goodbye goodbye! i’m leaving — and for the record, this has nothing to do with the admins (because trust me, you admins were lovely and great about solving everything 👽) or the people (minus a few bad eggs, i’ll clarify soon). i thought i’d give this group a try, but after a month i think it’s just not suited with my personal tastes.
but i’m going to write this post mainly to give the admins a heads-up on what it feels as a new-person assimilating to this rp.
most of the people have been nothing but kind, and to those people — i will miss writing with you / plotting with you (mayhaps i will join another group or smth idk)!! (please feel free to keep in touch via discord. i’m always open to talking about life/music/whatever. and asking you what i should have for dinner. lmao.
but there was just a few fucking weird things (i’m sorry, some of these things really rubbed me the wrong way — but they in no way break the rules, so i couldn’t voice them prior? overall, it made me uncomfortable as fuck)
— i think shipping amongst your own muses is weird, really weird. it makes it very uncomfortable for the person reading it on dash/plotting purposes. (it’s why i had this specific instance blacklisted because each time i’d read it, it’d kill my muse). this might affect nobody, but to me personally? it killed my muse to write for yeseul each time my dash was flooded with a specific mun writing/constantly mentioning their own muses being in love with each other and constantly mentioning it. it was the first time i had ever seen this, and it was just WEIRD.
— there’s a ship of the suzy/seolhyun and j-hope, that floods dash— this exact ship was on famed (from what i heard through the grapevine 🤪). lmao, same muses, same bios, same 'model groups’. there was no alterations to any of the characterizations (and hey, maybe that’s okay to have the same muse across multiple rpgs) but to have the SAME exact ship in a 1x1 sense seems a bit off to me. not only this, but i’ve been told they also have a 1x1 🤪? i thought i could ignore — but in the end, it just flooded dash so i just said ‘peace’ and blacklisted this too. ps: this couple did get called out (from my knowledge) for bubble rping there by other muns, which i guess made them flee ship and bring it back on here??
— which brings me to another thing. i’ve seen issues with bubble rping, but never to the extent that i’ve witnessed here. some people are not even willing to plot, will reply to other threads but ignore yours. lmao. no offense, but it’s high-key annoying to see a bubble rp of a 4x1x1? the same people thread in one-dimensionality with no character development (which, i suppose, is not my problem) but then it just seems unfair to other people, from my standpoint, to only have a cycle of ‘thread points’ amongst yourselves. not only that, there’s a few people that LITERALLY only respond to their ships. i get your ships are so fun to write, but if it’s literally just you and your ship.. spoiler: it’s not fun to anyone else lol. (you can tell when they’re writing for points when each post is misspelled/not proofread aka just written to add another ‘reply’
— a small tid-bit, it might be beneficial for some of you to look up/research about a culture/country before writing about it. it’s low-key offensive when you get big things wrong (and shows how ignorant you are to a culture). aka: if you say you’re from some small old town to be ‘quirky’, and then claim to be a bougie ass rich person chaebol family??? lol. it’s offensive to see my culture portrayed wrongly? lol
overall, these specific muses / people (yeah, idc that i made it obvious who i’m talking about it lol) — made the setting around this place very immature!! lame, not fun to be around. i felt like there was a very low level of realism with how one-dimensional it was.
aka, you guys don’t make it easy to be part of this group if you’re not in the bubble/associated with people in the bubble.
❤️ love, lee.
ps: this is not any hate towards the admins. they’ve done a good job — it’s the few bad eggs that have completely ruined this experience for me.
if you feel personally attacked and want to refute what i have written — hit me in my discord. i have no issues discussing why i have these thoughts.
yes, the reason i’m leaving is because of @vldsaeun @vldminho @vldhamin @vlddahye
i can’t support toxicity, nor can i support snake behavior.