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I'm sick right now, maybe a flu or something. My throat hurts a bit and feels uncomfortable, my body aches, and I have fever.
The pain doesn't bother me since I've felt worse, and the fever feels oddly comforting when I'm under my blanket. It's just the throat that's bothering me so I can sleep even tho I'm exhausted.
I hope it will finish before my menstruation starts, it has been at least 3 times in a row I'm sick while having my menstruation.
I wish people (especially social/medical professionals) would stop thinking I'm autistic. I don't care if they think I'm neurotypical instead, as long as they stop thinking I'm autistic.
Docs and social workers keep thinking that since since they can't find any physical trace of illness in me it must be autism that is physically disabling me which dismiss my physical health issues. All it does is worsening my mental health and letting me without answer nor help for my physical issues.
Please make those fucking "professionals" learn about less known disorders and illnesses in colleges/universities instead of letting them throw around popular disorders/illnesses as an answer for everything they don't understand in people who are asocial+awkward.
I'm so fed up of people pushing me to participate in society. Stop caring about me and let me be a shut-in in peace.
Why are so much people acting like the psychoanalytic theories of Klein, Guntrip and more are some psychology facts?
No "Schizoid Dilemma" isn't some official psychology term, no "fear of engulfment" isn't some basic traits all schizoids have, etc (go see some of my other posts for more examples).
Yes those psychoanalysts surely had a lot of misdiagnosed patients such as some pwAvPD, some masking autistic people with trauma that leads to fear of engulfment and isolation, maybe even some pwStPD that they unknowingly used for making those theories. All this obviously mess up their conclusions.
I think this is one of the main cause of all the misinformation on internet about SzPD that I've talked about in former posts.
Sorry if "theories" isn't the right term, I'm not sure what I should call those.
I just thought about it but another thing that makes the results of those psychoanalysts bias is the fact a lot of schizoids don't go get therapy or even don't go get diagnosed, so there is even less chances for them to go participate to those kind of research.
Too much people act accepting of pw certain disorders/traits but only in concept or when the person is heavily masking.
[targeted "you" towards those fake ass folks]
Why am I suddenly "toxic" and I need to change if I'm distant and withdraw myself from others while you were fine with my asociality?
Why am I suddenly a "heartless monster" when I don't care about people dying and wars while you were fine with my apathy and lack of affective/compassionate empathy?
Why is it badly seen to have a Personality Disorder, showing the disordered side of a popularized disorder, having a barely known disorder? Or just showing those stigmatized traits without having a disorder?
Those people really only show "acceptance" when we are "societally acceptable" or easily romantizable, when it's not aesthetic anymore they suddenly make us seem like the issue.
If I have a new username it's normal, I just felt like changing it.
Since I've seen another post accepting people lacking empathy, sympathy, compassion, and care but still bring up how morals are what's important again; I'm adding some other traits to the "those traits don't make this person evil" list.
No, someone not having morals doesn't mean they will suddenly do what most people consider "immoral" or crimes, most criminals and "mean" people still have morals from what I've seen. And not being prosocial or simply not being kind don't make a person "awful" either.
People really need to stop having a "You're not kind/caring/sympathetic/etc? Then you must be the opposite and hurt others!!" mindset. No. It's not because someone lack one, multiple or all those traits that they will go out of their way to hurt others.
My dreams are so weird, why did I just dream of baseball balls migrating in the ocean like fishes and apparently they were dangerous but I don't remember why and I traveled my boat to go from a landscape to a kind of base? I'm so confused 😭
What type of schizoid are you?
Classic Schizoid
Secret/Psychoanalytic type Schizoid
Idk
Some kind of mix?
Not schizoid/Results
I'm really curious since I've mostly seen people fitting the secret schizoid type online. Personally I'm the classic type.
Since I've made a SzPD creature (link) I thought why no making one for my Dermatillomania? So here's the Dermatillomania/Excoriation Disorder creature:
I named it SKN (simply "skin" shortened since I couldn't find a good text acronym). Yes, it's a crab. And the little crosses symbolize the skin picking scars.
Maybe I will make a fusion of the DND and SKN later...
Question for fellow schizoids who have chronic anhedonia: Do any of you also "like"/crave/etc amusement park rides for the adrenalin it gives? Or maybe listen to some music that feel really stimulating (e.g. rock, metal)? Or anything to stimulate you in general to cope with the anhedonia?
Yes, amusement park rides
Yes, music
Yes, both
Yes, stimulation in general
Yes, other
No
Other
Not a schizoid/Don't have anhedonia/Results
Personally: yes I search stimulation in general, music + amusement parks are my main ways to do so.
Today I've seen 2 social workers and they were worried about my detachment and isolate (as well as other issues i won't mention), they said they accept my asociality but still want me to be functional and get a job and such. Idk what to think about that but cool at least they don't want me to do some group therapy or get friends.
I just saw a post saying compassion is a conviction and lacking compassion is a bad thing while lacking empathy is not. No you're not defending neurodivergent people here, you're doing the same as the "empathy is what makes us human" people but towards people who lack compassion 💀
Empathy (whatever the type), sympathy, compassion, pity, remorse, and care are all traits someone can have or lack. No it doesn't mean someone is shitty if them lack one, multiple, or all those traits.
If you want to support people who lack empathy, don't push down people lacking other traits in the process. Either you accept people lacking all the traits I said or you shut the fuck up.
The poster also said something like "the right-wong party is evil and lack compassion" and "the left-wing party is built on compassion" like if some political parties have anything to do with some traits someone have—most of the time—no control over.
Unpopular opinion or something?
The ICD-11 classification system for Personality Disorders is better than the DSM-5-TR one.
The system with Clusters and multiple Personality Disorders put people too much into strict boxes, while the one with 1 Personality Disorder diagnosis then a specified severity + Trait Specifiers is more accurate.
I think I've read there is something similar in the DSM-5-TR but is seems nobody use it.
I'm going to keep using the DSM-5-TR classification here since if someone said they have a "Moderate Personality Disorder with prominent Dissociality and Anankastia traits" nobody will understand. But I hope the ICD-11 will be used more worldwidely with time.
Hey, I made a "schizoid creature" if anyone wanted one. I named it DND (Do Not Disturb). You can revamp it if you want or something, I don't care. I might have made its eye accidentally too narrow, the "a bit pixelated/blury quality" is on purpose tho.
I have nothing better to do than making this, I really need more distractions 👍
Another version with white borders instead and thinner lines for anyone who prefer that.
Anyway, I really need to watch one of the movies on my long ass watchlist instead of making those lil things.
Can people stop saying empathy as if the meaning was sympathy + compassion (+ affective empathy too something)? Empathy alone is a vague term even if the person mean it in the correct way. Like you mean affective empathy or cognitive empathy? Or are you a rare gem who finally use empathy as the umbrella term for all types of empathy?
You might have noticed I said "all types" an not "both types"; it's because some definitions say there are affective empathy, cognitive empathy, but also compassionate empathy; just compassionate empathy is honestly too close to sympathy + compassion so I usually never bring up this type.
Anyway most of the time with the context I can still understand what people mean when they misuse "empathy" so it's not that bad but still a bit annoying.
Hey, I made a "schizoid creature" if anyone wanted one. I named it DND (Do Not Disturb). You can revamp it if you want or something, I don't care. I might have made its eye accidentally too narrow, the "a bit pixelated/blury quality" is on purpose tho.
I have nothing better to do than making this, I really need more distractions 👍