Old Sugar, New Money

[markparham]

You Are Going To Have So Much Success In 2018 (pass it on)

[veteransugar]

Random Tip

Stop saying “finer things in life”, be greedy and say what you want. As long as you word it right it’ll sound so much better than that finer things bs.

Say things like

I’m looking for an adventurous man that wants to take me galabanting across Asia.

I have a refined palate, so I only drink the best wines/rums/whatever

I love being wined and dined by a true gentleman at (your city’s top restaurants).

I value quality over quantity which is why I have no problen slurging on high end brands (or products).

I have high expectations for myself as well as my partner.

I’m only attracted to sucessful, ambitious, financially stable men who know what they want from life.

Obvi these are example that can be changed and rewritten but if I see another “finer things in life” I’m going to scream. I promise you’ll get more interest if you simply state what you want rather than being vague.

♤ Sam

[brownsugaaabae]

Noted. Just changed a few things around in my profile. This was very helpful.

[sweetest-baby-deactivated201712]

#veteransugar

I feel you on that. Finer things in life…Yuck. I have not had much success online but have come up freestyling. Guess I just don’t have the patience to wade thru the muck online.I am curious what you think about online sugaring vs freestyling?

[veteransugar]

I like playing the long game so I prefer freestyling. I usually take the route of spoiled girlfriend rather than straight up sugar baby only becuase I want to end up a trophy wife lol.

I feel like when I meet men organically they are open to spending more (even tho it's later down the line). That's not to say you can't do that online.

I've used Tinder and have been quite successful. I actually put a few of those lines in my bio and it works like a charm. I've had men take me to wine tastings because I mentioned I only like fine wine in my profile.

It's really what you make it 😊

[escort-diaries]

Ladies: what are things you could say you’re doing when your escorting, or out with a SD if your friends/family are on your case?

Let’s start a thread and… go!

[moon-pizza-action]

“Going on a date” (like a vanilla one)

“Meeting a freelance client” (Make up whatever side hustle you want)

“Going to the club” (or out with a friend who will cover for you)

idk I’m lucky that my family member roommate knows what I’m up to and I just tell my mom that I’m dating rich older guys who love spoiling me lol

[whorenextdoor-nyc-deactivated20]

Honestly, if they’re not my roommates, I can really tell them anything?

Studying, babysitting, watching Netflix, with friends, running errands. Whatever you normally do when you’re busy.

Maybe that’s weird, but I guess I’ve never really had people who need to know where I am 24/7. Imagining you’re not going on an SB date every day all day, it shouldn’t be that hard! Don’t sweat it.

[sugardreamdiary-deactivated2018]

I do some freelance videography, so I always make up something related to that.

- Out shooting new footage

- Getting some focused editing done at the library / coffee shop

- Meeting a client for a new video project

- Getting my camera repaired

- Shopping for a new tripod

The hard ones to cover are overnights / travel. Any tips on making excuses for when you’re randomly taking a weekend trip to New York or Chicago or wherever?

[veteransugar]

I usually just say I'm going out to eat with my friends. I did that lot when I wasn't Sugaring so it's not suspicious that I go out alot now.

When I go away for the weekend I just say I'm visiting a friend in wherever.

[veteransugar]

Big News

I haven't been on much lately due to some exciting things. I was recently offered my dream job so I will be relocating from DC to NYC. I'm not sure what the bowl is like up there but I'm excited.

Just walking to my interview I saw so many POTs (but I was in the zone and didn't want to be distracted from the interview). I'll try to be more regular with posting tips and what not as I settle in.

I'm beyond excited!!!

[veteransugar]

Random Tip

Stop saying “finer things in life”, be greedy and say what you want. As long as you word it right it’ll sound so much better than that finer things bs.

Say things like

I’m looking for an adventurous man that wants to take me galabanting across Asia.

I have a refined palate, so I only drink the best wines/rums/whatever

I love being wined and dined by a true gentleman at (your city’s top restaurants).

I value quality over quantity which is why I have no problen slurging on high end brands (or products).

I have high expectations for myself as well as my partner.

I’m only attracted to sucessful, ambitious, financially stable men who know what they want from life.

Obvi these are example that can be changed and rewritten but if I see another “finer things in life” I’m going to scream. I promise you’ll get more interest if you simply state what you want rather than being vague.

♤ Sam

[veteransugar]

This D.C/DMV sugar baby group needs to happen asap

I'm tryna dress up with other pretty ladies who bout that shmoney and go here to find ourselves some whales 🐳🐳

[veteransugar]

Ho Tactics

This whole "Date your SD" thing is effective but annoying. While in the long run I get more money, I gotta deal with em more.

I'm tired 😭😭😭😭. I can't be texting you all day dude, don't you have a job.

[veteransugar]

Freestyling For New & Aspiring SBs

So this will be a short post (hopefully) about freestyling. I’m sitting on my couch about to go out and it dawned on me that I should write this becuase it my help some new and aspiring SBs.

What is freestyling?

To keep it simple freestyling is when SBs go out into the real world to find benefactors. Rather than using websites, some opt to dress up and go to lounges, bars, 5 star restaurants hoping to strike up conversations with wealthy men. Personally I love freestyling becuase I get to meet face to face right off the bat, but when I first started out I was terrible at it.

Why new and aspiring girls shouldn’t jump head first into freestyling.

Now keep in mind this is just an opinion but over the years I’ve seen enough to make an educated opinion. For new girls bars/lounges/restaurants can be overwhelming for alot of reasons;

You don’t know how to approach men and strike up conversation

You lack the confidence needed to freestyle properly

You may put yourself in danger

Your age prevents you from getting into bars

I can think of 100 more reasons but these stood out to me.

Best places to freestyle (For new girls)

Gyms

Bookstores

Coffee shops

Grocery stores

Malls

All of these places can be a good way to reach you self confidence and how to talk to men. Now while they may not be the most “lucrative” places compared to lounges and bars, they have potential (it’s what you make it). As with all freestyling, being in wealthier neighborhoods yield the best results. It’s easier to run into a wealthy man if you’re always in a wealthy neighborhood 😉.

For example my new gym is right in the middle of the richest neighborhood in my city (second in the state), it’s also walking distance from Whole Foods (so I can do my groceries one time), a bunch of high end restaurants, and the Four Seasons. I’ve been asked out by a few POTs while at the gym or grocery shopping so dont knock it. And the plus side is that if you choose the gym angle you won’t have to be glammed up (buttt make sure you still look poppin).

*In the future I will get into a longer & more comprehensive post about freestyling, but for now enjoy.

Get that money sis

♤Sam