Sugar Baby Dictionary incl. Things They DON’T Explain
A Goal Digger’s Guide
A personal development book written by Baje Fletcher, self proclaimed ‘G-O-A-L’ Digger. The book focuses on how to ‘get what you want without giving “it” up’. A bible for platonic SB’s and potential Rinsers.
Allowance
A regular monetary contribution given by a sugar daddy/mommy to a sugar baby. The term is often included in questions from Newbies such as “How much allowance should I ask for”, “How do I negotiate a higher allowance”, “What is your allowance”? An minimum allowance expectation varies from individual to individual which is why those questions are not often answered.
Arrangement
An agreement between a sugar baby and sugar daddy/mommy (SD/SM) in which the expectations of the relationship are outlined. An arrangement usually includes things such as compensation, frequency of meets and general expectations.
Freestyling
The act of intentionally placing yourself in high-end/ luxurious locations in order to attract a potential benefactor. Freestyling can be done solo or in a small group.
Heaux
A term of endearment used from woman to woman (SB - SB). Synonym: hoe
Ho Tactics
Another Self Help book, this time written by G. L. Lambert, a male who’s book’s theme is “How to mind fuck a man into spoiling, spending and sponsoring”. A PDF version circulated the bowl before it was taken down.
Hoe
A promiscuous woman/man. Term used by men to stifle the sexual expression of women. Often used woman to woman in the bowl to describe like minded women that are not afraid to use their sexual appeal to their advantage. Outside of the bowl, this term is often perceived as offensive.
Hoe-Ship
A friendship between hoes, where they do hoe things together.
Kik
A social media messaging app used by SB’s to communicate with one another in group discussions. Prone to cause your phone to have random seizure at ungodly hours of the night. Lifespan : 3 weeks - 3 months per group,
Lipstick Alley
A popular american based website where irrelevant people discuss sports, reality t.v and the Kardashians. It’s main relation to SB’s is it functioning as a gossip website that tries to gather tea on Instagram girls, trophy wives and notorious sugar babies in order to expose them.
Newbie Sugar Baby
A young/ attractive male/female who believes that their attention is worthy of compensation but is lacking in an actual sugar daddy/mommy.
Pay Per Meet
Compensation a sugar baby receives for a date on a ‘per meet’ basis. Arrangements like this are typically proposed by men who are not ready for the commitment of a monthly arrangement or a just plain old pussies.
Pay for Play
Compensation offered only when sexual acts are performed. A regular arrangement in the bowl that blurs the line between sugaring and escorting. Suitable for SB’s looking for a quick buck. Unsuitable for SB’s who desire financial security.
Platonic Arrangement
An agreement between a SD/SM that is strictly non-sexual. Some say this type of arrangement is a myth, I will let you decide.
POT
Potential Sugar Daddy/Mommy, although almost exclusively used to describe a potential sugar daddy. In the past, a POT was described as a man who has agreed to your allowance terms and has/ will go on a date with you in the near future. Now a POT is used to describe any man who could ‘hypothetically’ offer you an allowance - whether he has actually agreed to one or not. Not to be mistaken for a cylindrical container used for cooking.
Salt Daddy
Technically not even a ‘daddy’ : he is man who has convinced himself that he is somehow worthy of a sugar baby’s attention in return of 0-49% of what the SB wants - all while expecting 100-1 million% investment on the SB’s part. Often found lurking on sugar websites and preying on naive and/or under-age girls. Note: The level of compensation that classifies a man as ‘salt’ varies from sugar baby to sugar baby however, characteristics such as ‘stinginess’ and ‘lack of respect’ are widespread phenomenons with the salty.
Sex Worker
A person who provides a sexual service in exchange of money or other forms of payment. Sex work is the actual service provided. Whether or not sugar babies are ‘sex workers’ is always a controversial topic.
Splenda
A level below a basic sugar daddy, this man will/can only provide a sugar baby with part (typically 50+%) of their ideal expectations. Not to be mistaken for salt, a splenda may satisfy as SB’s hunger untill she finds bigger fish. Also not to be mistaken for a genuine Sugar Daddy, splenda will only give you a portion of what you want for 100% effort.
Spoiled Girlfriend
The female companion to a sugar daddy- boyfriend (SDBF). A woman who is in a relationship with a single man who spoils here beyond what is deemed as ‘normal’. Spoiled Girlfriends are treated to a lifestyle more luxurious than they would otherwise be exposed to.
Sugar Baby (SB)
The typical sugar baby is a young and attractive male/female that recieves compensation for their time and attention. Compensation is typically monetary but can also replaced/added to gifts, mentorship, accomodation, job opportunities, travel and much, much more. Not every sugar baby is created equal, some work hard and reap the fruits of their labour, while some trick themselves into a false sense of security (often stemming from entitlement or extreme beauty), get lazy and never truly gain.
Sugar Daddy
The standard term for a man who provides a younger companion with rewards for their time/attention. All sugar daddies are successful men and the majority are middle aged or older. A large proportion of sugar daddies are men that are married or have no time for traditional dating, or cannot score beautiful women with spoiling them (a.k.a likely unattractive).
Sugar Daddy Boyfriend (SDBF)
A single man that believe’s he is a SB’s ‘boyfriend’ and not actually a ‘SD’. Monetary gifts are typically given on a ‘as needed’ basis rather than a ‘monthly/weekly’ basis. Gifts and shopping trips are not new territory for the girlfriends of these men and it is not unusual for said girls to be residing with their SDBFs.
Sugar-Gram
A term used to describe the community of sugar babies on Instagram. A smaller community than on Tumblr, however sugar gram is often used for Sb’s to meet each other and socialise. Popular sugar babies on the sugargram include myself (follow me @bronzedsugaruk ) and others, who I do not care to mention .
Sugar Mommy
She is to bisexual sugar babies (and heterosexuals too) what white peacocks are to to the World Wildlife Fund - rare, yet somehow desirable. A sugar mommy is a female version of a sugar daddy.
Tumblr
A social media platform (probably where you are reading this post) allowing users to post multimedia and other content (Wiki). The oldest social media platform used by sugar babies to interact with eachother, share stories, warnings, advice and have bitch fests. The typical SB blog has a life-span of 6 months - 1.5 years. (Reblog if you’ve had your blog for longer than this)
Vanilla
A term used to describe people, situations or things that are not related to SW/sugaring. When used in relation to people (and not situation) it refers to males who do not provide an allowance or friends that are not sugar babies.
Whale Daddy
The Supreme Sugar Daddy. With a net worth and gross income in the millions, he provides his sugar baby with the most extravagant of lifestyles. He is rare and hard to come by, the most sought-after ( Reblog if you want a whale daddy!).
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Abbreviations - The Websites
AF - Arrangement Finders
AM - Ashley Maddison
CL- Craigslist
EM- Established Men
IG - Instagram
LTS - Lets Talk Sugar
SA - Seeking Arrangement
SDFM - Sugar Daddy For Me
WYP - What’s Your Price
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Useful Links
Instagram @bronzedsugaruk
Blog @bronzedsuharuk - tumblr
Twitter @bronzedsugaruk
Snapchat (BronzedSugarUK)
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