help me like a lifeline. I call her when Iām weary and in tears, and sheāll justā¦ Be present.
š”His Jupiter trines my 10H stellium: I do feel that he provides knowledge and expands my views on a particular culture. Whatever Iāve learnt from him has helped me in work related fields, may it be knowledge, understanding my potentials and how I can work with it, as well as building work related connections. Part of me does feel like Iām helping him with these (his Jupiter is in rx), but Iām also learning from them.
š”Her stellium (Uranus, Saturn, Neptune, Moon & Sun) in my 10H: Generally speaking, Iām naturally comfortable with earth dominant people (especially Capricorns). I met her through work and weāre hitting our 10 year friendship next year. She has helped me through work related themes and also house related things. I have a 10H stellium and I dare say that my work/career builds me up to who I am, that I build my identity on my career achievements. She has helped me through it and guided me through the crisis. I consult her on almost every aspect of my life lol. And Iām very, very grateful to have her in my life.
š”Her stellium (Neptune, Sun & Uranus) in my 11H: Sheās a friend Iāve made through the internet, and Iād say this friendship is something refreshing. The entire thing started as an accident, a glitch on the system, but became something rather beautiful itself. The topics we talked about are pretty random, where it started from topics of interest to personal life. Itās a fun ride but we are there to support each other.
š”Her stellium (Uranus, Venus & Sun) in my 12H: Her love for me is soft, making me feel treasured and secured. She brought changes into my life in terms of spirituality and the unknown, but they do not overwhelm me. With the Sun there, itās like the early morning sun, where itās not overbearing but gentle. Thereās some form of healing energy here as well, like a gentle breeze tending to my wounds. Her very being is a blessing.
š”His Sun and Mercury in my 5H: For context, this is my boss. I feel easy and open to talk to him about random things and itās rather fun? It makes the relationship not strictly about work and for work, but to look at the brighter and fun side of the dull routine. Probably one of the reasons that I donāt feel stressed when I have work related discussions with him.
š”Her Mars in my 8H: I feel that thereās a drive and passion in her that makes me more aware about myself. She feels like someone who enjoys life, and will make sure that things will work well. 8H can mean insecurities, but instead of making me fear, it feels like her Mars pushes me to move forward more, to understand my insecurities and work on it.
