Ryker

27, He/Him, Reality shifter

[witchofthewaist]

Ya know what? I'm tired of hiding.

Hey everyone!

I'm Ryker, and I'm a reality shifter. I'm 27, gender fluid (he/him), disabled, and a parent of 2.

I've been shifting for 4 years with some success, but I finally feel I'm nearing a place where I am able to shift fully.

I've been terrified to post anywhere about this, although I did make a few tiktoks (I am no longer active). I did this for fear of judgement. But I'm tired of that. Whatever IRL friends see this, whether they are aware or not of the situation, hello!

I have a custom DR that I made with one of my best friends, and that's my primary focus. I am a permashifter, so y'all can feel safe and seen here ❤️

Feel free to ask whatever questions you might want to, I would be happy to share ☺️

[shaysplanet]

for my shifters who are wanting out of here ASAP, i want you guys to focus your energy and attention on how relieving it’ll feel to be in your dr instead of focusing so heavily on wanting to escape.

it’s a slight difference but you may be surprised by the result.

one energy is aligned with desire, connection and harmony while the other is aligned with fear, hopelessness and pressure. but you have no reason to be afraid because you are limitless. this world may seem huge and overwhelming when you think of yourself as just one little thing but you are everything. you are everywhere. your energy is imbued in everything you touch and you can harvest it any time. you can call back your power at any time. you don’t have to feel like you’re begging to be let out. you are already free.

[ivyyyy-shiftsss]

I genuinely tweak out when I hear people talking about time ratios, or about clones

...

LIKE NO

TIME IS A FUCKING ILLUSION

IF YOU REALLY WANTED TO, YOU COULD SHIFT TO YOUR DR, AND JUST SHIFT BACK TO THE EXACT MOMENT YOU LEFT

AND CLONES DONT EXIST!! YOURE CONSTANTLY CONSIOUS IN EVERY REALITY!! ITS JUST YOUR AWARENESS THAT CHANGES. LIKE RIGHT NOW YOU IN YOUR DR IS DOING SOMETHING. IT DOESNT MEAN THEYRE A CLONE, SO WHY WOULD YOU HAVE A CLONE HERE!? 😡

[keaganz]

Dacre is the father figure Billy needed. Hopper is the fictional father figure Billy needed

Very unpopular opinion but Bob is the kind of father figure Billy needed.....

[witchofthewaist]

Louder for the people in the back! Billy absolutely needed a way too down to earth, nerdy, kind, over communicator of a dad like Bob. One who doesnt give up on connecting with him when he gets grumpy and storms off. One who will show up over and over and over again till Billy understands he's not leaving.

[ivyyyy-shiftsss]

so yesterday I tried to take some advice I got off of tiktok (against my better judgements ik 💔)

But it lowkey helped

Although I hate that it did, cause she was a manifestor selling over 80 dollar materials for manifesting 😒

It was about regulating yourself and becoming aware of the 5d. It involved regulating your nervous system so that your subconscious doesn't panic and keep you in this dr to 'keep you safe'

So i tried this thing called eft tapping while listening to subliminals

If you dont know what it is, basically its just when you tap on certain pressure points to relieve anxiety or stress

OMFG THAT SHIT WORKED

I haven't tried actual shifting yet, but since I did that while affirming my manifestations come to fruition, ive been manifesting constantly today

We were in the city, and we needed to get home quickly. Despite the traffic, when I wanted it to, it suddenly cleared up, and we were back five minutes early.

When at the grocery store I really wanted potatoes with dill, but I was too scared to ask my mom because I didnt know if she wanted to cook or not. I thought about it a lot, and suddenly she asked me if I wanted dill potatoes for supper.

I accidently sent my mom an email from parental controls at like 1am since I was trying to sign into a game, and I really didnt want her seeing it, knowing I was up that late. So either she never saw it, the email never sent, or there was no email 🤷‍♀️

Like im fucking unstoppable rn

[safk-art]

Billy in a maid's outfit.

