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@wolf-cat-tumbling-down
character in a fight scene: *restrains their opponent by pinning them against the wall by their wrists*
me:
character in a fight scene: *pins their opponent down by straddling their waist and holding their wrists to the floor*
me:
character in a fight scene: *lifting their disarmed opponentās chin slightly with the business end of their weapon*
me:
character in fight scene: *pins down the opponent and leans in close to whisper in their ear*
me:
snorting while laughing is the purest sound and itās not weird or gross
Thank you for this very wholesome positivity
- Personal work -Ā
i donāt want to achieve equality by sinking to menās level, i want them to get on ours! why should i have to unlearn the conversational art of waiting my turn, unlearn sexual self-restraint, unlearn trust in othersā good intentions, unlearn the impulse to cater to othersā needs, just to have a chance at success among savages? why canāt the men learn some fucking manners so we can all conduct our affairs in a civilized manner? i shouldnāt have to stop saying sorry, you say sorry!
In the 80s when I was in my freshman year in college, they still had entirely separate mens and womenās dorms. I was in class waiting for a final to start and one of the guys was telling someone about how he had had to go into a womenās dorm to drop something off, and he was startled to see posters on the walls, flowers, curtains, etc. He said his menās dorm had holes in the walls, things on fire, fights, guys walking around with open wounds and he just didnāt understand why they had to live like this. He said, āI want to live with the women, in civilization.ā
Am reading Sisterhood of Spies, about women working for the OSS during WWII. One of the stories mentions that the women in London had a male visitor who would eat in their mess hall once a month. He was married and wasnāt interested in hitting on any of the women; he just wanted to eat in an atmosphere where people saidĀ āPlease pass the butter,ā instead ofĀ āPASS THE GODDAMNED GREASEā
I dated a guy who brought me along on group activities (movies, video game night, etc.) with four or five other male friends. Once I mentioned to one of the other guys that I hoped I wasnāt intruding on theirĀ āguy timeā or some such. He got this sort of rueful look and said,Ā āThe truth is, I really like it when youāre here because it gives us a reason to act better. When itās just guys, we all have to try to outdo each other with how vile we are.ā
So the moral of these stories are men donāt even treat each other like human beings.
honestly a good partner isnāt necessarily someone who loves the exact same things you love but rather someone who is willing to listen to you ramble on and on about a particular subject that youāre passionate about even if they have little to no interest in it
this is so important
All I can think of is thisā¦
And on the flip-side
FREAKING BE LIKE THIS FOR YOUR PARTNERS!!!
DO THIS!!
P L E A S E
Date someone who will date you
Need me a freak like that
āLet yourself be silently drawn by the strange pull of what you really love. It will not lead you astray.ā
ā RumiĀ (via hyperborisches-maedchen)
you still have so many years to meet so many people you never knew you could love so much
Get your ass on the dance floor
this is already on my blog like five times and i honestly donāt even care
by Evan M. Cohen
CAUSE EVERY TIME WE TOUCH I GET THIS FEELING
EVERY TIME WE KISS I SWEAR I COULD FLY
CANāT U FEEL MY HEART BEAT FAST, I WANT THIS TO LAST
NEED YOU BY MY SIDE
This is the closest gif that can really capture the utter chaotic energy that is released when people hear this song
choose a partner who is good for you. not good for your parents. not good for your image. not good for your bank account. choose someone whoās going to make your life emotionally fulfilling.
āChoose people who choose you.ā
ā Unknown
my heart is different now.
āThey ask, āAre you in love?ā And you sit there quietly, realizing you must not be if you had to think about it.ā
ā N.M.SanchezĀ
