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everyday i yearn for a podcast of light, L, and matsuda. not for anything plot-wise though. like i just want to see them in a room together discussing the moral ethics of banging an AI or something. like i want those hoes to find out what furries are and then make them take fursona quizzes against their will. like sad boyz except it's just may-or-may-not-be-serial-killers boyz. that's the yotsuba arc i want somebody please tell me i'm not the only one please.
When Zuko isn't able to have a normal conversation on a date in season 2 it's "cute" and he's "such an awkward turtleduck awh oh my god."
When Azula has the exact problem verbatim in The Beach she's "a psychopath" and "a monster"
What, because azula made reference to the military and ruling the world she's a psychopath? What was she meant to do? Huh? You expect Azula to be able to compare their relationship to literally anything else? It isn't like she has a good basis to go off with her own parents.
It's a disgusting double standard
listen while I get your point and yeah, Azula is honestly just a damaged kid as much as Zuko is... The reason Zuko is read as more “adorable” is because... well, he kind of is. Like- during his date in Ba Sing Se, yeah he’s an idiot and sucks at having a normal conversation, but it moreso just manifests in fumbling awkwardness, like any guy nervous about being on a date, really. Zuko kind of just acts like a lovable dumbass who doesn’t know what to do with himself here. Azula’s situation, though, is... not as ‘cute’. Sure, it’s technically a similar context, but her ‘social awkwardness’ manifests COMPLETELY differently to Zuko’s. Instead of just fumbling awkwardly and making herself look like a lovable dumbass, she instead goes off on a tangent about taking over the world, like some kind of supervillain lol. So... yeah, that’s why people think it’s ‘cute’ when Zuko does it, but not with Azula- because while the context is similar, it’s not really the same thing, their behavior is still pretty different, and Azula’s is, arguably, more “negative”.
I have decided to make Razor a werewolf and I liked the result even though I am not very good at painting. What do you think?
Am I the only one who thought of Razor and his wolf when the werewolves pack came out?
Werewolf CC:
- Cas unlock: https://modthesims.info/d/639159/cas-unlocks-v1-1.html
- Head preset: I’m sorry but I don’t think I can put where it’s from because I found it on a site that is not suitable for everyone
- Wolf Legs by @sp-creates: https://www.patreon.com/posts/werewolf-body-67958189
- Tail by @simomo-cc
Okay, I got a notification that you apparently replied to my reblog, but I can't actually find the response. I reblogged and asked before your post was edited to include the info, and also- I was very specifically asking about the head. I already have the legs and tail, but I R E A L L Y want the head.
I have decided to make Razor a werewolf and I liked the result even though I am not very good at painting. What do you think?
Am I the only one who thought of Razor and his wolf when the werewolves pack came out?
yo how the fuck you get your werewolves to look like That??? is there a mod I haven’t found or-
-Pokes head in.- Hellur.~ I've seen you on FF, and your fanfics are epic- and so is your hilarious af profile. So.. hi. -Awkward wave.-
I literally have no idea how old this ask is, I am so sorry, it doesn't give me any dates @.@ So if it's been a million years I'm sorry but I just saw this, but thanks! I'm an AO3 now though so if you'd like to readmy stuff still please show up on there, thanks for reading!
oh my god that was literally like 8 years ago lMAO but hi lmao god I am cringing at my own message awhjdwgjdgjd I was a whole ass cHILD
there is no medical component to a trans kid transitioning
if a little trans boy comes out to his parents & is like 4 all youd do for his transition is cut his hair, buy a new wardrobe, & switch pronouns & possibly change names
no one is gonna put a little 4 year old on testosterone OR puberty blockers until theyre actually about to start puberty & then they give them a few years to really decide if they want to start hormones
a trans kid existing isnt “child abuse.” child abuse is refusing to let your kid live their lives as they truly are & forcing them to present as a gender they arent
radfems who interact with this post will be blocked & your argument will not be read or even considered. i do not care about the opinion of a transphobe & my original post still stands.
a few years ago a kid in my preschool class transitioned socially and the only consequence was that as soon as her best friend discovered that changing your name is allowed she wanted to change hers to Detective
So stay with me here, but fun ballet fact: part of the reason you’re supposed to start ballet young is so you stretch and hold your joint in certain ways regularly enough that your body grows different. You know how men who do ballet look only sort of muscular but then like lift a whole ass person? Their muscles are trained to lie flat like that for flexibility, they don’t bulk up. Girl in your class who always stands in turnout? It’s likely not just habit, her joints probably sit like that now.
