Okay but what this potentially says about Elrond and the rest of the elves he was raised by is absolutely heartwarming. Because IRL humans need a certain amount of touch and affection and hugs and stuff. Itās particularly important for things like brain development and while it varies from person to person itās still more than what elf kids need
And it honestly looks like Aragorn is not only comfortable with this kind of physical affection, heās used to it.Ā
Which makes me think that instead of looking at young Aragorn, and asking him to be more like an elf to fit in with those around them. Elrond looked at this kid and and thought to himselfĀ āhow can I be more like what this child needs to thriveāĀ
Aragorn has been raised by Elves since he was only 2 years old. So if weāre going byĀ Piagetās theories of child development, that puts Aragorn, (who would have been called Estel at the time)Ā in the pre-operational stage. Or somewhere thereabouts. So Elrond is raising this kid when heās learning to talk. When heās constantly askingĀ āwhy?ā about everything.Ā
Young Estel would have grown up surrounded by elves and elf children and just by virtue of not being an elf, he probably would have had to deal with feeling less capable than those around him. He wouldnāt have been able to do things like run across snow, and didnāt have the ability to see as far as they did with theirĀ āelf eyesā and I am imagining all manner of bruises and skinned knees as he tries to keep up anyway.Ā
And it would take some getting used to his new surrounding, but Ā I canāt stop picturing the first time tiny little Estel runs full tilt across the room and hugs Elrondās leg.Ā
And instead of scolding him or asking him to be more like an elf to fit in, Elrond consciously sets aside his own discomfort in the face of what this child needs to thrive. And if what Estel needs is hugs, then hugs he shall have.Ā
Elrond picking up itty bitty Aragorn in a great big hug, and being just as uncomfortable about it, but hiding it well because this child was entrusted to his care and he will not let the boy grow up feeling unwanted or unloved.
And so Aragorn grew up surrounded by elves, but he grew up to be someone who naturally and unselfconsciously displays affection.Ā
I think that speaks volumes about Elrond.Ā
He raised this kid from age 2 to age 20 (so the majority of his formative years and well through his teens) and it was around then that ElrondāsĀ own daughter gets back form visiting her grandmother Galadriel and meets this boy for the first time.
So I have NO IDEA what the various stages of child development would be for an elf, but I doubt their exactly the same.
Sure, Elrond might seem distant now, but there is no way Aragorn became the guy who is constantly oversteppingĀ elves personal boundaries to display affection without Elrond choosing to sacrifice his personal boundaries for the sake of a childās well being.
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