The fit-ish student vet nurse

Kirsty, 22, England. Fitblr and Studyblr. 2nd year SVN. HW 81kg. CW 78.1kg 1st GW: 69kg. 2nd GW 65kg. UGW 60kg. Want to be strong and slim, whilst trying to work and learn.

[wannabefoxy]

I am really struggling and don’t know where else to put this.

I am a big reader. Well of specific genres but still. I love books. I love escaping into these fantasy worlds, seeing and feeling all these scenes and relationships and adventures. 

But sometimes I get stuck. If I’m in a really good book, even when I’m not reading part of my mind remains in there, until the book is finished. 

And every now and then I get stuck on the romance. It makes me realise what I want. It makes me yearn for something else. Something different.

I love my husband. I’ve been with him for 6 years now, married nearly 3. 

And yet... these feelings. They just don’t go away. And I’m stuck. I can’t tell anyone. It’s been going round and round in my head. 

It will be fine once I finish this series. But what happens with the next one? This just keeps getting worse. 

[fatmaninalittlesuit-deactivated]

Family progress picture, one year apart. 😀💓

[livingabovetherest-deactivated2]

This is amazing!

[fallingforautumnblog]

[animalsnaps]

[klevaja-deactivated20171227]

[extramadness]

[stephenearp]

Fern in light

[down2marsyoga]

[awwww-cute]

I thought the shopping bags were a bit heavy

[youlovelylilshit]

[m--xx]

Co-napping is a beautiful thing. Knock out with me so I know it’s real

[silly-luv]

[dopy]

[dietandhealththings]

[sleepycloudkitten]

do waitresses know that i love them and appreciate everything they do

[sleepycloudkitten]

i had the nicest waitress today who told me my outfit was cute and i wish i was rich cuz I would’ve tipped her so much more if I could

[holisticknight]

If you ever actually wanna help your waitress out, ask to speak to their manager before you leave and then tell the manager how awesome they are. Trust me, it makes a difference. Servers who get compliments from guests and customers get better hours, and the more you’re liked by the people who come in the more forgiving the bosses are when shit goes awry (say if you’re sick or you have a flat so you’re late, etc). Tell the manager. Do it! Aside from tipping it’s one of the best things you can do for us. Tell the manager you thought we were great. Tell the manager that we’re the reason you’re gonna come back. Talk us up! It’s a little like job security - if you tell the manager we’re the reason you’re here, they’re gonna be a lot more reluctant to let us go because then they’re losing your business, and they don’t want that. 

[sleepycloudkitten]

this is good advice, thank you 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[seananmcguire]

And managers are SO SURPRISED AND PLEASED when you ask to compliment, rather than complain.  They really listen.

[teacupdream]

This is such a big deal! Nobody bothers to speak up with positive responses. Sometimes the person you’re complimenting will never find out, but I guarantee it will help. It may even contribute to pay raises or better consideration when position changes are available.

[jewishgirlrevolt]

As some on who worked front desk at a hotel, I can confirm that talking to the manager about employers in a positive way is super important and helpful for us. 

[ayellowbirds]

Anywhere you interact with people who have an accessible supervisor.

[novice-heartbreaker-deactivated]

Something I really needed today | “You don’t have to play tough every single day. You’re allowed to express weakness, you’re allowed to be upset.”

[charlottewinslow]