Looking back at this year.. just realizing nothing's changed yet everything really has 🙏 Some say New year - Same old sh*t some take the day and countdown way too seriously .. to each his own 👍 To the former, kudos.. never wait for a specific day or time to make specific changes or big decisions.. why? Every day is a new opportunity .. be wise.. resolutions don't work don't last.. To the latter, well.. whatever floats your boat.. if it really makes a difference grab the opportunity and make it yours.. kiss that someone at 12:00, hug that bff.. sit with the gramma and binge watch some show or do whatever but make it last.. don't jus do it at the spur of the moment and then the rest of the year forget what u wanted to prioritize but lost track of or took for granted. My dear dear dear friends.. Every year, every month, every week, every day, every moment you're given in this lifetime is precious. One life to live my friend.. one life.. make it worth it.. 🎀 Don't waste that moment you have Cz not everyone was blessed to wake up today. Eat that tandoori you've been oggling at ever since you saw it on the magazine & spare your body the fat shaming.. that colleague calling you names don't pay your bills sista.. but if it really bothers you go hit that gym, go run miles, go Zumba, go dance that piece of unwanted flesh on you off.. but if you're happy in yours own skin then be it. Own it💪 Go ask him out.. break the stereotypes.. go on that knee & pop that question.. love him today.. make him yours right now.. if he's shy, you be ballsy.. its time we stop doing every thing by the book.. lets create our own novel worthy love life💕 Quit that job.. arrrghghgggh.. all you earn you spend on your meds mister.. on doctors bills for that stress and those zillion cigarette breaks all day all night you take.. is it worth it?? Constant pressure, you dunno when you've eaten last or slept or even had a shower.. its good to be a workaholic but is it good to let it take a toll on your life? What are u working for??? 🤔 Take that trip you always wanted to, even if its alone.. go hike alone.. don't stop yourself jus Cz you're a girl.. you'll learn about places and your own self so much.. go surf those tides, take up a new hobby, cook your own meal, be independent, work like a boss be your own boss, Cz who runs the world??? 😉 Go hug your dad, go cook with mom, go sing in the shower, go wear that fav dress, go scuba dive, go achieve that target, go catch that flight, go hit that club & dance all night away, go grab tat pillow & cry it out but cry once & for all, go adopt that baby, go sign & say YES I DO, jus go right now.. its now or never.. but if you can't and you wait for the new year new day I wish you all the best.. learn from all the mistakes you've made this year, cherish the ones you took for granted, love .. jus love like there's no tomorrow, work hard but party harder, be happy, smile more often, don't hate don't hurt, be good be kind 💗 P.s Last few days of this year, make amends if you have to. Leave all the anger, hatred, rage behind. Enter 2018 with a bigger heart. Be a better human😇 Love Bhakti Gadiyar (WittyMean-B) ❣