I started ballet when I was six and stopped after three years. I then took a break for three years, and came back and did jazz ballet (which has most of the same body mods but without turnout) and tap for another couple of years. And every physio who works on my body looks at my feet, hips and calves and goes “oh you danced”. I was never even flexible enough to do the splits, but you best believe I stand in turnout. I never went en pointe, but I’m 95% sure tap is the reason my feet have random spasms if I don’t take to them with a tennis ball once a week.
When I said I wanted to be a dancer at six years old, adults took that to mean I’d want certain permanent alterations to my body. Unlike with young trans kids, no one was looking to make sure I fully understood what I was getting into. And unlike with young trans kids, these changes were not reversible when I changed my mind. There wasn’t even a way to delay things to buy time (like puberty blockers), it was all or nothing. If I wanted to be a professional dancer, my normal ass joints were a ticking timebomb.
So like ~cis opinion~, but I really don’t have a lot of time for people getting feral about trans kids socially transitioning or going on blockers or even (when they’re old enough for it be relevant) hrt. Me “identifying” as a dancer at six years old was more physically impactful and less informed than if a six year old changed their name and grew their hair, but you don’t see any of the adults in my life getting accused of child abuse.
this one liberal dude on twitter made the (correct) take that parents have overwhelming power over their kids and very often abuse it and restrict children's rights and he was ratio'd by conservatives, communists and liberals alike who made comments like "my kids will have rights when they pay the bills" to "aw are you upset mom and dad didn't you get you a lega set for christmas". way to prove his point lol! any criticism of the power dynamics adults and particularly parents have over kids and how it is often used to abuse kids or refuse to let them exist as themselves is drowned in mockery and the idea that parents have absolute authority over children and that any less than that is actually spoiling them.
i said it before: people only care about Children as an ideal. as property. as something that is Innocent and deserving protection From Evil Traffickers but also something Dumb that barely deserves the status of human with autonomy. and its fucking wild how even the staunchest communists think of this as normal, and how people refuse to understand that this dynamic is how kids are emotionally, physically and sexually abused, as well as robbed of their voices and too scared/ashamed to talk about it.
it's worth saying this dude is the parent of a now adult trans girl, and his reflections absolutely come from parenting as well as how he was expected to behave as the father of a trans daughter, how much power he had over her treatment and the refusal of doctors and teachers to listen to her and going over her head to him so they could misgender her and make him consent to conversion therapy.
he did not do these things, but the expectation and judgement that he as a parent was supposed to take away her rights and the sheer power he had over her as a minor made him reflect a lot. and now people are mocking him for sharing this reflection, even as black kids are killed or sent into the school to prison pipeline, as disabled kids are refused humanity, as parents kill their kids to spite their divorced spouses, as trans kids get their healthcare revoked, as migrant kids remain locked in cages. even as these same people panic over child trafficking and pedophile sex rings and refuse to admit how much csa and abuse is from family members.
https://novaramedia.com/2018/02/20/against-adult-supremacy-the-anti-capitalist-case-for-child-liberation/
The way we treat children entrenches class and teaches oppression, writes Matt Broomfield in his review of the zine anthology “No! Against A
this is my favourite poem ever
It isnt “toxic masculinity”.
It is misandry and body shaming.
In the same way that mocking a woman’s boob size is misogyny and body shaming.
We need to learn to recognize sexism when it happen to men instead of creating new phrases to avoid doing just that.
If a woman’s doing shitty behavior, I’m pretty sure that makes it Toxic Femininity. There’s nothing inherently masculine about this.
When I was introduced to the idea of Toxic Masculinity a decade ago, anything that fell under the purview of “this is what a man should be” that was harmful to men was “toxic masculinity”. So on the flip side, things like body shaming women for boob size would be “toxic femininity” no matter who is doing it because it’s about ideals around femininity.
