" ... the smartest, most regular-looking, cleverest girl in the room..."
When I first started this "calling" in 2012, it was under the mistaken impression that Virginia Weidler's story was a sad one. I hope the research we have all done here has pretty well established that it was not. Sadly for all of us, the story was too short, but she lived a good life and had an amazing family.
Still, it was the sad story that made me start digging for everything I could, later enlisting Danny and John's help, and seeking people who knew more than I about the feisty one. The first site, at TCM's now defunct Fan Forum, was called In Search Of...Virginia Weidler. Not wanting Leonard Nimoy to sue me, I changed it on Facebook to the much more appropriate Virginia Weidler Remembrance Society.
Early in my search, I found this blog post, written by Beth Daniels, that I think sums up the kinds of feelings Virginia's work brings out much better than I ever have or ever could. That part of her old site now seems unavailable, but she was nice enough to share the post with me so we all can read it once more.
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Birthday of the Week: Virginia Weidler
3/11/2011
I'm finding it surprisingly difficult to write about Virginia Weidler. As the smartest, most regular-looking, cleverest girl in the room, she meant the world to my sister and me. We loved her like a great friend for many years. She was the closest thing to a real person in the classic films we adored and one couldn't help but watch her and hope she'd say or do more.
If you haven't seen her in anything, you must see The Philadelphia Story. Then maybe Young Tom Edison. She's good if less herself in The Women, but that's not her fault.
By the time she was 17, Virginia had made 45 films and had been in the business for 12 years. She retired shortly after Best Foot Forward, a wise move, got married and had two children. She died in 1968 at the age of 41.
Here she is as a rabid autograph hound in her penultimate picture, The Youngest Profession (1943). Her line, "What's more important, Walter Pidgeon or liver and onions?" has become something of a motto for me.
 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qHD9bbyiTAo
Virginia Weidler would have been 84 today. Happy Birthday, Buddy.
An interesting quote lifted directly and wholly from IMDb:
[When asked about her career in later years,] Virginia would always change the subject as quickly as possible without being rude. She never watched her old movies or replied to requests for interviews. Although she was never one to criticize, I think our boys got the impression that their mother didn't think very much of the motion picture industry." -- Lionel Krisel, Weidler's husband
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" ... the smartest, most regular-looking, cleverest girl in the room..."
That is it in a nutshell. Detractors sometimes derided her as "plain", but that just isn't true. She was girl-next-door pretty, not Hollywood pretty. And her ability to play tomboy well probably didn't help her standing with that detractor crowd, either.
I did a lot of research to find out that Virginia is probably the best friend I never met. Beth and her sister figured that out just by watching the films.