WittyMean-B

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Love yourself ❤ ~ Bhakti Gadiyar @wittymeanb #bhaktigadiyarquotes #writersofinstagram #writersofinstagramindianwriters #penningdownmymind ✍❤ #writersofig #writersunite #instawriter #writercommunity #womenwhowrite #writers #writings #writerscommunity #writings #writingsociety #writingsocietyofinstagram #poetsofindia #poetsofinstagram #instapoet #instapoem #poemsporn #poems #poets #writers #writings #poetcommunity #poeticconversation #poetscorner #loveyourself #wittymeanb

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Looking back at this year.. just realizing nothing's changed yet everything really has 🙏 Some say New year - Same old sh*t some take the day and countdown way too seriously .. to each his own 👍 To the former, kudos.. never wait for a specific day or time to make specific changes or big decisions.. why? Every day is a new opportunity .. be wise.. resolutions don't work don't last.. To the latter, well.. whatever floats your boat.. if it really makes a difference grab the opportunity and make it yours.. kiss that someone at 12:00, hug that bff.. sit with the gramma and binge watch some show or do whatever but make it last.. don't jus do it at the spur of the moment and then the rest of the year forget what u wanted to prioritize but lost track of or took for granted. My dear dear dear friends.. Every year, every month, every week, every day, every moment you're given in this lifetime is precious. One life to live my friend.. one life.. make it worth it.. 🎀 Don't waste that moment you have Cz not everyone was blessed to wake up today. Eat that tandoori you've been oggling at ever since you saw it on the magazine & spare your body the fat shaming.. that colleague calling you names don't pay your bills sista.. but if it really bothers you go hit that gym, go run miles, go Zumba, go dance that piece of unwanted flesh on you off.. but if you're happy in yours own skin then be it. Own it💪 Go ask him out.. break the stereotypes.. go on that knee & pop that question.. love him today.. make him yours right now.. if he's shy, you be ballsy.. its time we stop doing every thing by the book.. lets create our own novel worthy love life💕 Quit that job.. arrrghghgggh.. all you earn you spend on your meds mister.. on doctors bills for that stress and those zillion cigarette breaks all day all night you take.. is it worth it?? Constant pressure, you dunno when you've eaten last or slept or even had a shower.. its good to be a workaholic but is it good to let it take a toll on your life? What are u working for??? 🤔 Take that trip you always wanted to, even if its alone.. go hike alone.. don't stop yourself jus Cz you're a girl.. you'll learn about places and your own self so much.. go surf those tides, take up a new hobby, cook your own meal, be independent, work like a boss be your own boss, Cz who runs the world??? 😉 Go hug your dad, go cook with mom, go sing in the shower, go wear that fav dress, go scuba dive, go achieve that target, go catch that flight, go hit that club & dance all night away, go grab tat pillow & cry it out but cry once & for all, go adopt that baby, go sign & say YES I DO, jus go right now.. its now or never.. but if you can't and you wait for the new year new day I wish you all the best.. learn from all the mistakes you've made this year, cherish the ones you took for granted, love .. jus love like there's no tomorrow, work hard but party harder, be happy, smile more often, don't hate don't hurt, be good be kind 💗 P.s Last few days of this year, make amends if you have to. Leave all the anger, hatred, rage behind. Enter 2018 with a bigger heart. Be a better human😇 Love Bhakti Gadiyar (WittyMean-B) ❣

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Don’t let it turn you sour .. don’t .. we all grow up eventually (or at least some of us do I assume :p )

We are all kiddish and immature and indecisive and stupid at an age and some point. We love hard we love fast we make hasty decisions, mistakes, we break up we hurt we move on.

Don’t regret what you once cherished. Yes, it hurts.. no past is easy to visit. But why hate? Why spit fire at what was once bliss..

Reminisce and dive in the good of those moments. Let go of the hurt Cz trust me when I tell you it doesn’t help and let you move on. You get stuck in a black hole that you dig yourself up.

