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I don't know who my intended audience is here, so whoever needs to hear this, I am begging you to learn to participate in conversations that are about things you aren't interested in.

Part of socializing and having friends is being a good listener even when you don't actually give a shit about the subject.

Your are hurting other people's feelings when you bluntly respond with "Anyway..." and then change the topic.

It can not always be about your preferred topic.

You are being rude. Yes, even if you are neurodivergent. You can be both autistic and rude.

m-e-and-me

10 things i think (mostly) abled people take for granted:

1. walking painlessly

2. walking without being afraid to fall

3. being able to stay awake all day

4. feeling rested after sleeping

5. being able to eat without pain

6. not worrying about choking on any food and drinks

7. having energy to do fun things

8. not having a million medical appointments a month

9. using the bathroom painlessly

10. being able to go to social gatherings

insidestory1

When you tell someone about being mistreated because of your disability, there is a common response that goes something along the lines of, "But did you explain to them properly why you can't do x thing?" "Did you make sure they understood why you need x accomodation?" "Maybe they just didn't understand?"

For example: "Did you properly explain that the reason you don't do hugs is because of your autism?" or "Maybe they don't really understand how bad fibro fatigue is and that's why they got upset at you for concelling plans."

I hate these kind of responses. They give me the same vibe as being asked, "Yeah, but what were you wearing when you got catcalled?" They put the responsability for the problem onto the person who was discriminated against, instead of the one doing the discriminating. Disabled people should not be expected to go through grueling explanations or justify their needs before those needs are respected.

junglejim4322

People who claim you can never make comparisons to hitler and the holocaust when it comes to other genocides really baffle me like you have to be thinking that those are lesser atp and it’s just objectively true that genocide follows the same patterns and a part of preventing it is studying how it happened to begin with and recognizing that genocide in history has been very similar like google hitlers “who speaks of the Armenians” speech. But even if it wasn’t important to remember all this just on a base level why are you saying there are genocides that demand more respect than others like hello..?

behaviornerdwithahat

In case anyone finds it helpful because mobility aids are horrifically expensive and inaccessible…

And for those people who have access to mobility devices but might benefit from a second chair they can abuse without risking expensive damage…

Erik Kondo has made a website, Open Source Innovations, that details plans for DIY wheelchairs. These wheelchairs can be made from common materials like wood, plastic, and pvc. They are lightweight and can be custom fit to the user allowing from the same degree of movement you would get from a custom chair. And they are durable and easily repairable. (he has been stress testing his latest design by dropping it down stairs, dropping it out of a car, launching it across a driveway, and throwing it off a deck). Its 12lbs and I think he said its was in the $200 ish range for parts.

He also is working on cheap, open source, accessible designs for beach chairs, off road chairs, motorized attachments (think smart drive), and so on. Plus he skateboards in his wheelchair. Cool dude, helpful info, pass it on.

sumi-sprite

It's incredibly sad people have to resort to this, but it's a damn good resource. Use it. Spread awareness. Maybe one day people with physical disabilities won't need DIYs like this. But until then, reblog and share.

this-is-accessibility

This is Accessibility!

That's so amazing! It is unfortunate that so many people will need this, but very very cool that it exists

organizationstationone4all

That other link seems to be broken.

whimsy-flags

Some pride Jellyfish! Enjoy~

whimsy-flags

Pride Squid Emojis! Enjoy~

fatliberation

I genuinely don't understand what's wrong with dieting. Having a normal BMI is healthy. Of course you can be a little bit overweight for many reasons and that's also okay, but 300+ lbs is just too much. (yeah, bmi can be a little bit inaccurate due to muscle mass, but if a person doesn't work out, no way their excess weight is something other than fat)

It's unhealthy and if something is unhealthy it's also can't be beautiful. It's just how attractivness works lol.

I don't support any kind of eating disorders, but as a part of society you should be productive to it and not a burden to health-care.

