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narcissistichedonist

condescendingly degrading her while face-fucking her

"open up for me, angel. just like that, good girl."

"that’s it… take it deeper. you look so pretty when you’re struggling."

"aww, crying already ? how sweet. keep going."

"my perfect little facefuck toy. so messy and obedient."

"shhh, just a little more. you’re doing so well for me."

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narcissistichedonist

forcing successive orgasms out of you while talking you through it

"aww, don't you love cumming ? it feels so good doesn't it."

"it's starting to hurt now ? poor angel, don't worry, i'm right here."

"are you actually crying ? how pathetic, shh, just take it like a good girl."

"stop ? why would we ? look, you're going to cum again."

"mhm, let it out for me, let me see your tears, hear your moans and feel your cunt clench yet again."

the-sensitive-sadist

While we're on the topic it's worth saying that the best time for forced oral is directly after a particularly painful, intense impact session. Intentionally and firmly demonstrating the fundamental inequality between us. you who receives pain and gives pleasure, and Me who receives pleasure and gives pain.

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drippygirly

No no, it's not your turn. It's her turn, remember? She gets 5 orgasms and then you get 1. She's on number 3. Two more for her and then you'll get one. Maybe she'll be nice and let you pick how you cum this time. You better be on your best behavior. She calls the shots now, not you. You need to start remembering that and learn your place. Do her and I need to have a chat about this little hiccup? No? Then fix your attitude and be grateful she still lets you have an orgasm.

Run along and finish your chores before she gets home. You don't want to irritate her by slacking off. Oh and don't forget, she has a very important presentation tomorrow. You need to have her outfit steamed and lunch packed for tomorrow. She'll need a full breakfast in the morning too so you'll need to be up extra early to accomplish chores and breakfast before work.

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cuteslutdiary

Forced dumbification:

Ductaping a vibe to her clit on medium and asking her questions. Turning it lower with every correct answer she gives. Turning it up every time she answers wrong.

She’s a smart girl (not for long, but even dummies are good at pattern recognition) and will answer wrong to chase her pleasure.

When she can’t answer even the most basic questions, fuck her as hard as you can until she cums. Then start again

dummy-daisy

have you ever wanted to hear me edge? here you go. from the first touch to my clit to a hard edge in 55 seconds... can you tell at what second i reach the edge? 🩷 if you enjoy this, i might post audios more often! 🩷

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iknowyoursecretsss

A cunt will worship every part of you enthusiastically if you train her right…

itsubmits

I want you to be genuinely mean to me. I don’t mean calling me a stupid whore (though that would be nice too), I mean tell me I’m only cute when I’m suffering for you. Tell me all I’ll ever be good for is a punching bag and a cumrag. Tell me I’m just an object and that my feelings don’t matter. Make me cry just to get off on it. Make sure to take lots of pictures so I can sit on your lap while you show me how stupid and pathetic I look before sending them to your friends. And make fun of me for begging you for more.

iknowyoursecretsss

Cunts like this are extra special…

submissivefeminist

SF's Guide to Behaviour Modification

Behaviour modification is my absolute biggest kink, but it’s one that most people don’t know much about or think of as an independent kink. It combines my love for submission, my studies in the field of psychology, and the on-going process of making myself a better human being.

Before I jump into the way this works as a kink, I find it’s important to first understand behaviourism as an academic subject.

The field of psychology is often divided among people who study different models. There are cognitive psychologists, for example, who study the way the brain and the human mind work to create perceptions of the world around us. For the purpose of this resource, we will be focusing on behaviourists–that is, people who study human behaviour, as it is observable and measurable by external sources.

Behavioural psychology is utilized for a range of different things. It is often used in therapies with patients who suffer from anxiety, conduct problems, or phobias, and it is also combined with cognitive psychology for people with depression, bipolar disorder, and certain personality disorders.

Behaviourism seeks to use scientifically-supported evidence in order to change one’s negative behaviour to a more desired one. This is most often achieved through the power of operant conditioning. Operant conditioning is the supported theory that behaviours can be modified by providing reinforcement and punishments.

There are two types of rewards and punishments: positive and negative. While most people will think of “postivie” and “negative” meaning “good” and “bad” it actually refers to whether something is added to the situation or taken away. For example, let’s say a submissive is working on their manners and the way they address their Dominant.

