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died and came back wrong and no one could tell the difference

What helped me write trauma better is remembering that the nervous system learns predictions. If danger used to come after quiet, calm can feel threatening. If kindness used to come with a price, kindness can feel suspicious. So healing is not just “they know they’re safe now.” Healing is the slow, annoying, deeply unfair process of teaching the body that the old prediction is not always the present truth.

wanderingcoasties

“The LEGO Movie was my favorite movie of 2014, but it strikes me that the main character was male, because I feel like in our current culture, he HAD to be. The whole point of Emmett is that he’s the most boring average person in the world. It’s impossible to imagine a female character playing that role, because according to our pop culture, if she’s female she’s already SOMEthing, because she’s not male. The baseline is male. The average person is male. You can see this all over but it’s weirdly prevalent in children’s entertainment. Why are almost all of the muppets dudes, except for Miss Piggy, who’s a parody of femininity? Why do all of the Despicable Me minions, genderless blobs, have boy names? I love the story (which I read on Wikipedia) that when the director of The Brave Little Toaster cast a woman to play the toaster, one of the guys on the crew was so mad he stormed out of the room. Because he thought the toaster was a man. A TOASTER. The character is a toaster. I try to think about that when writing new characters— is there anything inherently gendered about what this character is doing? Or is it a toaster?”

— Bojack Horseman creator Raphael Bob-Waksberg commenting on how weird gendered defaults in entertainment are, and why we should think twice about them. Excerpted from this longer original post. (via 360degreesasthecrowflies)

goobagoobgub

REALLY old bunnydoll sketches

crack ships never hurt me like this

#and i failed them #i abandoned them for better pastures #this is my karma

puppybee tag dead af how do i lure people in

alicealmost

I really want to explore the age gap drama to produce bunnydoll content. I feel like us bunnydollers let others turn it more inti a obstacle and fail to explore the potential of it..

Like, Ragatha is 30, yet I feel like her (being the digital avatar) had lost a lot of this transition between early adulthood to late adulthood (correct me if i am wrong) so she is not mentally far from the other characters in their 20's (everyone except Kinger, lol)

In the context of bunnydoll, i really want to make scenarios of her already engaging in a serious relationship with Jax and wondering "am i not too old for him? Shouldn't he be with someone younger? Will he look back and thing he wasted his time with a woman so much older?"

While Jax gets offended and even feels undermined.. he thinks, he is a freaking 22 adult, legally allowed to drink alcohol, drive a car, be arrested.. yet he cannot date another adult? And I love to headcanin that he always does this little speech to convice Ragatha to just shut up and let him kiss her XD

I guess that later, married and with children, her self doubt would lessen but never goes away completely, so she occasionally brings it up shyly, like "Eh.. I am really getting old.." and he is like "you sure are, mama, and so am i" ehike their children nest between them in their bed ^^

ragathasdolly

I love this

anyway... in my not canon bunnydoll world... ragatha shares 2012 facebook memes... jax is on reddit... makes fun of her for being a millenial and falling for AI... i insist on this actually...

#headcanon ive repeated six times everyone knows already #i dunno...#how to lure in rags: ai cat videos #how to lure in jax: ai ragatha videos...#bunnydoll

oncce-againn

My alone time is for everyone’s safety

nickythehickey

there are a few people actually whose blogs just look like this to me and i hope they know i still love them

#lit

obtywobbly

cozy puppycat day and night ⛅🌙

explodingsillycat

Deckard's Letter

nubedoormilona

Aquí unos dibujos de mis personajes favoritos de esta hermosa serie, me hubiera encantado ver más desarrollo de la amistad de Bee y Cass, ya que al ser distintas caras de la misma moneda siento que habrían aprendido mucho sobre la otra en como vivir la vida adulta.