Breathe in all that once made you happy & giggle & turned you on or made you hungry & laugh and feel silly yet comfy. Exhale all the bullshit that made you cry, get furious, insecure & doubt your own self worth.

Every person you meet in your life brings a purpose & is there for a reason. The purpose of making you a better person & the reason of letting you learn from the mistakes.

Grow a pair & get a life. Make every moment count. Do you wish to whine about the Crap you faced every second of every day then go on. But understand one thing, this moment lost will never come back . So make the best of what you got.

Yes you tried to love & mend someone but they broke you instead. Yeah yeah! Blah blah.. so what now? Talk to a friend about it.. talk to 2 .. post it or share a relatable quote everywhere .. ?? Nobody cares. Trust me .. NOBODY BLOODY CARES!

So you might as well shut the fuck up about it & do something that’s gonna benefit you. Like for example - fly a kite (just kidding :p ) Oh c'mon take light.. there’s so much more to do in life.. go fulfill that bucket list, go learn a new recipe.. make a new friend.. try a new bar or catch up with old friends.. go bake and ruin the cake but do it.. Smile.. drink.. dance.. talk.. swim.. jog .. laugh it off .. but don’t sit there talk about how crappy your love & life has been.

Cz like I said.. people will give you sympathy today but in the end - NOBODY BLOODY CARES bruh!

Be happy you got to feel loved by another.. you were fortunate to love another.. yes it didn’t work out for whatever reason buddy but that’s life. We humans are full of it.. mistakes flaws & all.. and that’s the catch.. embrace it don’t diminish the value of it by lowering its importance.

Be the good person you were when they fell in love with you & the one you were before the hurt got the better of you. You & the world around you deserve the best version of you. Don’t deprive yourself of the good you deserve & others too.

We all seek love & we deserve it & we’ll get it one way or another today or tomorrow .. till then live & let live..

Love

WittyMean-B

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Everyone's entitled to an opinion. But how we take it or do we even want to acknowledge it, is in our hands. For instance, apps like SayAt.me & Sarahah & so on, are for entertainment purpose. De-stress your all day monotony by reading a sweet compliment or suggestion sent in by an anonymous person who in reality wouldn't dare come up & say it to you. Well that was one of the pros. Cons being, people are going to misuse whatever they can & hence criticise you, belittle you & call you names anonymously too. So what should you do about it? Let me tel you what you shouldn't do, DO NOT GIVE A FUCK. Yeah! That's right I said that. Learn to IGNORE. Cz how & why does someone's mean words matter anyway? Moreover why give someone the privilege of knowing it offended you? Get my point? Keep that bullshit to yourself & just forget about it. Smile upon the good sent to you will you? & seriously, Grow The Fuck Up people. I do not understand posts like - "my opinion isn't an anonymous one, I don't need a mask, sayat.me is for losers, blah blah & more blah" Get a life for fucks sake.. its an app for passing time. Not to compete at Olympics or win politics. Jeez! Such sad little swines out there waiting to ruin everything for everyone. You got a phone, you got an app, your choice. Someone's anonymous text, anonymous insult, ignorance or acceptance, your choice. Make sure at the end of the day you choose to keep your dignity intact. That's all. Happy weekend & happy anonymous life y'all. ~ WittyMean-B ❣

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How it started :

A few years ago when I started writing. I kept it to myself. Never really thought it was worthy of sharing, more so being liked by anyone. But one fine day when I did decide to share it surprisingly I got a few genuine compliments. And honestly that’s a good feeling But not the one that gave me the confidence to do more. What gave me the courage to write a little more was when someone could relate to what I had penned down. That feeling was one of the best that I’d felt in years.

So I decided to continue just jotting down whatever I could think of whenever I got the time to do so. I say that Cz I was pretty much swamped in a 9-7, 6 days a week job and all I wanted to do on the weekend was catch up on some sleep. But I sacrificed a little of that shutting eyes time and did what gave me more peace.