I think this is where people talk past each other.
Toxic Masculinity DOES NOT MEAN any given man acting in ways that are generally shitty. It is ALSO NOT (as I’ve seen some people misinterpret it) a judgement on masculinity or men as a whole. It’s meant to refer to masculine “ideals” that hurt men on some level.
That said, the OP is also an example of a woman being a much bigger dick than the one she desires.
@angerydome it’s a sexist term with no female equivalent.
Anything to avoid calling it sexism. Especially when it’s coming from women.
Men who body shame women are rightfully called sexists. Misogynists. But women who body shame men do not receive the same treatment apparently.
“Toxic masculinity” covers gender neutral things (things women do like objectify and body shame, and even being manipulative), gender roles (which women also face), and sterotypes.
We call it sexism when it happens to women. But because activists cant stand including men as victims of sexism, a new term that gendered behavior came to be. So we can pretend to care about men, but still blame them.
Toxic masculinity means a SPECIFIC thing though, and it does in fact have a female equivalent- “toxic femininity”. As angerydome said- it’s not about men being shitty, or even an excuse to hate men- it’s about the ideals of what a man “should be”- for instance, “men shouldn’t show emotions, men need to be tough”, etc etc. That type of specific “what defines a REAL man” ideals is what is referred to as toxic masculinity- just like people saying women should always be polite and act submissive and want to be mothers and be “ladylike” would be toxic femininity. Toxic masculinity and toxic femininity ARE both also sexist, however sexism is not inherently toxic masculinity/femininity. There is a distinction, as well as some overlap. General Sexism: “Men suck, I hate men. All men are assholes, kill all men. -generalizing negative statements about men in general.-” Toxic Masculinity: “This man is a pussy because he cries sometimes lol, what a lil bitch. REAL men don’t CRY.” Get the point?
As stated before, when it happens to women, we do not call it “toxic femininity”. When a woman is body shamed, we the man a sexist. And we note how women have standards of beauty.
Clearly when men experience the exact same thing, we call it “toxic masculinity”.
This is an example of women body shaming men, but lets pretend it was men mocking men. When women mock other women’s appearances or enforce gender roles, we call it “internalized misogyny. It is recognized as misogyny (in the name) and the woman im question is considered brainwashed by men (the "patriarchy”), and is thus not really at fault. Another example of this double standard.
And for your crying comparison, compare that to how women are treated when they dont act within their gender roles.
Men have gender roles, expectations, body image issues, they face discrimination, they are stereotyped. Just like women. But when it happens to women, we call it sexism. Misogyny. Many “Gender equality” activists (feminists) still deny that misandry even exists. And so we have “toxic masculinity”.
Get the point?
That... still doesn’t change the fact that “toxic masculinity”, when used, means specifically what I and angerydome said it means. It’s a more specific term than sexism, so it gets used. Just because most people in general wouldn’t use the equivalent term for women doesn’t automatically mean the usage of the word is incorrect. Yes, toxic masculinity is sexism, but not all sexism is specifically what is referred to as toxic masculinity. I will point out though that the human race has been, for a very long time throughout our history, patriarchal, with women having less rights than men, and expectations of what makes an “ideal woman” have been largely influenced by men throughout history, just like how a lot of expectations of what makes a “real man” is also largely influenced by other men. Expectations for how a woman is supposed to behave and act were largely pushed by men throughout history- and that is why there is a double standard in how these things are discussed. These are ideals men had about other men, and ideals men had about women- not ideals women had about other women. Women throughout history behaved in a traditionally “feminine” manner for the approval of men, not for the approval of other women, and that is why there is a difference. Many of these ideals were taught by a patriarchal society, and only recently have these ways of thinking about gender roles begun to change. Some women may continue to perpetuate these ideals against other women, but that does not change the original roots of the problem- which were misogynistic in nature.
this is my favourite poem ever
It isnt “toxic masculinity”.
It is misandry and body shaming.
In the same way that mocking a woman’s boob size is misogyny and body shaming.
We need to learn to recognize sexism when it happen to men instead of creating new phrases to avoid doing just that.