Positive Reinforcement: The submissive is polite and cheerful in addressing their Dominant by their title on a given day. The Dominant treats the submissive with a scene of their choice that night. This reinforces the behaviour because the submissive will associate getting their way with being more polite.

Negative Reinforcement: The submissive is punished with orgasm denial for bad behaviour earlier in the week but has been doing much better. As a reward, the Dominant shortens the number of days without orgasm. This reinforces the submissive because they will associate less undesired events as a result of good behaviour.

Positive Punishment: The submissive has a bad day and speaks rudely to their Dominant. As a result, the submissive is spanked. This associates a (painful) punishment with acting out, and the submissive learns to avoid rude behaviour, as a result.

Note: I personally don’t like to use pain as a punishment, because it isn’t especially effective, especially for masochists.

Negative Punishment: The submissive slips up and forgets to refer to their Dominant by their title. As a result, the Dominant refuses the submissive an orgasm that night during their scene. This is discussed and the submissive makes the association between not getting their way with bad behaviour, and seeks to change that.

Now, this concept of a submissive trying to learn how to properly address their Dominant is just one example of a behaviour one can modify. Everyone in BDSM has different kinks, limits, and personal goals, so this example may not be something everyone can relate to. However, the behaviour modification kink can be used to change any behaviour, sexual or not. Here are some more examples on things you can use behaviour modification for:

Performance during scenes.

Quitting a habit (smoking, drinking, biting nails).

Performance in school or at work.

Overcoming a mental health problem. (Note that this can be used with stable submissives seeking to help themselves more in addition to therapy and/or medication. This should not be the sole method of treatment with people suffering from severe mental health problems.)

Body-image issues/self-worth issues.

Etiquette training.

Diet/exercise.

Kink-specific training (clothing restriction, speech restriction, orgasm restriction).

It is important to keep in mind that, like everything else in a healthy D/s relationship, behaviour modification is consensual. This means you cannot modify your submissive’s behaviour unless they want that modification. The idea of modification should be discussed in great detail before being agreed upon by both/all parties involved. Safewords are still active, even in this long-term kink. Any party may safeword to end the modification, and proper aftercare should be given to assure everyone is okay with modifcation ending as it is.

Once you and your partner(s) decide on a behaviour you want to modify, you come up with a basic plan. Here are some additional ideas to get you started:

Consider having the submissive make a blog or write in a journal each day about their progress in this modification. Read it daily and have frequent discussions on how they’re doing.

Come up with a set of daily tasks, one month at a time. Go over the list before the month begins and get approval that all is within limits. Each day, the submissive will perform the task. Missed tasks result in punishment, while especially well-done tasks can have rewards to them. Add in little “special” reward days to keep them motivated and give them a little break now and then.

Have weekly meetings about progress, going over what is done, what needs to be done, what should be changed, etc. Everyone should be enjoying the experience.

Set up a token economy. Token economies work by rewarding the submissive with a chip or a home-made form of currency. These can be exchanged for special rewards like new toys or privileges at the end of each week.

Try to keep tasks, punishments, and rewards centered around the behaviour you’re modifying. Keeping everything in theme will help the submissive be more goal-oriented.

Here are some basic ideas for rewards and punishments you can alter to fit your exact modification:

Reinforcement/Rewards

Orgasms!

Choice of activities in a scene.

Massage/pampering.

Candy.

Home-cooked date night.

New sex toy.

Trip to an event they would enjoy.

Taking away chores.

Lessening punishments set ahead of time.

More freedom where there are set restrictions.

Cuddles, kisses, and general affection.

Punishments

Writing lines (begin with a low number and increase the number of lines for repeat offenders).

Orgasm denial.

Chores.

New restrictions (clothing restriction, bedtime, orgasm restriction, etc).

Loss of privileges.

Time-out.

Humiliation (keep limits in mind).

This should be useful for those starting off with behaviour modification. There’s much more you can do, as everything can be personalized to you and you partner(s)’ specific kinks and limits, as well as the behaviour modified. If you have additional questions/comments/concerns, feel free to contact me here. Good luck!

xx SF