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Yakinlah, selalu ada alasan kenapa kamu dipertemukan dengan seseorang. Tidak melulu harus dengan peristiwa menyenangkan, bahkan bisa dalam keadaan menyedihkan, menyebalkan, memuakkan sekalipun.
Semuanya, dalam suasana, waktu, ruang, atau apapun itu akan selalu ada hikmah yang dapat kamu ambil. Maka, jangan pernah menyesali terjadinya pertemuan. Sebab kalaulah memang tidak ada hikmah untukmu, maka kamu tidak akan dipertemukan dengannya.
You are a good human being, even if you think you aren't. You help and inspire others, you constantly improve yourself and learn from your mistakes, even if you don't realize it.
You’re responsible for your own development. You don’t have to wait until others forgive or validate you. You don’t have to hold yourself to an impossible standard to ‘prove’ that you’re a better person. All you have to do is decide that you are and back that up with actions, because what truly makes you a good person is the fact that you care about being one. Not others telling you that you are.
BEFORE SUNRISE dir. Richard Linklater
The book: I Have to Tell You Something
falling back into patterns and behaviours you thought you'd worked to overcome doesn't mean you've lost all your progress.
changing things we've been doing our whole lives takes time and it's perfectly fine if that's hard sometimes.
infact, learning to overcome setbacks is a part of recovery.
One day when you're older, you will be able to feel proud that you made it through so many times even when you felt lost and out of options. Don't give up just yet. You cannot change the past, but you can accept and handle the present in a way that you can build yourself a happy future. There are good things waiting for you, good people too. Don't miss out on a good future because you are too attached to the past and too anxious over the present. Just because it has been hard, it doesn't mean it will be this hard forever.
A REMINDER:
it is okay. it is okay to feel like shit. its okay to feel unmotivated and be stuck in bed all day, you’re a human and those days happen. its okay not want to try. do not ever belittle yourself for having these normal reactions. we’ve all been through experiences that have hurt us that we do not tell anyone. you are your own person so go at your own pace, you are not behind in life.
you are so much more than the things you tell yourself, you are STRONG. so strong for fighting your secret battles behind closed doors. you are BEAUTIFUL. your own special type of beautiful even when you don’t feel like it. you are.
so…that person you imagine yourself? thats YOU. yes you are that divine, beautiful, amazing, smart, and loving person that you imagine. that desired person you want to be is not something far from you. it is truly and simply within you and you have all time to become that person. you can always become that person by changing your thoughts, start doing the things you promised yourself you would and start embodying the persona you want to have.
Saat kamu diremehkan oleh orang lain, tak perlu bersedih dan menangis, biarkan ia dengan segala komentarnya dan kamu sibuk dengan semua usahamu untuk selalu dekat dengan-Nya.
Kelak, Allah yang akan menolongmu, Allah yang akan menjagamu, Allah yang akan melindungimu dari kejamnya dunia, dari buruknya omongan orang lain.
Asalkan kau tetap pada niat lurusmu, melakukan segala sesuatu hanya karena Allah.
“There is no perfection. Just beautiful versions of brokenness.”
— Unknown
You are not "wasting your potential" because you took a break, or because you're exhausted, or sick or you are struggling to find purpose. Please, take some time off, take care of yourself, listen to the needs of your body and your mind. Do the things you want to do to make you happy and fulfilled, not what others think you should, not what's more successful in their minds. You aren't wasting your life, nor wasting your potential. You are still deciding how to live it, what is the purpose of it, and you will find motivation to fight for what you want when you figure yourself out, but please take your time and don't listen to the pressure of people around you to comfort to their expectations of success.
sometimes when you start to heal or deal with certain traumas you experienced in the past, there might be a lot of repressed anger or heavy emotions directed towards people who’ve hurt you or didn’t help you in general. that’s understandable!!!! but then, eventually there comes a point when the focus starts shifting towards yourself, what you need and who you are, who you want to be from now on and what you really deserve. it becomes less & less about these people and they won’t have as much power as they usually did, because your world is more important than what they’ve done.
true self care is deleting a hateful ask as soon as it’s received and completely moving on and forgetting about it
(no matter how you feel)
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if it feels like...
...life is really tough for you right now, then please know that it's a phase of life that's meant to heal you.
it's difficult right now. each day feels too long. each task feels too tough. emotions seem to be on a high and patience at an extreme low.
it's okay. it's a process. it doesn't feel too good but it'll help rebuild you. you're okay. you'll get through this. keep holding on ✨
