dont u fuckin read this, you know who you are
how tf do you explain to someone that your gender fluid? Like tbh my friends all said "ya cant be trans for a day thats weird" well do you think Costco samples are out for nothing?! you need a taste before you really buy it
and no one told me how fucking hard it is to pick a new name and then have to tell the teachers "I go by ...... and use he/him pronouns SOMETIMES!" and then having to explain that I'm not trans, I'm fluid (or demigirl, maybe or mirror gender).
man I really loved this one name but there's another guy who has that name as well and it'll be weird when the teachers like
"oh hey ........, can you please do this?"
and then fuck we both get up. I love the name I chose but I don't really know how to tell people "oh yeah I'm demigirl/mirror gender/gender fluid. please confirm with me what my name and pronouns are that day or I'll correct you"
id hate to do that. I think the teachers will get pissed. Do I send a long ass email being like "okay so I'm fluid/mirror/demigirl and i have two names. pls be cautious I'm not trading dicks or Virginia's yet, okay?"
any recs on names? or how to tell people that its not a joke? or how tf u tell parents? specifically parents who are like "close your legs" and "thats not very ladylike" well fuck, I might just not be a lady. darn.