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wh3rertheavocados

Ugh I wish

remanence-of-love

I don't want a soft life because I'm lazy - I want a soft life because my nervous system is tired as fuck.

eymurn

In your 20s, you'll feel like you're losing the race. It's important to understand that there is no race.

noah-wyles

In your 30s, you'll feel like you're losing the race. It's important to understand that there is no race.

anxietyproblem

This generation of men has made celibacy one of the easiest decisions many women have ever made… and that alone says everything.

When loyalty feels rare, when bare minimum effort is praised like a flex, and when emotional maturity is treated like a bonus instead of a requirement… what exactly are women supposed to be offering their bodies to? Empty promises. Inconsistent energy. Men who want access without accountability. Boys in grown bodies who think communication is optional and emotional safety is negotiable. No thank you.

Women are choosing peace over chaos. Healing over heartbreak. Self respect over temporary affection. And it’s not bitterness. It’s awareness. It’s understanding that intimacy is sacred. That her body carries energy. That her time is valuable. That her presence is not something you earn with sweet words and disappear with silence.

This generation made celibacy easy because the bar fell and women raised their standards. She’d rather be alone than share herself with a man who can’t lead, can’t commit, and can’t communicate. She’d rather protect her peace than be touched by someone who doesn’t know how to handle her heart with care. She’s no longer impressed by good morning texts that lead nowhere. She’s no longer moved by attention that isn’t backed by intention.

So no… she’s not lonely. She’s not desperate. She’s not missing out. She’s choosing herself. She’s choosing clarity. She’s choosing discernment. Celibacy isn’t punishment. It’s power. It’s self control. It’s refusing to give sacred access to unsafe hands.

And when the right man comes… consistent, emotionally available, respectful, intentional… she won’t hesitate. Until then, she’s perfectly fine protecting her body, her energy, and her peace.

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anxietyproblem

People don’t always realize how difficult it is when your toxic trait is self-isolation and avoidance. It’s not about ignoring others now being selfish — it’s about trying to cope and find a sense of peace while you’re struggling internally.

so im at a confusing stage in my life right now where its so hard to socialize and/or even date, i used to think it was just my anxiety or even traumas but im realizing that its all of it & i cant handle indifferent energies I get drained fast, feel slugish, tired, which could be a sign of Apathy which is why i am VERY careful who i deal/socialize with. internal affects external.

I don’t care how long we’ve been friends. If you make me feel drained, disrespected, or dismissed, I’m distancing myself. It’s not beef. It’s self-respect.

You’re not crazy for needing space. You’re just tired of being stretched so thin that your needs don’t even fit in the room anymore. You’ve been the safe space for everyone else, and now you’re trying to figure out where to put your own exhaustion. That’s not selfish. That’s survival.

Sometimes you should check on people who are genuinely kind to you who are mentally struggling sometimes we might just snap and leave the Earth because no one cares about us.

Sometimes u can be too real for ppl. They don't be use to that..