If a woman’s doing shitty behavior, I’m pretty sure that makes it Toxic Femininity. There’s nothing inherently masculine about this.
When I was introduced to the idea of Toxic Masculinity a decade ago, anything that fell under the purview of “this is what a man should be” that was harmful to men was “toxic masculinity”. So on the flip side, things like body shaming women for boob size would be “toxic femininity” no matter who is doing it because it’s about ideals around femininity.
I think this is where people talk past each other.
Toxic Masculinity DOES NOT MEAN any given man acting in ways that are generally shitty. It is ALSO NOT (as I’ve seen some people misinterpret it) a judgement on masculinity or men as a whole. It’s meant to refer to masculine “ideals” that hurt men on some level.
That said, the OP is also an example of a woman being a much bigger dick than the one she desires.
@angerydome it’s a sexist term with no female equivalent.
Anything to avoid calling it sexism. Especially when it’s coming from women.
Men who body shame women are rightfully called sexists. Misogynists. But women who body shame men do not receive the same treatment apparently.
“Toxic masculinity” covers gender neutral things (things women do like objectify and body shame, and even being manipulative), gender roles (which women also face), and sterotypes.
We call it sexism when it happens to women. But because activists cant stand including men as victims of sexism, a new term that gendered behavior came to be. So we can pretend to care about men, but still blame them.
Toxic masculinity means a SPECIFIC thing though, and it does in fact have a female equivalent- “toxic femininity”. As angerydome said- it’s not about men being shitty, or even an excuse to hate men- it’s about the ideals of what a man “should be”- for instance, “men shouldn’t show emotions, men need to be tough”, etc etc. That type of specific “what defines a REAL man” ideals is what is referred to as toxic masculinity- just like people saying women should always be polite and act submissive and want to be mothers and be “ladylike” would be toxic femininity. Toxic masculinity and toxic femininity ARE both also sexist, however sexism is not inherently toxic masculinity/femininity. There is a distinction, as well as some overlap. General Sexism: “Men suck, I hate men. All men are assholes, kill all men. -generalizing negative statements about men in general.-” Toxic Masculinity: “This man is a pussy because he cries sometimes lol, what a lil bitch. REAL men don’t CRY.” Get the point?
when you look at her heritage and she dirty
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Chill, it’s a joke.
Ngl you probably could have explained its a Lioden joke ab lion heritages and “clean” vs. “dirty” breeding. This person probably has no idea what the context of this joke is and thus is confused.
Happy Trans Day of Visibility 2021! This year, we celebrate Trans Week of Action and work against dangerous transphobic legislation progressing all over the U.S.
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If you think like that, please don’t ever have children.
Listen, my parents installed a lock on my door so I could lock everyone out of my room if I wanted to at sometime around 8 years old. They had a key of course for safety but they’ve never had to use it and they’ve never used it when they didn’t have to.
I was allowed full access to any books, movies, and internet I wanted fully informed about our family beliefs and practices but I was given no supervision once I reached about 13 because my parents trusted me to stick to the rules or not as I felt and come to them if there was anything that I had questions about.
As long as I said where I was going, who I was with, and when I was going to be back and then phone if anything changed I was allowed to do pretty much as I pleased from 13 onward.
I moved back in with my parents after university and the first conversation we had was my dad telling me that if I felt like they were treating me like a child to please tell them because they had no intention of doing so.
I still live with them and I’m comfortable here as an adult. When I eventually move out again, which I feel no rush to do because I feel respected and given more than enough elbow room, I will probably talk to them often if not everyday. Because they’ve always respected my privacy and my autonomy both physically and emotionally. If you want an independent and fictional child trusting them and giving them their space will do you many more favours than not.
meanwhile, my parents…
password protected my computer so i had to get permission every time i wanted to use it
put a passcode lock on our pantry so we couldn’t eat without permission
regularly checked our internet browsing history
shut off the internet at regular intervals, including when i needed it for university homework
did monthly checks of our bank statements and would confiscate money if they didn’t approve of our activities
in response, i went behind their backs and opened a new bank account, got a secret job, bought my own groceries, and used the wifi from the school across the street. they didn’t succeed in disciplining me. all they did was force me to distance myself from them.
