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Not Just Coffee

They say a cup of coffee can complete your morning. But truth is, coffee never tastes the same when I’m drinking it without you. Still—coffee never lies. It reminds me that life isn’t meant to be lived through someone else’s “they say.”

✨ Grateful. Because not every bitter thing is a bad thing.

They say coffee makes the morning perfect. But my mornings stay a little empty… when you’re not part of my story. Coffee may be bitter, but at least it’s honest.

Unlike those sweet-sounding “they said” that turned out to be nothing at all.

From coffee, I learned this: Life isn’t something you gulp down just because people tell you how it should taste.

You sip it slowly. You breathe it in. You live it—fully.

And if today feels a bit bitter, maybe that’s life… teaching you a flavor you’ll someday be grateful for.

#grateful #coffee talks

Being a Woman in a Carrie Bradshaw World

If you’ve ever watched Sex and the City, you probably know these women like old friends. Miranda, Charlotte, Samantha… and, of course, Carrie.

You know them, right?!

Sometimes I wish I could be like them, but which one? I don’t want to be judgmental like Miranda, or a pretty little princess like Charlotte. And maybe, just maybe, I want Samantha’s spectacular freedom that wild, unapologetic, career-driven sex goddess energy (which, let’s admit, is HOT!).

But to be Carrie Bradshaw… that’s everyone’s dream, isn’t it? She’s beautiful, confident, stylish, and a well-known writer living in Manhattan with her soulmates as best friends. She struts in her Manolos like life is her runway. Everything about her looks perfect, except one thing: Mr. Big.

Ugh, Mr. Big. The man who keeps walking in and out of her life like he owns the key to it. He’s that person you hate for how much you still love. Every time I watch Carrie fall for him again, I want to scream at the TV. But deep down, I get it. There’s something magnetic about him, not just chemistry, not just desire. It’s the way he challenges her, understands her, teases her freedom but never quite cages it.

Still, I’ve always loved Carrie with Aidan. He’s warm, kind, grounded, a green forest for her city chaos. And maybe that’s what we all secretly crave: someone who feels like home, not a hurricane.

But then again… watching Carrie and Mr. Big, I saw myself. I hated it! That reflection of loving someone who confuses you, who makes you question your worth, yet still makes your heart race.

Sometimes, I wish I were Samantha (free, fearless, untamed). Or maybe Miranda which smart, successful, practical, unshaken. But then, reality hits: We’re all just trying to be “complete women.”

The world tells us we must have it all: a husband, kids, a clean house, a good career, perfect manners, and the ability to love without falling apart. But in truth? We’re all just trying to balance it. Our dreams, our desires, our doubts, and our deadlines.

So maybe, being Carrie Bradshaw isn’t about the shoes or the skyline view. Maybe it’s about learning how to write your own story: one heartbreak, one high heel, and one honest moment at a time.

#carrie bradshaw #sex in the city #opinion #woman #womanstyle #womanstuff

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Dylan Thomas, from a letter featured in The Selected Letters of Dylan Thomas

How's your 30th?

So far, not bad not good!

Welcome to the new age without husband, child, alcohol, house, and dogs/cats.

Seems full of loneliness, right? A lil bit right! for me. But world is always busy. Busy with dramas, flirting, hunger of everything, new era, money, parent, family, drugs, skin care, works, online things, talking trash, music, film, war, pray, politics and so many else!

Even though we're busy looking for ways to calm ourselves or get out of the dizziness of our own thoughts. Some like healing, staycation, playing games, or #KaburAjaDulu (Ups!) haha or anything.

But for some people, 30th is just a number! For me, 30th is a new steps for me or for us to check & execute for long-term future preparation. Late? Better late than never, sweetheart! after 30 years we live in this world, I think we've understood life enough, learned what is needed to survive, and it's also time to start a new pattern that is better for the future.

And every day I become more aware, my skin feels older, my body feels more and more sore, time seems to pass faster, my parents are getting older, the people around me are getting busier with their families, job competition is increasing and the cost of living is getting more expensive as time goes by.

So, have you listened? What else do I need to say? Everyone has felt the same way, I think. It's natural to worry, that's life. But never lose faith. Welcome to 30th, be happy & full of blessings!

#30th #thirty years old

After all, Just me and my appetite in the end of this year! Let's move to next chapter with happiness & foods.

#quotes

First I heard this song on TikTok! It played so many times in my FYP. Ringing repeatedly in my head. And the longer it goes on, the more comfortable to sing the chorus.

I was a bit surprised that the singers were from Wijaya 80, one of whom was Ardhito Pramono. The song sounds like an old song, the lyrics are also light, very relatable to everyday life, and I really like the music. Like in the Utha Likumahuwa era, the 80s.

Cause of this song, I ended up listening to all of their singles. And it's great to listen to while working.

#rekomendasi musik #song of the day #wijaya 80 #favorite songs #Spotify

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Zehra Naqvi, from The Knot of My Tongue: Poems and Prose; “Dear Baba”

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Tsumago-juku.

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Through Sakura.

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Daily original photographs and creations selected by the imiging team!

New experience to enjoy the best coffee from Second Floor Coffee in Jakarta.

☕️ Fresamentado Outside, the delicious coffee features with the creamy texture of strawberry pulp & milk choco flavor. Best!

#secondfloorcoffee #coffeeshopjakarta #coffee #coffee experience #coffeeenthusiast #cafejakarta #coffeeshop

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Lofoten, Norway ✨

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I hope to see this beauty in person soon

2024 Indonesian election

Use your voting rights well. Select a pair of candidates according to the same vision, mission and goals.

February 14th, 2024. The day for Valentine's day and to use our voting right for choose the best presidential candidate for Indonesia. Just in a 5 years! So, everyone take part in this celebration of democracy. But for me, because I live far from home so I don't have a chance to use a voting rights. And it was too late to process the transfer papers.

As we know, there's a 3 candidates with different background also has an experiences in many sectors. 01, 02, or 03. Overall, for me all the candidates have a plus minus but we should choose whose the best between all of them. I don't speak very much about them, because each has its own assessment from peoples.

But I'm very very very tired that how peoples voice their opinions about one candidate and badmouth another candidate. I don't have a problem, as long as the language used is good and doesn't continually badmouth other candidates. It's very tiring, dude!

After Election day, Every supporter of each candidate continues to fight and there are also those who say that there is fraud taking place. Yes, this will continue to happen every 5 years, but this is really torturous. I also feel reluctant to chat with people who always talk about the election. No disrespect, but this really disgusts me. I really hate negative tones or words that make people follow their words. I don't like competing words, so I prefer to avoid people like that.

My hope is that this election will only last for 1 round and Indonesia's condition will recover quickly without any debate. Then, whoever is the chosen candidate can carry out their responsibilities well, fulfill their promises (not just sweet promises), and can lead this country to become a developed country and continue to move towards being better.

*Crossed fingers*

GBU all