Why it ended : Unfortunately there came a time when I had to stop writing. The natural human tendency of people to judge what’s written to be the authors life story, hampered my spirit to pick up the pen and fill up the page. Sadly, with us artists, singers, writers - everyone always assumes its about our lives, what we sing what we write what we potray. I couldn't handle it. So I quit. I gotta be honest, YES a lot of what I write is inspired by my own life. Thats basically one of the reasons why I did start writing. To be transparent with myself about my feelings and not hide it and suffer. But here’s the thing, NO not everything I write is about me and my personal life. I’m an ardent observer. So I write what I not only hear but I see around me. What I know is happening but not everyone has to guts to admit or express. Sadly not everyone understood that and hence I shut it down. Just couldn’t handle the judgmental eyes, talks and mockery.

The new chapter : But I guess I’m lucky, blessed to have a few close ones to push me in the right direction. Not just encourage me but constantly support me and show me that everyone else’s opinion don’t matter. What matters is what makes me happy. And I realized, what makes my soul happy is sharing my thoughts and words even if it was just sharing it with my book and me.

Why now? Cz I realized its never too late to do what you wanna do. One life to live. Love it today. What if tomorrow never comes.

Now a lil about me: I’m just a girl next door Who loves to pen down thy mind What I say, Shall does not always rhyme But if you’ve ever felt it..You’ll get it, give it time!

Why this name? WittyMean-B like (Vitamin B) 😋 Tryna give you if Not daily then at least a weekly doze of things on maybe yours, but def on my mind.

What you’re in for: My take on music, dance, drama, men, women, gay, trans, sexy, shy, love, hate, relationship, friendship, young, old, food & drinks, dusk & dawn, rain & pain, movies, scandals, break up, make up, body, mind & soul, boring, fun & every thing under the moon and sun😉

Motto: Just wanna be able to make a difference, make someone smile and give comfort, make someone feel like their not alone in what and how they feel. Give someone a voice through my words.

Much Love

WittyMean-B ❣

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I’m not Perfect.

I don’t know who is, but I know I’m not. That’s why I don’t judge anyone. I used to, not anymore. It’s a shameful thing though. Judging someone, judging them on the basis of their looks, their walk, how they talk, who they hang out with, what they wear, how they eat & what not…whew!  Why judge? Who are we to pass a comment on someone else’s personal or professional life? What gives us the right to do so?

Everyone has gone through something or the other in their life that has made them what they are today. Obese, slim, tall, short, rich, poor, dark, fair, educated, non-educated, shy, outgoing, promiscuous, gay etc. everything has its own reasons.

We are humans right? Bound to make mistakes? Haven’t you ever made a mistake? Regretted something u once did? Got high and said something stupid? Broke someone’s heart? Hurt someone on purpose? Lied to a family member or a best friend? Stole something? Called people names? Spread a rumor? Hit someone? Never ever made any mistake? Ever?

So what if she abuses too much, so what if she has guys has her best friends, so what if she doesn’t party, so what if she parties too much, so what if he’s gay, so what if she’s a divorcee, so what if she wears a bikini, so what if he’s not graduate? So what if he's covered in tattoos?

Seriously, SO WHAT? I don't drink nor smoke so does that make me better than people who do? Does that make them bad people just because they do, does drinking or smoking define a person?

I’ve learned, people will hurt you, put you down, cheat on you, stab you in the back, humiliate you, call you names, push you away, so should I take revenge or teach them a lesson? No I won’t and I shouldn’t either. Heard about Karma? Yea, they say she’s a BITCH. Because she haunts you for all the evil you’ve done, and eventually makes you pay for it. So why waste time taking revenge. What goes around comes back around right? I’ve also learned everything that happens, happens for a reason, it teaches you a different lesson each time. Forgive the one who harmed you, but never forget what it taught you. Keeping grudges is going to harm only you, not the one you have a grudge against.

In the past few years of my life, I’ve made many mistakes, apologized too, learned a lot. That’s why I swore to myself I will never ever judge anyone, try my level best never to hurt anyone again, accept people the way they are, and be my true self always. Just wish people could really stop judging other people. World would be a much better place.

I'm not perfect so I'm sure as heaven not ever gonna judge nobody. Are you??