Hello!!!! I was wondering if you know any good break up spells? I have someone who just won't accept that we weren't meant to be.
You can use some amethyst and a piece of pen and paper: Place the crystal on the sheet, then draw a circle around it. Write the name of the person who won’t get over you at the top of the paper. This resembles them and the repressed emotions and denied reality of failed love: the circle enclosing and cutting off the reality, and the amethyst (by its color) being a more “weakened” version of what could have been romance (pink/red=romance: amethyst purple gives off a kind of dead love vibe to me, but if amethyst is too positive for you, you can have a combination of howlite and rose quartz, which is kind of symbolic of death, howlite, and love, rose quartz.) Keep a blue lace agate and tiger’s eye next to the peace of paper.
Close your eyes and imagine this person in front of you. See how they act now; how they cling on to what isn’t meant to be. Now, vision yourself reaching into their chest/heart, and with your eyes still shut, take out the amethyst from the circle. As you do this, see this person realizing that it’s not going to happen, and place in the blue lace agate and tiger’s eye in the circle instead. The blue lace agate will symbolize the “calming down” of their emotions, and the tiger’s eye acceptance and strength.
Imagine this person no longer obsessing or in love or heartbroken, but happy and released, like that of the hanged man from the Major Arcana. Imagine him moving on and what that would look like, and note the change from before and after you gave him the acceptance of the situation.
If you don’t have some of these materials, here are alternatives:
Blue Lace Agate: Pearl, Aqua Blue Obsidian, Turquoise, Selenite, Angelite, Nutmeg, Thyme, Yarrow
Tiger’s Eye: Aventurine, Sodalite, Clear Quartz, Copper, Aragonite, Angelite, Catnip, Angelica, Mustard Seeds
Amethyst: Howlite and Rose Quartz, Lead, Blackberry, Mushroom (brown/beige), Hematite, Black Coral
+ If you want to incorporate candles, which I often do to add a feel about where the beginning and end of the ritual is, go with the color yellow.