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What are the signs of emotional abuse?
Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.
Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental âI know bestâ or âhelpingâ attitude.
Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when youâre alone.
Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a personâs value, worth or presence. Communicating that they useless or inferior or devaluing their thoughts and feelings.
Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.
Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,
Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what they want.
Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.
Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions arenât real and shouldnât be trusted.
Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.
Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.
Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.
Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something youâve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.
Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.
Gaslighting - A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt their perception and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if theyâre losing their minds.
Love, Salem
Be aware both of when others do this to you AND when you do this to others. The vast majority of people who use these tactics donât recognize their own actions as abusive.
made a quick comic about being nice to yourself
the following phrases are transphobic microagressions:
- âborn a womanâ/âborn a manâ - âwoman trapped in a manâs bodyâ/âman trapped in a womanâs bodyâ - âpreferredâ pronouns (theyâre not preferred, they are)
if cis people could refrain from these phrases, that would be aces
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Creating Consent, by the illustrious Mim!  Wonde
Monstercat Says: Itâs okay to look for a new doctor!
If your doctor isnt treating you with respect, treating your issues, giving you the help you need, or even if your doctor just isnât being proactive with dealing with your health issues, its OKAY to look for a new one. Thereâs a lot of stigma around âDoctor Shoppingâ, or patients who switch doctors looking for pain meds - but donât let it get to you. If you need pain medication to survive, then itâs okay to find a doctor who will understand that, and give you the help you need and deserve. Because thatâs the key. You deserve to be treated with respect. You deserve to have a doctor who helps and advocates for you. You deserve a doctor who will give you the treatment - including medication - that you need to help you.Â
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plannedparenthood:
Whether itâs the first or fifteenth time a friend has told you about their abortion, we can all use a reminder of how to respond with empathy.