How to lesbianpill - a guide by user lesbianp1lled
• center lesbians in ur everyday life. Make friends with lesbians, date other lesbians and prioritise lesbians
• realise heterosexual women are not your allies and will throw you under the bus at any opportunity. you can be civil or even make friends with them, however allying with them on LGB or feminist issues will cause you frustration
• consume and seek out lesbian media. this will make ur internalised lesphobia better to see lesbian relationships portrayed as complex interesting characters and realise you are ok the way you are
• be cautious in allying with bi women. yes you can ally with them on the basis of both having same-sex attraction but similar to het women can throw you under the bus.
• don’t take notice of TRAs that say same-sex attraction or wrong or bigoted in any way, they are just coping and seething
• keep in mind radfems are not always your allies too. they created political ‘lesbianism’ after all.
• don’t fall for the comphet bullshit, and comphetbians aka fakebians are not your allies either. believing lesbians seek out relationships with men is lesphobic rhetoric and is a complete misjudgment of the lesbian experience
