i truly dont think you deserve to be told to kys or anything to that effect but transmedicalism isn’t the innocent little belief system transmeds pretend like it is. it’s not just that you believe being trans is something to be medically treated, it’s that you strip transness away from anyone who doesn’t conform to your own—very strict—personal understanding of being trans even though it’s different for literally every single trans person, including from transmed to transmed. transmeds will literally rip at each other’s throats within the same circlejerk for not adhering to certain rules and standards. i used to be one, i know the spaces and the line of thinking intimately and i know for a fact it comes from a place of self hatred that the transmed is too scared to acknowledge. you spend all day ragebaiting yourself for what? you will never change the world, transmeds will never make “progress”, and the conservatives will never pick you for being “one of the good ones” your cause is entirely meaningless and you’re powerless. I don’t know if you’re just bitter because you don’t have access to hrt and are jealous of people who do, or you live in an environment as hostile as many of us do but if you met someone irl who by your weird little rules is a trender and you actually talked to them i guarantee you you’d have way more in common than you think.
i’m gonna say i completely disagree. you say transness is “different for everyone” like sure but at some point you’re no longer describing being trans. yes one person may be more comfortable with something but at its core being trans is having gender dysphoria. if you don’t have that you are actively making a choice. and if you are completely fine w everyone knowing you’re trans, don’t have a problem with your pre transition body and go out of your way to not pass you clearly aren’t trans.
i’ve been on hrt for three years and i have a completely supportive family and social circle. i use to be friends with so many “trenders” and have talked to them multiples time about it and it’s always bs. they want to call themselves trans have all the “fun” but at the end of the day it’s all for attention. if it suddenly wasn’t “cool” anymore i promise almost all of these people wouldn’t do it anymore. everyone i know who went by they then or any other bullshit have stopped doing it because they realized how stupuf it is. weather you like it or not at the end of the day it’s a condition with symptoms and if you don’t have the symptoms you don’t have the condition. it has fucking ruined my life and i loathe that i was born like this everyday and that’s the reality of it. it’s not a fun dress up game it’s not having silly little pronouns sits me actively trying not to end my life because of how miserable it makes me. and that’s coming from someone who completely passes so imagine someone who doesn’t. like i’m just so sick of it being a trend because it fucking sucks and now i’m the bad guy for saying it
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