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it’s easier to talk about sadness and my desire to die when nobody knows who i am

why do people always ask me if I’m okay when I’m lying on the floor. yes I’m okay. I’m living my best life. can’t a girl just lie on the floor and stare blankly at the ceiling listening to 1970s Swedish pop sensation ABBA sing Waterloo. I’m having me time

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gay culture is:

foreign gay films being watched illegally off a free movie website at 1 am, with slightly incorrect english subtitles

every gay song is sad oof

souls ascending into heaven when you hear a man say/sing “him” and a girl say/sing “her” in a romantic way

crying at 3 am because the person you have a crush on is s t r a i g h t

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vans and converse

either you have amazing fashion or you look like trash on the side of the road no in between

iced coffee

girl in red

cuffed jeans, big sweaters

being with your s/o in public but too scared to hold hands

low-key stalking someone you know because your gaydar went off

foreign tv shows. foreign cinematography in general, actually, belongs to the gays

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owning several subtle accessories with rainbows on them, gay enough other gays will recognize it but The Straights won’t.

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a gentle reminder that healing takes time. you need to be patient with yourself with the process. forgive yourself when you relapse into old behaviours. encourage yourself to get out of bed, avoid harmful ways to cope and suggest a healthy coping mechanism, as if a friend was encouraging you. remind yourself to drink water, to eat fruits, journal, stop dwelling on things that don’t matter anymore, and see everything good in the world. it takes time and you’re in pain but you’re trying, and you’re alive and growing a little every day, and that’s all that counts.

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small ways to be a better person ✨

wait for someone if u notice they’re falling behind

if you have a moment of admiration or love for someone, say it out loud

give random song recs and send them things that made u think of them

be as kind to yourself as you are to others

be more aware of your surroundings and help people who seem to need help

if someone gets interrupted, ask what they were going to say

try to step inside someone’s shoes instead of judging them or labeling them

don’t say hurtful things especially if it’s not constructive

say “I love you” more often and spend more time with people you love

make sure everyone in the group is included

make someone’s day better by smiling at everyone you see and maybe saying hello

ask if someone is okay if you notice that they’ve been distant

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somebody else, the 1975

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i’m simply not the type of person people fall for.

my words convince no one. my aura doesn’t enchant or seduce. my intellect doesn’t astound. nothing about me captivates others or demands their attention.

i’m a fool all the way through.

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thousands and thousands of eyes just like mine,

aching to find who they are

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for me personally, the worst kind of depression is when you’re not fully aware you’re depressed, y’know. you sort of know but keep repressing it. so you just go about your day feeling empty and then there are the moments where it completely hits you - wow, i’m sad. yeah, that’s the worst bit.