Good day! ☀️ This is intended to be a personal yume/selfshipping blog. I mainly reblog things.
—— updated: 260209 / 9 February 2026
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Update Nov 2025: The frequent messages keep taking a mental toll on me, so I've decided to limit reblogging and not repeatedly reblog the same post. I cannot tell which are scams either unless proven by the list/others, so for more safety, and as others have suggested, donate to organisations that have proven results. 🕊️
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I'm Em, it is one of my nicknames. You can also use the name Lyr (one of my characters' names). I'm trans masc and gay.
Em is my persona/parame/self-insert, he's not just an OC, he's me in an idealistic way. Refer to another post for more specifics if you'd like.
I reblog many kinds of things, though of course for this blog there will be more focus on yume/selfshipping content, and likely some OC and worldbuilding content as they're partially related.
I don't have a carrd, strawpage or any other platforms generally used for convenient referrals for now. Don't really know what to put on it either.
I have been doing selfshipping for years, but I am new to the community. There's a lot of things I'm unsure about or plain don't know. I'm not used to interacting with others in a community, often lurk and may just be busy with something else, just a heads up in case of any inactivity (or I'm dead, who knows).
BYF/warnings in advance (blog content): lots of NSFW, light gore (blood/vent/etc), dark aesthetic, NOT spoiler free (mainly for TWST JP, Arknights: Endfield and game future content)
Disclaimer: I am not a system and do not have DID/OSDD as far as I know. This is just in case anything I say and/or reblog gives off that impression, since I deal with myself in different manners. I do not intend to fake having it.
Interaction disclaimer: I'm not a very interesting person but I'm open to talking with others, especially other yume/selfshippers. Unfortunately, I do not always have favourable circumstances to chat and/or have a low social battery and tend to reply slow or late, so apologies in advance.
Your f/o is so so proud of you for making it to another day. I know it isn't easy, so know that I am rooting for you, as is your f/o. You are so loved, and they need you to know that too.
Your f/o loves you, even when you're stressed. If something goes wrong, they won't leave you to face it alone. They'll be there with you, helping you through it!
For those with villainous/evil/morally grey/complex f/os who you feel aren’t exactly comforting types or ideal lovers for most scenarios or imagines [or even those who aren’t evil but not quite romantic types], take a moment to imagine how you change them. Your love, attention, presence, the mere vicinity of you seems to change them over time.
It’s not the dulling of their teeth and sanding down of their points, but rather the slow progression of their desire to love you and be there for you making them want to change and be the partner you need them to be. Getting little treats and trinkets and such that reminded them of you with a faux nonchalance, instinctively reaching for you if you are someone who craves physical touch often, keeping an eye out to make sure you’re not only safe but comfortable, all because they love you.
And one day, they can’t help but think to themselves with a smile “When did I become so… Nice?”
Your f/o loves you more than anything in the world. Every imperfection, every quirk, every little thing that makes you… you. So imagine what your f/o says whenever anyone asks what they like about you. What is their first response? Is it one thing they bring up, or does it devolve into a small ramble about all the things that make their heart skip a beat? What do they say that shows how much they love you?
the bravest souls in fan spaces are the people who selfship with a character that already has a wildly popular ship in the fandom. you looked at a tidal wave of fan meta and fics all pairing your fav with another popular character and said okay. but what if i was the one kissing them instead? extremely powerful aura.
Your F/O would beat the shit out of the person who abused you and tried to kill you. They would never let that shit stain get anywhere near you ever again. You're gonna be safe no matter what. You're gonna be protected no matter what. No one is gonna hurt you again. Anyone who tries is gonna end up in a body bag.
there's something so comforting about a protective f/o who knows you're theirs.
they would never cage you and of course they want you to be your own person, but you're not to be messed with when they're around. they would never let people push you around or waste your time, they would never let you be bothered when you want to be left alone. they're always a silent presence by your side, making sure you're comfortable and safe.
Imagine 💭 f/o clinging to you in the morning still half asleep, arms trapping you into their body heat and head nuzzling against you as they mumble a soft ‘no’ under their breath. Looks like it’ll be more than 5 more minutes!
Hi! I was wondering if I could send in a request? Headcanons for Adachi from Persona 4 with a crush/partner who loves to cook and bake for him (male reader specifically if you're okay with writing that)
Of course!!! I hope this is enough!!!
Adachi, regardless of his partner’s gender, is always more than happy to accept gifts from anyone he considers attractive.
When you first offered to make food for him, specifically catering to his tastes alone, it plagued his brain for the entire day. The entire WEEK even. He couldn’t stop thinking about you, his cheeks warmer than he ever expected them to be.
In all honesty, he felt a little… proud? He was lucky enough to have you offer your skills and talent in food creation… for what? His time? His personality? As much as he wanted to believe those were adequate payment for your offer, a little voice in the back of his head told him that it wasn’t exactly fair to you.
Accepting something so nice from someone so handsome without being able to pay back anything of worth felt like a crime! Not that he wasn’t used to committing those, but I digress.
He became obsessed with the idea of how personal you made every meal and dessert feel, how each bite felt like heaven incarnate. Very soon, it hit him that his obsession with your kindness through food had turned into an obsession with the idea of being yours.
Even now, he still gets foolishly giddy about you packing lunches or making dinner for him; even leftovers are a treat when his favorite guy made them!!!
He considers himself the luckiest guy in the whole world, having someone so wonderful care about him so much and providing him with something so intimately kind and inherently selfless… he can’t believe you’d like someone like him!!!
He’s always more than a little eager to show off how much you love him this way… Dojima has definitely heard way more about you than he cares to know. Adachi is definitely the type to oh so very subtly encourage you to deliver snacks and such to him while he’s on the job. Just so he can prove to his colleagues that you’re as great as he says you are!!!
