anyway

[chenfordsource]

CHENFORD COUNTDOWN counting the days to season six || day 243 chest touches vs thigh touches: choose your fighter

[sisterofficerlucychen]

chenford alphabet: a is for angst era

"i'm trying to look out for you. it's time for you to move on"

[soft-lovely]

cats belong in dark academia

[moonlitswims-deactivated2024010]

by Holly Warburton

[zoobus]

"white privileged Eastern Euros get free rides to the west" "lmfao who cares about white on white violence" "oh so now we care about colonizing🧐 sounds about white" <- need a campaign like yeah racism exists in other countries, but usa racism is distinct and weird in its history and you sound like a clown jamming countries you've never thought about once into your shallow, twitter-learned concepts of oppression. Shut up.

[weltenwellen]

At least 100.000 people demonstrating today in Berlin. (The police were expecting around 20.000 people.) (x/x)

[misswallflower]

Bob Mazzer’s photos of London Underground from '70s and ‘80s.

[kohicake]

Crimean Tatar traditional clothing in Kyiv, Ukraine from an article by Vogue

[maxgovroom]

max truly doesn’t give any more fucks he’s straight up murdering christian with the champagne

[rb19]

F1 World Drivers Champion Max Verstappen © Mario Renzi F1 Abu Dhabi Grand Prix ~ December 12, 2021

[max-verstappens]

Carlos on Max's performance this year: Well, truly outstanding, truly amazing. Since the start of the year, I think Max has showed incredible pace, incredible race ability, with probably the strongest driver, Lewis, 7 time world champion and to be fighting against him at the level that he did. For me, whoever came out on top today would have deserved it because they have both driven to an incredible level. That fact that it is Max, and obviously, after our first year in Formula 1 together, makes me feel proud of him and a bit melancholic about our first year in Formula 1 and to finally see him world champion now. I look up to him in a good way, knowing that it's possible to achieve your dream. And also congrats to Red Bull, that is my old family that I came up to Formula 1 with. I congratulate them and I hope that next year we can at least give them a good run for their money.

[f1-obsessed333]

Credit to Max1Verstappen on IG✌🏼

[rumade]

I’d divorce him too lmao

[sustainableseparatists]

[sisyphereantask]

It’s never JUST about the tomatoes.

[probablyasocialecologist]

Basically!

Throughout the day, partners would make requests for connection, what Gottman calls “bids.” For example, say that the husband is a bird enthusiast and notices a goldfinch fly across the yard. He might say to his wife, “Look at that beautiful bird outside!” He’s not just commenting on the bird here: He’s requesting a response from his wife—a sign of interest or support—hoping they’ll connect, however momentarily, over the bird.

The wife now has a choice. She can respond by either “turning toward” or “turning away” from her husband, as Gottman puts it. Though the bird-bid might seem minor and silly, it can actually reveal a lot about the health of the relationship. The husband thought the bird was important enough to bring it up in conversation and the question is whether his wife recognizes and respects that.

These bidding interactions had profound effects on marital well-being. Couples who had divorced after a six-year follow-up had “turn-toward bids” 33 percent of the time. Only three in 10 of their bids for emotional connection were met with intimacy. The couples who were still together after six years had “turn-toward bids” 87 percent of the time. Nine times out of 10, they were meeting their partner’s emotional needs.

The Secret to Love Is Just Kindness

Those who showed genuine interest in their partner’s joys were more likely to be together.

[allthingseurope]

Neuschwanstein Castle, Germany (by Sandra Frey)

[kucherovv]

nico and keke rosberg after nico took pole at the 2005 istanbul gp2 race

[thewolveswithin]

Kate Moss at Anna Sui Spring 1992

[grimeclown]

Every time I rewatch breaking bad I’m completely STUNNED by how fast Walt resorts to cooking meth to pay his medical bills. He doesn’t try literally anything else before resorting to meth. He finds out he has cancer and then immediately contacts the first meth dealer he can find and is like “let’s be partners.” Like I cannot emphasize enough that cooking meth was Walter White’s FIRST resort, not his last. His old college friends even offer him an executive position at an immensely successful business he helped found so the health insurance would cover most of it and his pay would more than cover the rest, and he turns it down because he doesn’t want “handouts.” The story of breaking bad is about Walters descent into immorality and depravity but he really fucking hurtles off the diving board at the first chance he got and ignored the people throwing him life preserves.

[grimeclown]

Damn for real?