Toxic
Okay, so my last “thoughts, Tumblr?” post went down really well, so I’m gonna give it another go. My partner and me have been arguing recently. It’s the year we both turn 18, me being a few months older (same year, UK). Anyway, we’ve been falling out over the fact that now I’ve left my job in prep for uni, I have no ties so I’ve been going out clubbing with my friends once a week. I’m really sociable and I love all that atmosphere and music and dancing. I never get stupid drunk and I’ve been nothing but loyal to him, but he doesn’t seem to like it and feels he’s been put second, even though I see him as many times a week I can, which is normally 3 or 4. No matter what I say or do, we fall out about it. I reassure him constantly how he’s my priority, how much I love him ect, I try to make him feel that way all I can but he doesn’t. I honestly don’t know what to do, I feel like I’m not doing anything wrong for a girl my age, but he seems to think otherwise. I don’t want to change because I don’t think I’m doing anything wrong, but I feel like there’s an angle I’m missing. I want him to feel loved but I also want to go out with my friends and not feel bad about it? Idk, am I over thinking? Ps, he’s not 18 for another few weeks, so he’s also feeling a bit left out which I completely understand and has been addressed. Am I wrong? Is he wrong for constantly making me feel guilty? Thoughts, Tumblr? - an in-love girlfriend who needs advice xox
