Idk why the west/mainstream Japan misrepresents us so badly but Jiraikei ≈ emo ok? ( ´;゚;ё;゚;)
Me and my anon twitter friends never once stepped foot in a host club, and a lot of us drank Strong Zero/pink monsters as a meme and then at some point it breached containment. Its like if non-tumblr ppl truly believed in Goncharov and inexplicably attacked us for it.
There's def offshoots of jiraikei that are frequenting host clubs and unironically drinking Strong Zero, and they're valid too! Maybe they're the majority now! I'm a bit out of the loop since I live abroad atm.
But its just that those people wrote a bunch of articles as self appointed representatives, and media liked this skew better for shock value views. So people who watched/read those articles began adopting the name, and it snowballed.
Wanted to add my voice, since I'm the only bilingual one of our little corner of jiraikei twitter, and it makes me sad seeing my friends being flamed for things we dont do, bc we're all vulnerable people that gravitated towards this subculture. (We all dress differently! But a lot of us had similar taste. Its a subculture, rather than a fashion type. Seriously, same as emo.)
Many of my small offshoot are queer, rejected by family and society, so we found each other on Twitter. Its similar to the comfort in proana forums. I don't promote self harm, most of us are trying to quit and post when we relapse, bc its better to be honest and open about it in a safe space, than to feel guilt and have someone commit suicide in isolation.
This is probably where the posers got the idea of promoting self harm/gatekeeping.
We DO support each other, albeit clumsily. We're exhausted by mental health care inaccessibility/ableist "positive" placations. None of us had healthy relationships growing up, hence we ended up here. Please cut us some slack, we're learning(`;ω;´)
We DONT promote or egg each other on. We oust abusive, manipulative people.
For me, personally, seeing my truest thoughts out loud was key to recovery. I've stepped away for a year now, so perhaps the subculture has shifted since then, idk.
And in no way do I claim to be a monolith! I just want to remind everyone to take info from various sources and biases, to form a better opinion about a culture drastically different from their own!
Explaining this for a Western mindset is very hard, but the jiraikei hate has sometimes leaned into racism, appropriation, and weaponization of my country's various subcultures. It is ok to love and take part in our subcultures, we are so happy! But to be hostile against a culture foreign to you with information gained solely via the internet/social media/a handful of echo chamber contacts is a red flag. Beware of people who claim to know the sole truth.
And to add to all of that, in Japan, we don't define stiff boundaries the way the west does. Its sickening that some of yall are trying to do a gatekeeping proxy war.