your children are not your property. they are human beings, and they deserve basic human rights.
nothing in this world teaches you to lie and sneak around like a parent who doesn’t believe you should have privacy
it's 2022. donald trump has died in disgrace days after being impeached and jailed. my chemical romance's new album is coming out the same day as the new spiderverse movie. the lizzo and janelle monaé collab song is blowing up the radio. lil nas x has a verse in it. you and your partner have time and energy for dates after work after jeff bezos' assets have been seized and distributed to the public in the wake of his arrest for keeping employees in unsafe working conditions.
oh what a life
Like to charge, reblog to cast.
Everyone has been vaccinated for free and the virus hasn’t caused a single death in months.
Those dates you go on with your partner? They’re in public. Unmasked. Your server smiles at you. Everyone feels safe.
You can hug your friends.
You can see a movie. The people in the movie are gay people of color and they kiss and live happily ever after.
And so will you.
LIKE TO CHARGE, REBLOG TO CAST
Or do both for twice the punch!
Story time: I’m a trans guy. I have an identical twin. We’re both tall, androgynous, and have naturally deep voices
In high school a rumor was spread that one of us was trans. For years, everyone in school had convinced themselves that my twin was “the trans one”. She rolled with it to keep me safe, and said it felt like a compliment to be mistaken for a trans woman since she looked up to a lot of trans women. That didn’t stop the bullying, but it’s easier to deal with when it’s directed at the wrong person. I’m engaged to a feminine cis guy who is several inches shorter than me. I have 20-30lbs on him and I can dead lift him. He’s more delicate and soft both physically and socially. He cries during sad movies, owns half a million stuffed animals, and clings to my arm when he’s nervous or it’s cold out (oh yeah, also he’s adorable) Whenever the topic of being trans comes up, cis people tend to think he’s the one who is trans. Direct all “what do your parents think?” comments onto him. Completely ignore me. Ask him invasive/transphobic questions about his body. Tell him “you pass so well!” through grit teeth. Like with my sister, I get pretty pissed about this, but there’s not much I can do about it. I have had to argue with cis people to establish the fact I’m trans because they don’t believe me & think I’m joking. they’re like “but he’s - no, she’s trans!” and frantically point fingers at my fiance and sister. Because there’s no way an adult cis woman could be taller than 5′9 and choose to be bare-faced, and an adult cis man could love How To Train Your Dragon 2 with a fiery passion, enough to watch it 3 times in the theatre. Terfs take one look at us and try to convince my sister she’ll never have a uterus or that she’s “appropriating women’s spaces”. Transphobes say my boyfriend will “always be a girl” and call him gendered slurs. They talk over them, block them, and grill them about what genitalia they have online. Completely unknowing that they’re talking to two cisgender people who are gay and gnc. @ young, closeted, scared trans people: any cis person who insists they can somehow “know” your “birth sex” by looking at you because “it’s so obvious!” is full of shit. people come in all shapes and sizes regardless of gender. Not only are they being transphobic, but they’re being homophobic too.
reminder that biden wants to:
raise the minimum wage to $15 an hour
scrap past marijuana convictions
make college free for two years
increase the pay for teachers, particularly in underfunded schools
significantly increase taxes on the rich (both direct wealth taxes along with additional taxes on major corporations)
have universal background checks for firearm purchases
get us back into the paris agreement in order to switch to clean energy by 2035 (and his plan has been outlined already and the first few steps have been specified)
end the cocaine sentencing disparity (as it is deeply racist)
abolish the death penalty
support a government mandated 12 weeks of paid family leave for workers
eliminate private prisons
this man fully acknowledges the science behind climate change (unlike trump), wants to work to fix certain racist elements in american society (unlike trump), supports the lower and middle classes (unlike trump), is willing to put his money where his mouth is (unlike trump), and isn’t a full on fascist that ignores the global pandemic and takes the side of neo-nazis and white supremacists (unlike trump). biden is miles better than trump. is he the ideal candidate? no, but he is willing to work towards making the USA a more progressive place and that is the first step we need to take. vote blue.
