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It's OK to masturbate

I know many people that are shamed for masturbating in their day to day life, but it isn't something that should be shamed and it should be celebrated!

1. I know many of you are in sexless relationships. It's OK to masturbate.

2. Masturbating reduces stress and releases endorphins.

3. There are many ways to masturbate and none of them are wrong.

4. Masturbating is fun solo or with others that appreciate and celebrate your sexuality.

5. Enjoy your body and all the pleasures that it allows you.

6. Masturbate safely. Don't use things that can harm you. If you use toys, use ones that are made for masturbating and keep them clean.

7. Please don't shame anyone if you catch them masturbating. Let them know it's normal and to do it privately and to do it safely.

Masturbating is not wrong and it's the best way to show yourself love. Only you know EXACTLY how to cum, each and every time.

So, I will always advocate for your sexuality and especially for masturbating.

If I am here, I can absolutely guarantee you, I am probably touching myself and you should too!

Happy Touching!!

PS. I will be adding to this post. It's still early. My coffee and clit are making me happy.

trancemaster2024

Don’t knock masturbation. At least it is sex with someone you love.

theconcealedweapon

Trump first ran in 2016. He made it very clear who he is.

It's possible to be tricked at first. But they had 8 years. No one is tricked for that long. He's a bigot and his supporters support him because he's a bigot.

tinasnowz

theestallion: My NEW documentary with @amazonprime will be out OCT 31st for EVERYONE to watch 💜 Till THIS DAY people try to write my story, re-write history, spread MISINFORMATION, and convince others of what kind of person I am. Everything you wanna know is right here in this DOC💜 #INHERWORDS OCT 31st. Thank you to everyone who has been on this long journey with me love yall forever

lusttorture

Severe caning

balalaijka

for my followers in the states—please vote. “boycotting” an election is not a viable strategy to enact any meaningful change besides clearing the way for some truly horrific people to get into positions of power. we know how bad it got last time. now imagine the sheer damage that could be done now with a precedent.

Anyways as someone who has attended kink events

There are fat people at the orgy

There are elderly people at the orgy

There are disabled people at the orgy

There are trans people at the orgy

There are neurodivergent people at the orgy

People with white collar jobs are at the orgy

People with blue collar jobs are at the orgy

Stay at home moms are at the orgy

Adults who live with their parents are at the orgy

Asexuals are at the orgy

And yeah in media "kinky" shit is always thin young perfect hard bodies in skintight leather and latex but I that's the image in your head you should probably know that a more realistic link event looks less like Eyes Wide Shut and more like passengers of a public city bus attending two to three various costume parties and they're all having a FANTASTIC time that will occasionally get sidetracked by an incredibly passionate conversation regarding the history of Roman catholicism in Eastern Europe or various species of invasive birds

Which is to say that if you've managed to locate a kink community near you but are nervous about joining in because you think you're not young/fit/skinny/rich/"pretty"/normal/charismatic/abled/horny enough then honestly you're probably fine, go to the munch and make some friends

tygerbug

This is the money Marge. Reblog for good fortune

cuckoldresssasha-deactivated202

just got in from the gym, you hungry?

oliviaasks

Cheated at the game of Mancala and got the paddle. 😒

westcoastdomdaddy

“Domness”

I hate how some people feel that you can only be a Dom if you’re quiet, dark and mysterious. C’mon folks, there are as many types of Dominant personalities as there are humans. Stop it with the stereotyping. It makes for good novels and movies but let’s face it, if we were to place everyone in that box, being a Dom would be quite boring and predictable.

Doms or dominant personalities come in all flavors. Just as much as I am a dominant Black male, I’m different in some aspects and yet the same as my White or Asian dominant counterparts. We’re all sums of our past life experiences, successes and failures. Some are the results of their family background or genetic makeup, but Dom nonetheless. Some are gregarious and outspoken while others are demur, shy or introverted but dominant in their relationships still. Some are Daddy Doms, Masters, Gentlemen Sirs etc. There is no “wrong type”.

Once again, there is no wrong way to involve yourself in BDSM as long as you and your partner agree that it works for you both. The same goes for us Dom types, there is no “wrong type of Dom”. There may be some actions of the Dominant that come into question but that’s possibly a training issue or coaching opportunity. However to lump us all into the dark, damn near mute with no personality is reduculous.