[P4tre0n] [Linktr.ee]

[ivyyyy-shiftsss]

Yesterday I literally almost shifted

Like and it was so funny to

Cause I was in a Starbucks 😭

I was waiting for my cherry Chai latte, when suddenly I was just like, "wait, this is a desired reality. If I can't get stuck in my dr, I also can't be stuck here" and all of a sudden I was somewhere else for a split second. I shifted back out of panic, since I wasnt even trying to shift. It was really just a random intrusive though. But like a helpful one

it was the easiest I've ever been able to let go of this reality

[shaysplanet]

excerpt from a reading i did. this is for those of you who find themselves constantly battling being “too aware” during shifting and why that re-grounds your awareness here every time…

“Physical shifting occurs when awareness is allowed to fully inhabit the experience without being pulled back into controlling or observing it. The adjustment is allowing your awareness to have experiences without immediately measuring, labeling, or validating them. You do not need to convince yourself that shifting is real. You do not need to eliminate skepticism that it’s possible for you. You need to stop placing your conscious mind in charge of whether the experience is allowed to complete. Your awareness already knows how to move. The only thing that has been interrupting the final stage is the reflex to observe yourself in the process instead of remaining inside the process.

My suggestion is to give your conscious mind a different job. It would likely be incredibly difficult for you to completely rewire how you’ve thought for years. So instead of putting you up to an impossible task, segue somewhere new. Let your mind attach to something neutral and continuous. For example, instead of thinking about shifting directly, let your attention rest on a sensory or internal experience and allow it to unfold without assigning meaning to it. This could be the sensation of your body relaxing, or the mental environment you are inhabiting. The key is that you are not watching for results. When you observe your body relaxing, don’t begin thinking, “once my body fully relaxes I will shift”. Eliminate your need to think about the outcomes of said acts and just live within them. Without interruption. As you observe these things, allow your mind to wander to whatever you want—just as long as it’s not back to an outcome.

Because you’re so used to seeing shifting as a pass-or-fail thing, you have to almost reprogram that habit when the impulse comes up. Right now, your conscious mind is waiting for a definitive moment of confirmation, something undeniable, something dramatic enough to satisfy its standards of proof. That expectation keeps it on standby, watching for the moment it can either approve or reject the experience. This creates tension. And tension creates resistance to the shift. Shifting only stabilizes under continuity. Which means, the physical transition happens when your awareness stops checking whether it has arrived and simply continues existing into the next awareness. Seamlessly, naturally, and without markers.

You must also stop pulling yourself back to confirm where you are. Every time you mentally “test” whether you are still here, you re-anchor your awareness. The conscious mind reinforces the current reality by verifying it. When you stop verifying, you stop reinforcing and you finally shift. To do this, you need to catch the exact moment you feel the urge to check, and choose not to act on it. That urge will feel like a mental reflex. It may sound like, “Did anything change?” or “When will the shift happen?” Most people follow this impulse automatically. You need to interrupt it.

When the urge appears, do not fight it and do not panic. Simply disengage. Let the question exist without answering it. Do not move your physical body to confirm anything. Do not open your eyes to see where you are. Do not mentally scan your surroundings to re-establish your current position. Instead, immediately redirect your attention back into the internal experience you were just having. Think of it like staying inside a dream while you are falling asleep. If you constantly “check” whether you are asleep, you wake yourself back up. But if you let the experience continue without questioning it, sleep takes over naturally. The same principle applies to shifting. Verification pulls you back. Continuity carries you forward.”

if this resonated in any way with you, share it! my readings are also available to be booked in my pinned post or in the “astro services with shay” hashtag <3

[bookobbsesedgirly]

"What that mouth do?" Go nonverbal.

[shifteruncensored]

you’re allowed to skip the struggle arc.

some of you spend so much of your time thinking you owe the universe some sort of hardship before you get what you want. that you must suffer so that shifting feels “earned.” i hate to be the one to break it to you but you’ve seen too many movies. you’ve romanticized your own hardship as some sort of aesthetic prerequisite.

you don’t need to suffer. you don’t need to heal every single wound. you don’t need to “perfect” your mind or overcome 10,000 “blockages” over a blood moon. you can skip straight to the part where it's already yours. bcs well….it is!

the ache of longing isn’t some sort of spiritual currency. trauma isn’t some sort of golden ticket.

the multiverse doesn’t need your character development or your tears as validation. it doesn’t need a slow burn. every version of you already exists!!! yes. really. the one who’s thriving. the one who’s living your dream. the one who’s shifted.

you do not need to “earn” shifting through suffering or surviving. it's already yours. no montage or struggle arc or dramatic rain soaked breakdown required (amazing i know!!).

your dr isn’t a prize. genuinely. it’s an place you tune into. like changing the radio to a different station. no fade out. just the next song already playing.

you’re not too late or losing time. you’re don’t need to pay dues in blood to be where you want. the multiverse is endless and impartial. it gives you the remote and says “pick the channel. no fine print.”

choose to become aware of the scene already playing.

