[sofiaswaves]

Kelela in the music video for idea 1, directed by 91 Rules, cinematography by Liam Reardon, hair by Matt Benns, makeup by Raisa Flowers, creative direction by Yasser Abubeker and styling by Julio Cesar Delgado, April 2026

[kisseism]

"omg you remembered!" of course i did. I have a file on you

[inbabylontheywept]

People are so much more sad, and desparate, and lonely than you think. I have had three incidents in the last four months were a technician I was working with was being either dangerously unfocused (we work with high voltage), or just flat out angry with their coworkers, and every time when I just pulled them aside to say hey, this isn't you, you're nice, and you're competent, so something must be up - what can I do to help - they have responded by bursting into tears. One guy was struggling to get his wife moved into a care home, one guy just got served divorce papers, and the other hadn't slept a wink the night before because his daughter had the pukes.

I haven't spent my whole life responding to people being rude, or stupid, or dangerous with knee jerk compassion. It's a new habit. The first time I did that as the lead for my lab, it was because the guy genuinely was so good natured that I knew something had to be off. But the other two times were just me going, alright, lets see if it always goes this well, and so far, it has. I'm almost 30, and I just figured out that the #1 reason people are shitty are because they are going through shit.

I don't think you have, like, a moral obligation to respond to people being jerks with knee jerk compassion. But it has made my life so much easier the last four months that I would recommend trying. For your own sake. Please.

(I'll step off my soapbox now. Enjoy your Sunday.)

[knights-unwelcommentary]

“The next suitable person you’re in light conversation with, you stop suddenly in the middle of the conversation and look at the person closely and say, “What’s wrong?” You say it in a concerned way. He’ll say, “What do you mean?” You say, “Something’s wrong. I can tell. What is it?” And he’ll look stunned and say, “How did you know?” He doesn’t realize something’s always wrong, with everybody. Often more than one thing. He doesn’t know everybody’s always going around all the time with something wrong and believing they’re exerting great willpower and control to keep other people, for whom they think nothing’s ever wrong, from seeing it.” ― David Foster Wallace, The Pale King

[imnotreal-seriously]

i love pngs so much. its images without a background. they can go anywhere. its like a sticker but for the internet. i love the concept of pngs. we need more of them

[oracularcult]

[disc80s]

[wehidthebody]

[yes-p-s-y-c-h-o-stuff-deactivat]

[29bells]

forgot to post this. izutsumi

[beatrixbenic]

i want sapphic women to look at me in public and think ‘i hope she likes girls’

[perscinnamon]

On my walk to the post office

[santanabellas]

sinners cast photographed by yudo kurita

[catchymemes]

[msprayforever]

[smsomah]

Ka'apor earrings; Brazil; 1960-1972

[catchymemes]

[3stickers]

noeinoey  - fluffy gangster w/ flowers ; pink