Ultimate Traggot

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[transsgressions]

Join ManMed™! 🫵

We are a STRICTLY BINARY FTM, adult, and STRICTLY Transmedicalist* Server on Discord! We are an active community of almost 300 members and have plenty of channels such as...

• Transition Support (passing advice, voice training, hrt, surgery, transition timelines, etc.)

• Hobbies (cars/motorcycles, art/music, nature/ animals, gaming/coding, hyperfixations, etc.)

• Advice - Polls - QOTD - VC's - Debates and MORE!

Any 18+ Transmed Binary Trans Men (or questioning

FTM) can join.

We can't wait to meet you!

(Please note your tumblr account username on your join ticket - thank you!)

*This server believes in needing Gender Dysphoria to be trans

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[transsgressions]

What is your server like? Is it mostly people who recently came out? Is there anyone there who has fully transitioned? I'm technically a transmedicalist but I can't stand the way people early in their transition talk about it.

sorry i’ve been lowkirk ignoring tumblr lately. anyways!

i’m one of the moderators for ManMed and it’s a various mix of transition timelines. we have users who are pre-t and closeted - and we have people who have been on T for 10+ years who have had top & phallo(or meta). personally, i love the server and have found some really great friends because of it. some people don’t mesh well with it because we do have channels dedicated to laughing at tucute bullshit - and that’s understandable if someone doesn’t want to engage with that.

honestly the best way to find out is join and stick around for a week and see if it’s for you! :)

[spooky-cowfish]

A recreation of what I saw when I was passing my boss's desk

[blazestarshine]

im learning that so many of my transmed follower are saying that their transition is not based on identity but instead on their fetish called "autogynephilia".

like obviously the gatekeepers of our community would be the ones who only see this is as a fetish🙃

[transsgressions]

hm…i’ll take shit that didn’t happen for 500 please

[transsgressions]

I feel like I don't fit in with tucutes or truscum. Like i'm too dysphoric and interested in passing to be a tucute but too soft/feminine in my mannerisms and interests to be trutrans.

here’s the thing.

i’m not big on the ideology that “you cannot be soft & feminine if you want to pass” especially in the terms of mannerisms. literally the only “requirement” to be a transmed is to have the basic understanding that you need dysphoria to be trans - something which is common sense and majority of people believe in.

however, no one said passing as a feminine man was easy though. even cis men who show some degree of feminine behavior - while praised for online - often are the victims of verbal attacks (or potentially physical) for being how they truly are…especially in irl circles.

there is a difference between a dysphoric person trying to pass as a feminine man vs. a clearly non-dysphoric person trying to pass as a feminine man (in which they just read off as a woman). you can be a binary trans man and feminine - i promise you.

[transsexualsmatter]

excluding people from the trans community is important actually

[transsgressions]

It’s honestly sad how prevalent hugboxxing is in trans spaces. Someone asks how they can pass better because they’re tired of being misgendered and the comments will be full of “You pass just fine! Don’t listen to them!” when obviously is they “Passed just fine” they wouldn’t be getting misgendered.

Instead of giving someone genuine advice or critique on how to improve their outward image to better pass - they simply are just coddled like children. Hugboxxing is just a way to avoid telling someone the truth about their presentation out of fear of hurting said someone’s feelings. It’s not genuine, no real feedback, just a circlejerk of #YOURE SO VALID!! talk.

If you TRULY want to help someone - give them real advice. Real feedback. Otherwise you’re just dooming them to being confused, hurt, etc.

[uwuscum]

how... how does this work, exactly?

[shuppyshup]

you’re not “pansexual” you’re just a bisexual with a superiority complex

[transsgressions]

fuck the right

[hans-worldviews]

the amount of times I find an amazing post about trans men only for it to get ruined with "and transmascs"

[transsgressions]

it’s very crazy to be the absolute OUTRAGE i see in regards to salem (wolfertinger666 aka puppychan) being banned. people sending threatening anons to other poc tumblr users and blaming them - for some reason?

yeah let’s ignore the fact that PUPPYCHAN was telling people to kill themselves, suicide baits at any given opportunity, has pretended to be asian (no it wasn’t an alter. this is you struggling to cover your ass), drew gooner slop and made no effort to make their account 18+, had inappropriate relationships with minors, claimed they were the Sole Voice of POC on this hellsite, etc etc. the list goes on.

people see some mf’ on tumblr saying shit like “bunny boy boobs! good bunny morning!” and drawing mid-tier art and they think it’s the second coming of fucking jesus.

get a grip.

[hans-worldviews]

is that the one who'd make transphobic ass furry art LMAO shouldve stayed in bluesky

[transsgressions]

yep that’s the one! they have so many dickriders on tumblr & bsky it’s insane.

[transsgressions]

it’s very crazy to be the absolute OUTRAGE i see in regards to salem (wolfertinger666 aka puppychan) being banned. people sending threatening anons to other poc tumblr users and blaming them - for some reason?

yeah let’s ignore the fact that PUPPYCHAN was telling people to kill themselves, suicide baits at any given opportunity, has pretended to be asian (no it wasn’t an alter. this is you struggling to cover your ass), drew gooner slop and made no effort to make their account 18+, had inappropriate relationships with minors, claimed they were the Sole Voice of POC on this hellsite, etc etc. the list goes on.

people see some mf’ on tumblr saying shit like “bunny boy boobs! good bunny morning!” and drawing mid-tier art and they think it’s the second coming of fucking jesus.

get a grip.

[ichliebemeinkissen]

remember when tucute was a term that was seen as an insult?

literally calling somebody cute

truscums were so dumb idk how i ever believed what they said

[transsgressions]

actually, the word tucute (too cute to be cis) was coined in 2014 by tumblr user idislikecispeople. if i recall correctly, they also coined truscum (true transsexual scum). transmeds never created the word - but since lots of folks identified with the use of tucute it simply just stuck.

personally, i stick with transtrender mostly because imo that fits the description more rather than “tucute”.

screenshot from the idislikecispeople blog below

[maledettastella]

if you see a trans man who is grieving the fact he doesn't have a biological penis and can't get his partner pregnant and tell him he has a "natural tdick" and that he can be a "seahorse dad" you need to be quiet for several hours, weeks, months, years.

[stfloweronreddit]

It's okay to be right-wing and transmed

That's it. That's the post

[transsgressions]

Being a transmed = hell ya brother

Being a right-winger = holy fucking chud

[hans-worldviews]

"afab transfem" translates to "sad cis female who wants to be special"