CuddlyChimera Weird Witch

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FembyLesbianChimeraWitchPrincessX3 She/They/It lynx/fox/doe/goat/bnuy WE KNOW THE DEVIL IS MY FAVOURITE VISUAL NOVEL REALLY WANTS TO PLAY TTRPGS anyway Aren't stories Just the Best, Big love for monster(girls)and a big fan of Metroid, Nier, Helltaker and most other things X3 :3 what how old am I? I stopped counting after 24 Warning:sometimes 18+stuffs

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So hey um I might be transfem or at the Very least I want to be girl it's been Only a few months since I started wondering about gender identity but when I try to look back for past signs I can't find any and when I try sayimg im a girl/Woman/lady out loud I feel all Super warm over my body and i cant tell if thats anixiety or not also for now I'm going by they/them and I'm just wondering is it fine or enough to just want to be a girl? does it just take time to refer to yourself with your prefered pronouns without feeling weird or anxious about it? I just feel so confused and I am worried my gender exploration will go no were

#trans #transfem #transgender #lgbtqia #transgirl #trans fem #non-binary fem #femby #enby #transbian #lesbian #mewwwwwwwwwww

tgirl-tamag0tchi

Suicide is sometimes the answer… but we should work to build a world where it isn’t. We all deserve better.

I won’t ever stop someone… if it’s their decision. Sometimes it’s the only way out of pain… it’s not my life.

But I will always try to live… and try to offer other options to those around me. To support them. Because we deserve a world where our bodies, pasts, minds, and presents aren’t full of enough pain and suffering to make us want life to end.

cholerascum

i have a new kofi goal

ive been very sick, pretty bad fever etc. but because of this i havent even been able to go out to get groceries, so needless to say i am in need of: food to live

any kofi supporters get monthly shoutouts, and kofi subscribers get to see my art early.

ive been stuck having to order food, but when shit like doordash and grubhub cost like 30 bucks for one person, it starts getting pretty pricey.

thank you.

cholerascum

4% already, thank you!

15%!

24%!!!!!!!

35%!

37%

Or to put it more succinctly: Men have been forcing women to do all the work since the beginning of the gender binary and if you as a trans woman say that you don't really like being forced to do all the work you get accused of being male socialised, because men don't like doing work. (You certainly don't get the benefit of the doubt that you were talking about it being unfair to all women that literally anyone else would get.) And this is seen by some as a feminist position, rather than telling women to stop complaining about having to do all the work.

And it's not just open transmisogynists who are like this. Everyone does this. Everyone scrutinises trans women and thinks the absolute worst of anything we do. A cis woman or someone AFAB complaining is normal, EVEN if they word it weirdly. A trans woman could word something perfectly and have academic citations for it and still be accused of being a newcomer to oppression by someone labelling themselves an ally to us. You are not immune to seeing the worst in us. It's not just terfs. It's everyone. It's friends and family and the people we love and date. It's other trans women even. We are scrutinised as "male" in a way men never are. Because it's not actually about men. It's about having a way to force women to do all the fucking work! Especially for people who usually don't get that kinda power over women.

"Women you can force to do the dishes. Women you can force to do all the dishes." or something like that.

soup-mother

It's really really deeply evil how much labour people can force out of trans women by convincing us we need to atone for some "male socialisation" or something.

I constantly find myself feeling like I need to do heaps and heaps of housework (even when staying with other people) partly out of the feeling that I'm making up for something/proving I'm a woman, and then realising "hey wait a minute, I'm a woman doing the fucking dishes for a man" and getting really really fucking mad. (but obviously they're never going to do it anyway).

soup-mother

"If you won't do endless domestic labour for us then you're basically showing that you're a man" <- Says someone who would never call out a man for not doing chores (and is very obviously benefiting from this arrangement).

It's such an endless thing! Hold trans women to impossible standards of femininity while also scrutinising them like men in ways you'd never actually scrutinise men! Get infinite free tranny labour with this one weird trick!