[lumivoid]

Has it been years and you're just not shifting?

Check out this tiktok by carlyshifts to find out why that may be. She's explaining what the reticular activating system is and why it may contribute to constantly waking up in your CR.

#shifttok #realityshifting #shifting #shifter #fyp

Here's the subliminal she was talking about creating to help with regulating the RAS.

https://youtu.be/E07Ycf9iDv4?si=HcCz9wii7-NcvZeu

I love her shifting subliminals! Thank you Carly 🤍

~LumiVoid*

[witchofthewaist]

Been thinking about this phenomenon for 2 years now, glad to know theres an actual term for it!

[aggressiveviking]

Commission for the amazing @suotar of Billy Hargrove 💕thank you so much

[cassiiie222]

Why changing your mindset won't make you shift.

Yeah, you read that right.

You have probably heard somebody say that after reading someone's post or after thinking about it, shifting just "clicked" to them.

And you're there, wondering why shifting is not "clicking" to you, like it's the key to a mystery box. Then you start going down the rabbit hole, looking at every TikTok or Tumblr post to see if it changes something for you.

And then you realise, it finally "clicks": none of these videos or posts are going to make you shift; they aren't going to give you a list of steps to follow. YOU are the one who makes their own list.

You can hear hundreds and even thousands of people tell you what to do, how to do it, and how to think, and still you won't shift. This isn't because you're dumb or just unlucky; this is because changing your whole mindset doesn't ensure that you'll shift.

Some people claim that after changing their mindset, shifting became super easy to them, and when you hear how they did it, it's full of things like: I didn't sleep for a week, I didn't use the word "no" for a year, I would hit my head against a wall every time I thought shifting was fake.

Please don't fall into this. I'm not saying that doing those things won't help you, but sometimes they make you act like a robot and not like a human. I've heard many people claim that you can't say: "I'm going to shift" or "I'm going to try to shift", because then you won't shift (That's so dumb).

Understand that to shift, you don't need to feel super happy and excited. This is because shifting is a natural process that happens to everyone, and it does not depend on your emotions (you can be bawling your eyes out and still shift).

YOU are the one who decides: when, how, and where to shift. If looking at these posts helps you (just as some of them also help me) that's absolutely fine.

I know I have a post saying how I changed my view about shifting and talked about my mindset, but my main change was understanding two things: 1. I'm capable of shifting, sooner or later, it ends up happening 2. Shifting is a natural process that everyone does.

[shifting-confessions-blog]

I'm not being anonymous for this cause I don't feel like it.

in response to this post -> ۶ৎ ಎ

there are actually hundreds of intellectual posts and accounts. you want actual thought provoking accounts? here's a few : @mywitchyblog , @n1k0laa5 , @cassiiie222 , @angelicrevenge , @dustylullabies , @zazaiafe2 , @scarsverse , @cloverapple , @lumivoid , @borntoshineagain , @shifteruncensored , and many many more. this post here is actually very intriguing.

It's so annoying when people claim the whole community .... THE WHOLE COMMUNITY of something isn't intellectual as if that isn't an anti-intellectual claim in itself. that's the generalization of a group. saying we, "manifested away" all of our intelligence? that's also anti-intellectualism. an ad homian. to frame people as inferior to you based on some internal standard or rule you set for people to live up to. that itself is anti-intellectualism. actual logical and intelligent discussions or criticisms, do not start with a bias or an insult. they hold space for the other side and use the aspect of nuance to maintain not only open mindedness, but to stay fair in their judgement. you say you want intellectual posts ... there are hundreds here. you obviously haven't looked for them. i'm 100% sure, anon said this without pure intentions. the community , filled with hundreds of people , are not responsible for you mental stimulation however. it's anti-intellectualism to generalize a group, call a group names as a form of superiority, and decide what a community is for itself based on your standards.

but seriously .... do better ⪩⪨ ⋆₊

☆.

[mywitchyblog]

There’s also the issue of people’s lack of literacy and basic comprehension skills. Y’all complain about the exact same things you actively kill off in the shifting community.

“Why is no one posting shifting storytimes anymore?” → Maybe because you call them frauds and liars the second they do.

