“Often the only difference between a problem being painful or being powerful is a sense that we chose it, and that we are responsible for it. If you’re miserable in your current situation, chances are it’s because you feel like some part of it is outside your control—that there’s a problem you have no ability to solve, a problem that was somehow thrust upon you without your choosing. When we feel that we’re choosing our problems, we feel empowered. When we feel that our problems are being forced upon us against our will, we feel victimized and miserable”
Excerpt From: Manson, Mark. “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck.” HarperCollins, 2016-08-08. iBooks. This material may be protected by copyright.