I'm not trying to offend anyone and if I did I'm sorry. Its just a really interesting topic for me and I want to discuss it

then allow me to shed some light on the subject. I have a wealth of resources on my home page for you to explore and educate yourself with. I’m not interested in discussing this with you because quite frankly, you are not ready to have this discussion until you’ve begun deconstructing your anti-fat bias and ableism. first, please familiarize yourself with the studies complied on dieting, intentional weight loss, and the relationship between size and health.

enbycarp

"You shouldnt be a burden to Healthcare," says the fascist

fatliberation

gaymolegaming

Reblog if you stand against order, civilization, and goodness itself

athena-cat-wizard-official

goes hard ngl

the-knightswind-case

Consider:

the-guilty-hero

A gift for a friend who absolutely adores marine animals and asked me to draw their favorite with a pride flag!

Art © me A few other flags are available below for free, non-commercial use. Apologies in advance if your flag isn't here, I tried to include most of them for people to enjoy and there were so many! Happy Pride month!

crazywhite27

My first commission in 5 years!

A beautiful story of a client meeting their partner in-game.

memory-of-stargazing

“It just means you have to work double as hard as most people!”

Well maybe I don’t WANT to work double as hard as abled people!! Maybe I deserve a BREAK!! Maybe I’ve been working MORE THAN double as hard for MY WHOLE LIFE and it’s led me to immense burnout & caused me to develop several MORE disabilities!! Maybe I should be ACCOMMODATED so I don’t have to KILL MY BODY AND BRAIN over trying to do what abled people can do!! Maybe I DON’T have to work double as hard!! Maybe if there’s the option to let me NOT work double as hard, I should have it, because I’m already working double as hard JUST TO SURVIVE!!

Why do you think disabled people deserve less rest than mentally & physically abled people?

demonprincex

This isn’t really about dildo recommendations but I just wanted to share a little bit about the history of body safe dildos. They were created by a Black disabled man who wanted to continue to feel sexually fufill Ed. He defied obscenity laws and trade laws to develop body safe silicone dildos. He even worked with the founder of the first feminist sex shop in NYC to develop non-representational dildos to satisfy the market for penetration assistive toys that were not explicitly phallic.

I think in the spirit of sexual autonomy, embracing dildos as assistive technology, all towards the goal of affirmation, pleasure, safety, and autonomy of our own sexual destinies,,,,,,,,Godspeed to us all, exploring this strange and wonderful tool. May we use it in ways that make us feel the sexual ecstasy we seek ❤️

His name was Gosnell Duncan and he started his work in Chicago!

It’s hard to imagine that sex toys were once controversial within the feminist movement.

isawken

going over to my minimalist girlfriend’s house and she apologizes profusely for the mess and there’s just a single perfect, fresh pea on the floor of her living room

Blue Lois

can i help you

Red Marge

jesus christ. I Am Under Fucking Attack

worldheritagepostorganization

World Heritage Post

isawken

i deserve a medal for this post. not because i was particularly funny but because i survived an onslaught of nearly one hundred gimmick blogs in the wake of this post popping off, and the fact that i didn’t try to track any of them down and snuff them out with my bare hands is a testament to my immeasurable strength and should be rewarded. at one point i had “the official letter h” add on to this post. you wanna know that blog’s gimmick? the really funny and original and worthwhile gimmick the official letter h blog had? yep you guessed it they just gave me the god damned letter H and then fucked off. only jesus knows the suffering i endured over that harsh winter, and he wept for me

creatingblackcharacters

Remember when Lil Nas X beautifully explored his sexuality, seduced and killed the devil to the banger of all time, and instead of cheering on this openly gay and proud Black artist for his artistry and fighting back against respectability politics, suddenly said respectability politics was all the Queerest Place on the Internet cared about? Hm. Wonder what happened there.

Anyway I miss him and hope he's doing better with his mental health 🙏🏾

madgirlramblings

I still remember when in my dbt group when somebody said something negative about cops the therapist interjected "Hey! No political discussion allowed here." and then added on "The police work hard to protect us everyday."

Uh-huh. "No politics"

The audacity to say that when police are such a threat to disabled people, especially disabled people of color! To feel as if the police are protecting you comes from such a place of power/safety, and to act like it’s universal and true for all is ignorant as shit. Sorry that you had to put up with that…

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