“Why is everyone still talking about the LoA instead of new ideas?” → Because the moment someone tries to bring something fresh, you start screaming about them “forcing their beliefs.” (Yeah, been there, thanks.)

“Why is no one writing long, thoughtful posts anymore?” → Because you twist it into them “acting superior,” then pull out some lazy ad hominems like you’re clever. Also you don't even bother to read them all the way and make the effort to try and understand what the person meant...

“Why is no one offering new perspectives on shifting?” → Because apparently your tolerance ends the second someone doesn’t kiss your exact viewpoint. Cue the insults, the ragebait, the fake outrage… predictable.

So let’s be clear: you are the reason the very content you’re crying about not existing anymore is gone. Own it.

[arkhamharley]

[shoujosoulsite-deactivated20260]

One thing I advise young shifters is to never let shifting consume you fully whole and forget your life here. I'm saying this as a permashifter. That destroyed my high school years in a way that i dont honestly want to even talk about, and I'm honestly pretty stuck now due to it. Not going to be those "oh enjoy your life here" or whatever bs but don't ignore it, even if you are a permashifter/ respawner. Ignore your reality and start slacking off the moment you shift and secure in your dr, not before that. Again I'm not saying "oh enjoy your life here-- what about you family and fr-"no, and I'm not saying it's bad to let shifting be a big part of your life, but God please don't get obsessed, especially if you are going to be lazy in the end.

[mywitchyblog]

yeah preach because this is so important !

Shifting affected my life in a similar manner too ! It caused me to distance myself from the practice for a couple years before going back in !

Also what you are describing is that there has to be a need of spiritual hygiene !

Practicing Spiritual Hygiene helped me maintain a consistent and healthy relationship with Shifting !

And also practicing Witchcraft too ! Discovering shifting a couple months after witchcraft probably saved my ass.

[theshiftingwitch]

Change is coming

The last couple of weeks here on Tumblr and back on Twitter have been really eye-opening for me.

I realized that I no longer resonate with the manifestation community because of their approach to the law of assumption. Being dismissive of other people's struggles, blaming everything on their victim mindset and ignoring their very real trauma, diluting everything about a spiritual practice to a simple "just assume" catchphrase with no clear instructions, developing a God complex the second they start manifesting and assuming everyone else is simply a loser doing something wrong, instructing everyone to "just ignore the 3D"... The confusion, the lack of empathy, the mean girl attitude is not something I want to be associated with. You have people asking if going to therapy is going to offset their manifestation because the law of assumption says that they can just heal themselves by assuming that they're perfectly fine, and they feel guilty for needing a therapist's help because that makes them less of a manifester, people asking if their traumatic experiences, their SA, their horrible circumstances are of their own doing because that's what "the law says", people going into major depressive episodes because the 3D is not conforming and they feel that they are doing something wrong... All of it speaks to a community that lacks compassion, and that is not something I want to be a part of.

So — and I know that this might upset a lot of people— I am no longer associating myself or my blog with that community. I believe in Shadow work, I believe in therapy, I believe in healing from your past trauma while manifesting your life and your dreams, I believe that one does not offset the other and that a perfect self-concept does not erase years of trauma from your psyche. I believe in a person's need for healing, I believe in their need for compassion and understanding while they navigate this brand new world, I believe that they are creating something new while trying to heal from the old, and I do not subscribe to the idea that your past does not affect you because your subconscious mind is made up of all of the assumptions of your past self and that does not go away in one day because you decided to affirm 500 times.

If you followed me for manifestation advice, rest assured I will not be disappointing you. I will continue to help in the best way I can with your manifestation journey, I will continue to post about shifting and the multiverse and consciousness and awareness, I will continue being a witch and astrologist, a shadow worker and a master manifestor. I will just no longer be addressing it as the law of assumption because the negative connotation that comes with "just assume" is not something I resonate with.

If that no longer works for you, and you choose to unfollow my blog, know that I understand wholeheartedly. Everyone is on their own path and their own journey and I will not hold it against you for deciding to do what's best for you. As I am now doing what's best for me, and pulling away from a community that used to be such a safe space for me but turned into a swamp of toxic positivity. I am spiritual first and foremost and I will not be ignoring that side of me to be in with the popular crowd.

I hope you understand, and if you choose to stay with me, know that I will continue to guide you the best way I can. And if you need extensive help, you know where to find my list of services.

Happy manifesting ❤️