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[wild666child]

Denies that it is his writing. Has left the important parts intentionally blank to cover his ass. Never owned a motorbike for the whole time ive known him. Pretty fresh piece of paper as well if you ask me... So, the back story to this is that we had a fight one day because he left me at Coles and he drove back home without me. Im mad because 1) he didnt say he was leaving and for 2) why leave without me?

the fight started with me confronting him, walking in the door as he was there ironing clothes as if he had done not a damn thing wrong. I immediately expect a reason to why he left me there and inconveniently put me out of pocket by having to get an uber back and better yet, come back with the sausage roll we intended to buy for his father. He got pretty mean with words, but long story short it made me want to leave his ass again because the words from his mouth now are getting nasty, this is that point where he cant stop and theres no negotiation when he is in this mood. No apology is warranted. I packed, I was dropped to my car, and the relationship was said and done. I came back for my motorbike the next morning, to my suprise it was gone. I asked his parents incase they moved it inside safely while I wasnt there, his dad says that it should be where I've always kept it. Now its both of us shocked that its not there. How is it that I break up with JB the day before my bike goes missing? Well, as per usual, he ignored me for 2 days, took his sim card out, put another one in that for some reason, for every number I had of his, believe it or not, I had texted this number whilst in our 2-day-breakup period and he was getting my messages... announced my bike was missing - no reply. I call a mutual friend, she relays the message, now hes moving mountains because he says "its making him look like he did it", so his game plan is to find it, get it back to me, and hes off the hook? Well that he did, but off the hook? Well, only until I found the above deed of sale of a "motorbike". Anyways back to how I got my bike back.,,

I was informed about him going to a mutual friends house and so I knew if I wanted to confront him, I'd have to get over there at the same time hes there and get this off my chest. What do I do? I run over there, my uber pulls up behind his friends car that clearly drove him there and JB is already inside. I head inside, there he is coming down the stairs on his way out. He is shocked! There were no words. Oh but have I got words! Immediately, I say so do you know where my bike is? What, I break up with you and then the same night or next day my bike goes missing..? He then tells me the grand story how he saw my bike and hes already punched some guy who wouldnt tell him x-y-z etc.. hes going to go and get it now, and will bring it back to me.. wow. My hero. So, I went to work, I waited, he calls, heres the good news, my bike is with him and he wants to drop it off. Now, im feeling like I OWE him.. Now im feeling thankful that he went out of his way, tracked down my bike, punched some guy for me for the x-y-z info and my bike is on its way to me! WHO NEEDS THE POLICE? Police couldnt do this quicker than JB, I hit the jackpot! Bike arrived at work, I say thanks to the mate who drove him to where I confronted him, I say thanks to JB, I then buy some fairy dust coz I'd call it a celebration and then it was just another day in paradise after that. Fuck, if only I knew what I knew now. I dont know the full details still, but if I found this, im going to assume that the bike was never stolen, oh wait no it was stolen, but I THINK it was stolen by JB. This piece of paper in JB'S handwriting is pretty assuring that he stole my bike, had intention to sell what isnt his, and to do this all under my own nose. Now that we are here, writing this blog, have I confronted about the deed of sale I found? Yes. His response, thats not his writing. I can't keep up guys. Someone slap the shit out of me.

[wild666child]

Lying is a type of abuse. Lying is one of the most common tactics that JB uses to gain power and control over me. Lying confuses my reality while helping JB to shirk from his responsibility in the situation, often shifting the blame to me.  JB uses lying as a form of covert emotional abuse.

A central element to covert abuse is stressful confusion: this is the emotion that JB wants me to to feel when he lies to me. The covertly abusive tactic of lying increases my anxiety levels and causes my thinking to become clouded. A confused person is less likely to respond quickly, go with their gut and confront the liar. He lies about: - who he is seeing, what he is doing, where he is going, how long he will be/take, his exact location, his work, his family, his drug use, and worst of all his allegations in his statements to the police.

[wild666child]

My boyfriend has recorded us arguing for months without my knowledge. Can my boyfriend legally record our face-to-face arguments on his phone? Or simply, even when we are not arguing?

The short answer: Yes.

In Queensland, it's not illegal to simply record a conversation you're involved in (either over the phone or face-to-face) without the consent of the other people involved in the conversation, but there are restrictions on what you can do with the recording.

For private communications, the Invasion of Privacy Act 1971 (Qld) applies. In short - and contrary to the position in some other jurisdictions in Australia - it is lawful in Queensland for a participant in a private conversation to record that conversation, even if the other person(s) involved do not know they are being recorded. Provided that the person doing the recording is a participant in the conversation, then no offence is committed.

So, while you can record a conversation you are a part of, you cannot leave a recording device positioned so as to record a conversation that does not involve you. To be clear, it is usually illegal to use a device to record, or even listen to, a private conversation that does not involve you; “electronic eavesdropping” is not allowed!