The conversation around abortion shouldnāt be āare you absolutely sure you want an abortionā it should be āare you absolutely sure you want a childā. You can get pregnant again. You can adopt. But you canāt half-heartedly raise a child or change your mind midway through parenthood. Children are a huge responsibility and if someone isnāt 110% sure they are willing and able to do it, they shouldnāt. Having a baby shouldn't be the default because of how extremely demanding and difficult parenthood is and the irreversible damage it does to a kid to be raised by someone who didn't even fully want parenthood and wasn't prepared for that level of responsibility.















